re: Dealing with a break up as a father

Honestly man saying you and your wife can't get along with a one year old is one of the biggest no shite statements I've ever heard. Having your first child is extremely life changing for both parents. The mother is dealing with emotions and hormones she can't control and isn't used to and the father feels like his freedom has been taken away. It can take a long time to get used to the change and many times you're both different people just like you might be different from your younger self. I'd advise you to sit down with your wife and try to understand each other. Your needs have changed. This is a difficult time for all parents. Figure it out for your child and each other. You'll regret a life without seeing your child every day.