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re: Are you happy?

Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:17 pm to
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30150 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:17 pm to
I hate to hear all of that.

Many people can’t have kids. If you find out you’re one of them, adopt. The most important and rewarding part is raising and loving a child.

Sorry about your dad. I’m going through something very similar with my mom and it feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders at times. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself. Easier said than done though. It’ll all work out
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47507 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:18 pm to
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What should be the happiest time of our life (we've sure as hell waited long enough and gone through enough) instead has been turned into a Christmas nightmare by petty bullshite. Finally got Mrs. Fly calmed down enough to go to bed but damn it is killing me to see her cry like this

Holy frick my arse. Grateful for my trainwreck
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47507 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:19 pm to
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I’m the nicest IRL person ever. People get tired of me being so nice. SAD!

Come visit us at hr village for lsu baseball. Spot 91. Sec 124. Seriously. I introduced OTers to my parents there 9 years ago.
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:21 pm
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17303 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:21 pm to
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adopt


As a 1/2 adopted kid, my sister fully adopted and many adopted friends, I support this. So many unwanted kids need good families.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30150 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:21 pm to
Your wife is hormonal. Don’t tell anyone to frick off. It’ll pass. Just be the peacekeeper until she gets that baby out lol
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175988 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:21 pm to
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As a 1/2 adopted kid,
what half was adopted?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260898 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:22 pm to
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Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you."


Right on. Struggling to control everything is a losing game. Learn to accept, embrace change and look forward to and uncharted journey.

Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend. Bruce Lee
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:25 pm to
Wife and I were married without our family around us because they were trying to tell us what we wanted. Twenty years later we are as strong as possible and we barely see most of our family members on both sides. It was the best decision we ever made. Make y'all own traditions and build a strong family together.
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:26 pm
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18806 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:25 pm to
quote:

lsunurse


1. go camping for a weekend by yourself
2. take mushrooms.
3. ???
4. profit


i'm serious
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57344 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:26 pm to
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If you find out you’re one of them, adopt. The most important and rewarding part is raising and loving a child.

FWIW this the absolute worst thing you can tell someone dealing with infertility.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30150 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

yaboidarrell


Glad you started this thread. Seems like every damn body needed to vent

*Redacted, so I don’t get another stop sign
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:34 pm
Posted by SuperflyLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2014
970 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:27 pm to
Lol I know that man, but I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me too, I'm just being honest about it due to the alcohol. Would never let her know how much it gets to me. We've both been waiting so long for this to happen that I just want her to enjoy it all and soak it all in. Instead all of her family has decided that now they want to confide in her about all of the things they hate about each other and expect her to mediate. I know I'm over thinking just need to vent a little so it doesn't happen in front of her.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175988 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

FWIW this the absolute worst thing you can tell someone dealing with infertility.

and he calls himself "the nicest person IRL"
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17303 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:28 pm to
1/2 adopted = man who raised me wasn’t the sperm donor and legally adopted me, put his name on the revised birth certificate, it originally had no name. I was born with mom’s maiden name, legally changed to the man who raised me...dad.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30150 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:28 pm to
quote:

FWIW this the absolute worst thing you can tell someone dealing with infertility.



What? That it’s not the end of the world? Ok
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175988 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:29 pm to
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1/2 adopted = man who raised me wasn’t the sperm donor and legally adopted me, put his name on the revised birth certificate, it originally had no name. I was born with mom’s maiden name, legally changed to the man who raised me...dad.

I know sweetie, i was being sexual


like, id adopt the other half,, top or bottom


but now it jsut seems weird
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:32 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129005 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:29 pm to
Will do HC, I know you of all people can truly understand.

I know I should push myself to be more social but I just don’t feel like it. I have two parties with my group of friends in the next 2 weekends....and I’m already thinking of excuses not to go.

I also feel like I’m doing them a huge favor by not going cause who wants a Debbie downer hanging out with them? I mean I’m sure I’m annoying as frick on the board right now...can only imagine irl.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129005 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:30 pm to
Exactly HC!!

So fricking sick of hearing “you can always adopt” from people...like they just magically solved all my fricking problems.


Next person that tells me that irl (except at work)...I’m going off on them.
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:32 pm
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26591 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:30 pm to
This is why apparently you and I are considered major “whiners” on this board, nurse.

FYI - not mocking your situation. Wishing you the best. Just trying to bring some levity.
This post was edited on 12/13/18 at 9:32 pm
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57344 posts
Posted on 12/13/18 at 9:30 pm to
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As a 1/2 adopted kid, my sister fully adopted and many adopted friends, I support this.

As a follow up to my last post. I fully suport adoption. It is just really hard when you are infertile to hear people offer that as an option. It is not cheap or easy.
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