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Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58750 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to
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Sweet 16 and Elite 8


Good

quote:

Louisville


Not so good

Hope your car does not get vandalized by he locals.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
107274 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to
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No pics, no advice


It does hamper the ability to reach a truly informed opinion on the subject.
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to
Need pics to give an informed answer.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10399 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to
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3 months
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haven’t had the “exclusive” talk yet
Yeah, I’m not sleeping with someone for 3 months while he’s probably sleeping with other women.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
35190 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to
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but was her move a bit presumptuous or forward?

You sound like a self sabotaging dipshit, stop over thinking it and go to the fricking games
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
19470 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to
Does she have kids?
Divorce(s)
Tatoo(s)

If yes
Watch bball
PIIHB
Play games

If no
Do what you want and be yourself
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51482 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:43 pm to
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Well yeah, but I can’t imagine any scenario where I would have planned an out of town trip with her before confirming our status.

She might assume after 3 months y'all are not seeing other people but I don't know if y'all see each all the time or like once every two weeks. Are you the guy that's a little older? 40s/50s at least? Women that age don't waste much time
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1477 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:46 pm to
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I’m probably overthinking this, but that’s what I do


quote:

I really like her and I REALLY want to go to these games, but was her move a bit presumptuous or forward?


No you’re just being dumb nucklehead. Who cares if she was forward, you really like her, so that is a win — don’t play hard to get like some women do.

But I’ll cut you some slack — last woman I dated scheduled a double date with her good friend as well invited me to a house in the mountains with a couple of her good friends (and brother) shortly thereafter. I remember thinking “oh, are we super serious now — do I basically have a girlfriend?” I remember discussing with a friend. But I did know I really enjoyed her company so far and she was a 180 from prior GFs.

Anyway, we just got married a few months ago and couldn’t be happier. So go for it.
Posted by TomJoadGhost
Alabama
Member since Nov 2022
1003 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:48 pm to
I’m 54, she’s 55. I’ve told her I’m not a serial dater and she was the only one I was seeing, so maybe she took that as us being exclusive. We see each other 3-4 times a week, on average, but talk/text every day. She travels somewhat frequently for work, so that throws the averages off.

We’ve both been divorced for 13 years, neither of us have kids, and we’ve both only had one serious relationship since our respective divorces. It’s weird how similar our life paths have been.
Posted by UncleFestersLegs
Member since Nov 2010
14076 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to
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She sounds awesome.
yeah this dude is an idiot. No way he dpesn't totally frickup what's a wide open layup
This post was edited on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1477 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to
Go, literally nothing to lose except a weekend if all hell breaks lose. Nothing but upside here.
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12375 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to
This story isn’t real.
Posted by TomJoadGhost
Alabama
Member since Nov 2022
1003 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm to
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You sound like a self sabotaging dipshit,


I am definitely this. I almost ended things with her back in January because she wore too much jewelry on a date. I’m the fricking worst.
Posted by RockyStop
Chainsaw City
Member since Jun 2008
4349 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm to
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Dating Question


Dude came here for this, lol
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
23252 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:52 pm to
Watch games, get laid.
Don’t frick this up.
Roll Tide.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49085 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:52 pm to
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about 3 months now
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By now I’ve usually destroyed the relationship


I remember being 15 - 37 years old
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51482 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:53 pm to
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I’m 54, she’s 55. I’ve told her I’m not a serial dater and she was the only one I was seeing, so maybe she took that as us being exclusive. We see each other 3-4 times a week, on average, but talk/text every day. She travels somewhat frequently for work, so that throws the averages off.

Yeah she probably assumes y'all are exclusive
Posted by papasmurf1269
Hells Pass
Member since Apr 2005
21221 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:54 pm to
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Go to the game and try not to frick this up. You’re welcome.
This
Posted by TigerFred
Feeding hamsters
Member since Aug 2003
27659 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:56 pm to
Go this weekend and tell her if she is really serious then she should get final four tickets.
Posted by 0jersey
Paradise
Member since Sep 2006
1875 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:56 pm to
3-4x/week and talking and texting daily is pretty much a serious relationship.

You said yourself you really like her, and at your age that sort of thing doesn’t come around often. Enjoy it while you got it.

Ask yourself what exactly are you scared of?
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