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Coronavirus has taken both my grandparents

Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:29 pm
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:29 pm
Just found out my grandfather died tonight around 9:30-10:00. Grandmother died March 28, we buried her yesterday. My grandfather was unable to go to the funeral. It was a funeral unfitting of the life she lived. With my grandfather, it’ll be the same way. Both died of complications stemming from China flu. fricking sucks man.

They’re my mom’s parents, they had the flu for about a week, mom took them to the hospital one afternoon because they were old and were having a hard time shaking it. They tested positive for the flu and not corona. Fast forward about a week, and they were both fading quickly. They both were tested and as it turns out, they both got it and they both got bilateral pneumonia from going to the hospital for the flu. Doctors wouldn’t even allow them in the same room in the end.

From my mom trying to take care of them, she has also contracted the virus and is still trying to work it out of her system. Low grade but persistent fever and a very dry cough that’s persistent. Nobody can hug my mom’s neck right now, not even my dad who has been staying at their house alone while my mom stays at my grandparents house trying to beat the virus. Nobody other than my mom was able to go see my grandfather since they admitted him to the COVID floor.

Making matters worse for us is that my mom’s only sibling is currently on hospice. Her younger brother has cancer all over his body and is somehow still clinging on. He doesn’t have much longer either.

This is going to be an incredibly rough next few months for my mom who just retired in December.

My wife and I just found out a couple weeks ago that we’re expecting our first child together. The kid would’ve been my grandparents’ first great-grandchild. We told my mom the day my grandmother died to try and lift her spirits a bit.

Hell, the only grandparent I have left is my Alzheimer riddled grandmother on my dad’s side who is literally unable to even form words now.

fricking China man...frick that place.

A local Tom Rinaldi type did a story on my grandparents. It’s pretty damn touching.

ETA: sorry if the post is kinda difficult to understand, I didn’t really proofread it. I was just typing what came into my head.
This post was edited on 4/9/20 at 11:44 pm
Posted by John88
Member since Sep 2015
6208 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:31 pm to
Damn man. So sorry to hear this. They look very sweet.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:31 pm to
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry, that is unbearable. Where do you all live? Would like to add your family to prayer list.
Posted by Damone
FoCo
Member since Aug 2016
32735 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:32 pm to
Sorry to hear that. On the bright side, you got to enjoy having grandparents into adulthood. Many don’t get to experience that.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:32 pm to
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Oh my goodness. I am so sorry, that is unbearable. Where do you all live? Would like to add your family to prayer list.


Shreveport/Bossier area, and thanks for the prayers.
This post was edited on 4/9/20 at 11:33 pm
Posted by Iron Lion
Sipsey
Member since Nov 2014
11811 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:32 pm to
I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18051 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:33 pm to
So awful
Posted by Conner4real
Earth
Member since Sep 2017
455 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:34 pm to
Sorry to hear this. Prayers for you and your family.
Posted by WITCH DOCTOR
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2009
3474 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:36 pm to
Very Sorry for you and your family...
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:37 pm to
quote:

On the bright side, you got to enjoy having grandparents into adulthood. Many don’t get to experience that.


That’s essentially the way I’m looking at it. My grandfather had COPD, asthma, and emphysema. He was on a CPAP machine 24/7 and had been for probably close to 10 years now. We all looked at it with the thought process of “hey we got one more year with him, that’s just bonus at this point.” My grandmother didn’t have the internal health issues he did, but she wasn’t the strongest person ever if that makes sense. She was always falling, and injuring herself that way.

Just wish I’d have gotten to tell them both goodbye. I didn’t get to tell my grandmother about the baby on the way, but I made sure to tell my grandfather the day she died just in case he was right after her. Tough old bull made of a whole almost two weeks.
This post was edited on 4/9/20 at 11:39 pm
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
45544 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:38 pm to
I am so very sorry for your losses, may your family find peace in that your grandparents are together again
I am glad your mom is doing better
I will keep your entire family in my prayers

That was a beautiful story on the news

Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:42 pm to
Thank ya.

Pray especially hard for my mom.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71421 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:43 pm to
quote:

died tonight around 9:30-10:00. Grandmother died March 28, we buried her yesterday. My grandfather was unable to go to the funeral.


His heart was probably broken and his love did him in. I am so sorry to hear this for you and your family. I hope my comment isn't taken out of context.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62771 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:46 pm to
Sorry to hear this.
May your family find comfort and hopefully your first child will begin a great new phase for you and your family
Posted by tigerintexas777
the lake
Member since Sep 2013
1312 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:47 pm to
Praying for you my man!
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10310 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:47 pm to
I’m very sorry for you and your family’s loss. Said a prayer for them and you. Beautiful couple. Congratulations on your sweet upcoming bundle of joy as well.
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20317 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:47 pm to
I’m very sorry to hear something like this. My prayers are with you.
Posted by Boss13
Mobile
Member since Oct 2016
1155 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:48 pm to
I wish there were words to offer comfort to you and your family. I will pray for you if that helps.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124405 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:50 pm to
No words man. I couldn’t imagine. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
Posted by Louisiana Gator
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2012
674 posts
Posted on 4/9/20 at 11:51 pm to
Prayers for you and your family. I hate to hear that man.
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