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re: Dad Makes Son Run to School for Bullying

Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:13 pm to
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:13 pm to
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The dad definitely got what he wanted. This shite is everywhere now.

Yep. And how do strangers discussing this on random message boards help the kid? It's laughable to pretend this guys primary motivation was his kids well being.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:14 pm to
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Yep. And how do strangers discussing this on random message boards help the kid? It's laughable to pretend this guys primary motivation was his kids well being.


Well, I'm not clairvoyant like you....
Posted by AUTimbo
Member since Sep 2011
3374 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:15 pm to
I'm with Roger on this one.

Whether it's the physical aspect of the punishment or the shaming, the bottom line is getting the message through to the kid that that type of behaviour will not be tolerated and will be punished each and every time. No matter which is the true motivational aspect, the bottom line is the end result.

That's " Old School" and it's what we need to get back to if we, as a society , are going to fix the "partcipation trophy" age groups from all the modern day "time-out" BS forms of punishment that flat out don't work.

Anybody who played football knows that a major screw-up can force a session of "Bull-in-the Ring"....a punishment that quickly cures all personality/team issues in one fifteen minute application.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:16 pm to
There’s a lot of bullies on TD. The admins should crackdown on bullying but they won’t. They’re more concerned with being buddy buddy with owlfan.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:16 pm to
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Well, I'm not clairvoyant like you....

Don't sell yourself short. I've seen examples of your clairvoyance in in parenting threads. You just find it convenient to hide behind "father knows best" this time.
Posted by Geauxboy
NW Arkansas
Member since Oct 2006
4856 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:16 pm to
L1C4

Please don't reproduce
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:18 pm to
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laughable to pretend this guys primary motivation was his kids well being.



I have to agree. The exceptional good parents I know of would never go the route this guy did.

Cowboy baw got the attention he so desired. Now he can hit up Mcd's and fill his fat face while reading comments on his video.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:18 pm to
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I've seen examples of your clairvoyance in in parenting threads.


Links?

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You just find it convenient to hide behind "father knows best" this time.


Nah. It's a fact the father of a child knows far more than you or I.

You're just projecting in here
Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
25029 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:18 pm to
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Dude there are a million things that a parent can do to his or her daughter that if a coach did, would result in firing.

This is borderline at best.



What are you babbling about? Just move on. You tried to claim a team running conditioning drills would be the same as a coach making a kid run as punishment, videoing it and blasting it on FB. That is all we're talking about here.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:19 pm to
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Maybe cps needs to give dear ole dad a visit.




I hope you are joking. What is the issue? Kid gets suspended on bus for bullying, dad makes kid run to school, which is about a mile away from school. What's the worst thing that happens here? The kid gets some exercise? "Let's call cps. It's not like they have serious situations to deal with so they can waste their time on some non issue bullshite".
Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
25029 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:20 pm to
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Anybody who played football knows that a major screw-up can force a session of "Bull-in-the Ring"....a punishment that quickly cures all personality/team issues in one fifteen minute application.


Again. No one is saying the punishment is the issue. Some of you get lost down the rabbit hole in these threads.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:26 pm to
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Links?

You know damn well that no one is digging through your 140,000 post history for anything but I'll be sure to point out examples in the future. You're normally pretty active in parenting threads so I'm sure more examples are forthcoming.
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Nah. It's a fact the father of a child knows far more than you or I.

Of course he know's more about the individual child but now you're arguing that he is correct, by default, about his parenting choices, simply by virtue of being his parent and that any criticism is "projecting". If his method were say, beating the child (while staying within the law), would you stand by your argument?

And I know your answer to that because I've seen you post about spanking.
This post was edited on 3/7/18 at 2:27 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:29 pm to
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posting it online seems like personal gratification for the father, and bullying unto itself.





I agree with this.. But you know how it is today.. If you don't post it on a social media platform it didn't happen..

But the kid bullied, dad punished him by making him run a mile to school... No problem. but dad records it, puts it up on youtube and then all of a sudden him and his son are getting all kinds of press because the dad was parenting..
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:30 pm to
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And I know your answer to that because I've seen you post about spanking.


I disagree with it but it can benefit some kids. I've never stated it can't be beneficial at time. I also don't question motives on the issue

How do you know the broadcast wasn't a message to other parents and school administration that he was doing something about the problem.

quote:

You know damn well that no one is digging through your 140,000 post history for anything but I'll be sure to point out examples in the future. You're normally pretty active in parenting threads so I'm sure more examples are forthcoming.



Ahhh... gotcha. The ole throw something to see if it sticks routine
This post was edited on 3/7/18 at 2:32 pm
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:32 pm to
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How do you know the broadcast wasn't a message to other parents and school administration that he was doing something about the problem.

Last I checked telephones and face-to-face conversations were still a thing.
Posted by Sid in Lakeshore
Member since Oct 2008
41956 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:33 pm to
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"But dad I learned it from you." Now we know why the kid is a little a-hole. Maybe cps needs to give dear ole dad a visit.



OMG how stupid can you be? Disciplining his son is not at all similar to bullying.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
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Ahhh... gotcha. The ole throw something to see if it sticks routine

Take it however you need to. I'm not searching through your 140,000 posts but thanks to those same posts I've read your opinion many times.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:34 pm to
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Last I checked telephones and face-to-face conversations were still a thing.


People just post to social media now.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38577 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:37 pm to
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People just post to social media now.

Hmmm. Well, I still communicate with my kids school in person or on the phone. I haven't made the leap to doing parent conferences by Facebook yet. Guess I'm just old fashioned.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70136 posts
Posted on 3/7/18 at 2:39 pm to
But but but this is trashy
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