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re: Dating Advice: Are my dating views radical?
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:33 pm to northshorebamaman
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:33 pm to northshorebamaman
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Walt already does this
Walt is hilarious sometimes
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:34 pm to lsunurse
I guess your right
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:34 pm to dbeck
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How ugly are you that even the Catholic priests didn't throw you a bone?
Nice low blow there. I wasn't a choir boy. Most people would probably just call me a cafeteria Catholic.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:34 pm to TLOTT
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BellaTigre can you elaborate on your comment that my delivery seemed "cold"?
I can appreciate your need to lay your cards out on the table but it was just very sterile.
Women are so temperamental and sensitive. We overthink. You have her so much information to process at one time and this was via text. Emotions are lost.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:35 pm to TLOTT
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You really think I sound crazy to women when I bring up my viewpoints on dating? I truly thought I was just being honest and open with them.
Yes. Brutal honesty doesn’t need to happen during the early pre-meet texting. That only works if you’re being funny & self deprecating. This is not your thing.
You don’t sound crazy; you just sound bitter. I don’t want to be punished because of something another woman did to you, especially before we meet.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:35 pm to Tester1216
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I can appreciate your need to lay your cards out on the table but it was just very sterile.
Sterile just because it was sent via text message or sterile due to my delivery? You also mentioned I came off as emotionless. Could you elaborate why you said that?
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:36 pm to TLOTT
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At times it definitely feels like I'm observing life more than actually participating in life.
What are your hobbies or interest?
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:37 pm to OMLandshark
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Looks aren’t as important for women. Really fricking funny and generous fat guy is way more attractive to them than a thin mediocre cheapskate.
Women want a big dick. Preferably a monster black one. A skinny cheapskate with a 12” cock is going to get more women than anything. Nobody wants a fat slob no matter how funny or rich they are. Heck they can’t even see their own cock.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:37 pm to TLOTT
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Sterile just because it was sent via text message or sterile due to my delivery? You also mentioned I came off as emotionless. Could you elaborate why you said that?
Both. It was almost like a business deal.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:37 pm to Evil Little Thing
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Yes. Brutal honesty doesn’t need to happen during the early pre-meet texting. That only works if you’re being funny & self deprecating. This is not your thing.
If a woman said that to me before I even knew her I'd think hard pass.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:38 pm to Evil Little Thing
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You don’t sound crazy; you just sound bitter. I don’t want to be punished because of something another woman did to you, especially before we meet.
But I guess my point is I don't look at it as a punishment. After the first few dates I would be glad to start paying for things. I just think it's a show of good faith to go dutch the first few dates. I think it also shows to me that the woman is financially committed to a relationship and not just looking for a free dinner. I don't feel like I was actively trying to punish the woman for what other women have done to me.
You do read me pretty well, I don't want to be bitter towards woman but I can't lie that I don't have a little bitterness over what some women have done to me over the years. My trust has definitely been violated by several women.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:38 pm to TLOTT
I wouldnt go into it as heavy as you did, but nothing wrong with going dutch. Different world. Sounds like she was doing what you said you were trying to avoid.
Good luck man. Just hone the delivery better.
Good luck man. Just hone the delivery better.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:39 pm to TLOTT
Promise us you’ll move to Poland and try a fresh start before you shoot up a mall here in the States
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:40 pm to TLOTT
Take the money you were going to spend on a vasectomy and use it to go to Nevada and rent some hookers.
And stop taking advice from women about how to get women. They have no clue how to get laid because it takes them literally zero effort.
And stop taking advice from women about how to get women. They have no clue how to get laid because it takes them literally zero effort.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:40 pm to TLOTT
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I just think it's a show of good faith
I think talking to you and telling you she wants to continue to talk to you as a show of good faith.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:41 pm to Tester1216
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What are your hobbies or interest?
Traveling, Tennis, Watching Sports, Outdoor activities, swimming and kayaking. I also enjoy reading (various types, really almost anything) as well as watching series (specifically sci-fi, anime and fantasy). I like to believe I am up for a lot of different activities.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:41 pm to TLOTT
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I think it also shows to me that the woman is financially committed to a relationship and not just looking for a free dinner.
I'd rather eat a spam sandwich than go on a bad blind date
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:43 pm to TLOTT
Do you do all those things alone?
You need some bros
You need some bros
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:43 pm to Tester1216
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I think talking to you and telling you she wants to continue to talk to you as a show of good faith.
It still seems unfair to me for a man to have more at stake on a first date than a woman does. In a perfect world money wouldn't matter at all but money does matter.
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:43 pm to TLOTT
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You do read me pretty well, I don't want to be bitter towards woman but I can't lie that I don't have a little bitterness over what some women have done to me over the years. My trust has definitely been violated by several women.
That’s understandable. I don’t know what happened, but I think it would be really helpful to try to let it go. Look for commonalities between the situations where you were burned so you can try to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Take up hobbies (tennis? volleyball?) where you can meet women while having fun. Seeing a man having fun is attractive.
And I agree with coffee or something first, if you don’t want to be a meal ticket. Then you don’t have to have this conversation.
This post was edited on 3/20/19 at 10:46 pm
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