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re: Dating Question
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to TomJoadGhost
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to TomJoadGhost
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Sweet 16 and Elite 8
Good
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Louisville
Not so good
Hope your car does not get vandalized by he locals.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to Kashmir
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No pics, no advice
It does hamper the ability to reach a truly informed opinion on the subject.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:41 pm to TomJoadGhost
Need pics to give an informed answer.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to TomJoadGhost
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3 months
quote:Yeah, I’m not sleeping with someone for 3 months while he’s probably sleeping with other women.
haven’t had the “exclusive” talk yet
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to TomJoadGhost
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but was her move a bit presumptuous or forward?
You sound like a self sabotaging dipshit, stop over thinking it and go to the fricking games

Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:42 pm to TomJoadGhost
Does she have kids?
Divorce(s)
Tatoo(s)
If yes
Watch bball
PIIHB
Play games
If no
Do what you want and be yourself
Divorce(s)
Tatoo(s)
If yes
Watch bball
PIIHB
Play games
If no
Do what you want and be yourself
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:43 pm to TomJoadGhost
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Well yeah, but I can’t imagine any scenario where I would have planned an out of town trip with her before confirming our status.
She might assume after 3 months y'all are not seeing other people but I don't know if y'all see each all the time or like once every two weeks. Are you the guy that's a little older? 40s/50s at least? Women that age don't waste much time

Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:46 pm to TomJoadGhost
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I’m probably overthinking this, but that’s what I do
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I really like her and I REALLY want to go to these games, but was her move a bit presumptuous or forward?
No you’re just being dumb nucklehead. Who cares if she was forward, you really like her, so that is a win — don’t play hard to get like some women do.
But I’ll cut you some slack — last woman I dated scheduled a double date with her good friend as well invited me to a house in the mountains with a couple of her good friends (and brother) shortly thereafter. I remember thinking “oh, are we super serious now — do I basically have a girlfriend?” I remember discussing with a friend. But I did know I really enjoyed her company so far and she was a 180 from prior GFs.
Anyway, we just got married a few months ago and couldn’t be happier. So go for it.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:48 pm to fallguy_1978
I’m 54, she’s 55. I’ve told her I’m not a serial dater and she was the only one I was seeing, so maybe she took that as us being exclusive. We see each other 3-4 times a week, on average, but talk/text every day. She travels somewhat frequently for work, so that throws the averages off.
We’ve both been divorced for 13 years, neither of us have kids, and we’ve both only had one serious relationship since our respective divorces. It’s weird how similar our life paths have been.
We’ve both been divorced for 13 years, neither of us have kids, and we’ve both only had one serious relationship since our respective divorces. It’s weird how similar our life paths have been.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to Mouth
quote:yeah this dude is an idiot. No way he dpesn't totally frickup what's a wide open layup
She sounds awesome.
This post was edited on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to TomJoadGhost
Go, literally nothing to lose except a weekend if all hell breaks lose. Nothing but upside here.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:50 pm to TomJoadGhost
This story isn’t real.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm to Epic Cajun
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You sound like a self sabotaging dipshit,
I am definitely this. I almost ended things with her back in January because she wore too much jewelry on a date. I’m the fricking worst.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:51 pm to TomJoadGhost
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Dating Question
Dude came here for this, lol
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:52 pm to TomJoadGhost
Watch games, get laid.
Don’t frick this up.
Roll Tide.
Don’t frick this up.
Roll Tide.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:52 pm to TomJoadGhost
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about 3 months now
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By now I’ve usually destroyed the relationship
I remember being 15 - 37 years old
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:53 pm to TomJoadGhost
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I’m 54, she’s 55. I’ve told her I’m not a serial dater and she was the only one I was seeing, so maybe she took that as us being exclusive. We see each other 3-4 times a week, on average, but talk/text every day. She travels somewhat frequently for work, so that throws the averages off.
Yeah she probably assumes y'all are exclusive
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:54 pm to TomJoadGhost
quote:This
Go to the game and try not to frick this up. You’re welcome.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:56 pm to TomJoadGhost
Go this weekend and tell her if she is really serious then she should get final four tickets.
Posted on 3/20/23 at 4:56 pm to TomJoadGhost
3-4x/week and talking and texting daily is pretty much a serious relationship.
You said yourself you really like her, and at your age that sort of thing doesn’t come around often. Enjoy it while you got it.
Ask yourself what exactly are you scared of?
You said yourself you really like her, and at your age that sort of thing doesn’t come around often. Enjoy it while you got it.
Ask yourself what exactly are you scared of?
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