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re: As you get older do you find your friends more irritating?

Posted on 8/18/24 at 9:17 pm to
Posted by Redbone
my castle
Member since Sep 2012
20053 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 9:17 pm to
As I get older I find my friends disappearing.
This post was edited on 8/18/24 at 9:18 pm
Posted by dirtsandwich
AL
Member since May 2016
5965 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 9:21 pm to
Not really. I’ve pretty much always found them irritating.
Posted by Rza32
Member since Nov 2008
4111 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 9:29 pm to
It’s easier not to have friends.
Posted by Interweb Cowboy
NW Bama
Member since Dec 2010
3166 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 9:48 pm to
Yes until she hauls her tits out when she gets drunk and then it’s all good.
Posted by Hondo Blacksheep
Member since Jul 2022
2825 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:18 pm to
The dog fricking gets it. If I'm chilling on my walk then so is she. If I have Tourette's because I've had a rough day then she is down for the cause, all business. Almost all men like their dog more than most other people, dogs are awesome.
This post was edited on 8/19/24 at 1:26 am
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10340 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:27 pm to
When we all were single, you could blow off peacocking/bravado as your buddy trying to get laid. Now that everyone has been married for 10+ years, everyone has at least one tween, you have to have learned the audience for people that have known you for more than 20 years.

There's a time to turn it off, and they have to be aware enough to know that, or they get back benched. Every sycophant on your jock cares about your watch/gun/golf cart collection, but when I've known you for almost 30 years, don't treat me like the influencer/entrepreneur you met a month ago.

Overall, the complete inability of men/couples to commit to anything before they weigh their options blows my giving a shite out of the water. Broken promises, obfuscation, deliberate lying/delaying (female behavior out of dudes I've known for decades,) etc.

As I've gotten older, my tolerance for horseshite (already low,) has decreased to near zero. Anyone with kids that haven't left the house, and are still married, I pretty much write off in terms of reliability, so me no care.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16719 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:33 pm to
Yes, but it's a happy irritation. If I hung out with people just like me it would be boring as hell.
Posted by ItzMe1972
Member since Dec 2013
11503 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:33 pm to
No, I appreciate them more.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
18109 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:38 pm to
I'm 71 and between the ones that have died off, moved away and lost contact, got involved with loads of grandkids, etc. I have fewer and fewer "friends" as the years pass.

The ones I still keep in touch with are good to hear from and I'm OK if it's only a few times a year.

I have more casual acquaintances now than close friends, and that's fine by me.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
18047 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:42 pm to
Subtle I have friends brag. I’m not very good at keeping in touch, so nobody really to irritate me other than my wife sometimes. Most people are not really friends anyway, they are acquaintances.
Posted by LSUAngelHere1
Watson
Member since Jan 2018
9636 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:43 pm to
I find them more meaningful
Posted by Topisawtiger
Mississippi
Member since Oct 2012
3659 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 10:49 pm to
The few friends I have left, I'd die for.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31822 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 11:00 pm to
quote:

As you get older do you find your friends more irritating?


Yes. And it's normal. A part of being normal.

Outside of my family and a select amount of close friends, I can't stand a lot of my not as close friends/people in general. I'll take some of the blame, but part of it goes to people in general just keeping to themselves.
This post was edited on 8/19/24 at 12:00 pm
Posted by m2pro
Member since Nov 2008
29227 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 11:43 pm to
I would look inward, if I was finding multiple old friends of mine annoying. Not saying you have a problem or whatever... just saying whatever change may not be them, but maybe you.

Maybe they're not great people and you've outgrown them.

Maybe you're curmudgeonly.
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Malibu
Member since Sep 2013
32938 posts
Posted on 8/18/24 at 11:53 pm to
Yep. I am starting to find that solace is the only way to be truly happy.
Posted by Athis
Member since Aug 2016
14641 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:04 am to
Oh hell yeah they are irritating.. And backstabbing idiots... The older I get the more I tell people to eff off no matter how long I have known them... I have a friend that I have known for over 45 years that still acts like a fool.. I have had about enough of his stupidity...
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
9802 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:05 am to
I was thinking about this yesterday. I have a good friend for 45 years. I am actively avoiding this person. People's irritating personality traits seem to be magnified as we age. So, yes.
Posted by tss22h8
30.4 N 90.9 W
Member since Jan 2007
18791 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:05 am to
Yes.
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 5:59 am to
quote:

As I get older I stick to the friends I care deeply about and sort of let the rest fall away.

This.
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
66645 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 6:03 am to
quote:

As I have gotten older (50), I find everybody to be more irritating.



I think it is a sign of the times. And I agree with you. I basically hate people overall.


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