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re: Are Many Couples Actually Happy?

Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:09 pm to
Posted by FulshearTiger
Member since Jul 2015
5294 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:09 pm to
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God knows we are certainly not. We have 5 year old twins and at this part are good friends co-parenting. We both work well as a team, generally like each other, and have no interest trying to be single again.

It is what it is. I've got 40 or 50 more years in this world to get through then it's finally fricking done


Goddamn, this is fricking pathetic.

How the frick does this shite have 49 upvotes? Seriously, is 90% of the OT suicidal?
Posted by TunaTrip
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2019
457 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:09 pm to
Love is a choice and most resort to only choosing it if they feel like the relationship is 50:50. If you want it to work your goal should always be giving 100%. You’ll fall short, and that’s ok. Sometimes you’ll give more and sometimes you’ll give less. But as long as there’s always a give and take, the love can and will prevail - most of the time.
Posted by bakersman
Shreveport
Member since Apr 2011
5985 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:39 pm to
14 years into our marriage and I couldn’t be happier. We have 2 beautiful girls and we all enjoy each other’s company. We don’t like spending time apart from each other.

I see threads like this all the time and I can’t understand why so many couples are so miserable. It’s actually kinda saddening that that many couples can’t get along and work things out. Many I got lucky with my wife. It takes work, patience, sacrifice, and love to make a marriage work.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
44876 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:43 pm to
Good for you baw. People who marry more than once have low intelligence
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2028 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:46 pm to
I'm divorced. Never to be married again. My girlfriend of 4 years is the best thing ever. Not the most beautiful girl I've dated. But the best person. It's a tricky game and I've been on the other side. But there are good people out there. If you're a good person.
Posted by go ahead make my day
Member since Dec 2021
194 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:52 pm to
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God knows we are certainly not. We have 5 year old twins and at this part are good friends co-parenting. We both work well as a team, generally like each other, and have no interest trying to be single again.

It is what it is. I've got 40 or 50 more years in this world to get through then it's finally fricking done


Goddamn, this is fricking pathetic.

How the frick does this shite have 49 upvotes? Seriously, is 90% of the OT suicidal?


People admire his honesty?
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
37139 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:53 pm to
Most folks get married young and folks change. What is important in your twenties is not really that important. $$$ (or lack of it) becomes an issue. Most chicks want the hunk and then realize lil jimmy the loser from high school drives a phantom. Now they want lil jimmy
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
32504 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:56 pm to
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We have 5 year old twins and at this part are good friends co-parenting. We both work well as a team, generally like each other, and have no interest trying to be single again. It is what it is. I've got 40 or 50 more years in this world to get through then it's finally fricking done


God damn man. Why’d you marry in the first place
Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
16831 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 5:58 pm to
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Most of the time we are happy. We are likely going to be empty nesters in 3.5 years so that will be an interesting change for us.



The wife and I just became empty nesters this past summer and so far so good but we are probably still in the adjustment period. It's definitely different
Posted by hollybeachsecrets
Member since Mar 2021
104 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:01 pm to
With all the talk of moving the goalposts around here I give you the specimen that is American Women. When will we be enough for them!?
Posted by bakersman
Shreveport
Member since Apr 2011
5985 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:03 pm to
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I'm divorced. Never to be married again. My girlfriend of 4 years is the best thing ever. Not the most beautiful girl I've dated. But the best person. It's a tricky game and I've been on the other side. But there are good people out there. If you're a good person.



Holy crap I hope she doesn’t read this
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
6901 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:14 pm to
In the post abt the Splenda stuff, I stated some of you are in horrible marriages... this thread is even worse. WTF, how are so many this disgruntled... How did you choose a spouse so poorly?
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53052 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:16 pm to
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The wife and I just became empty nesters this past summer and so far so good but we are probably still in the adjustment period. It's definitely different

We just have one left at home and she's a teenager that stays in her room most of the time these days and doesn't hang out with us much anyway. Maybe it won't be that different
Posted by Texas Ram
Member since Sep 2020
1120 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:16 pm to
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Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82693 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:18 pm to
Oh yeah totally agree
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
14068 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:50 pm to
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I'd say that's pretty unlikely for us. We genuinely still enjoy each other's company and get along well and spend a lot of time together. But it will be odd not having kids in the house.



My youngest son went off to college when we were in our early fifties. I remember thinking, what do I do with the rest of my life.

I met my wife on a blind date when I had about a year left in the Navy. We dated five months, were married, and have been together almost fifty four years.
Like you and yours, we still enjoy each others company.
Like others in the thread, we marvel at the number of folks we have known who have had miserable lives and broken marriages.

Life is a lottery. I got a winning ticket.
Posted by Cymry Teigr
Member since Sep 2012
2138 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:55 pm to
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Good for you baw. People who marry more than once have low intelligence


You sound bitter. And I must be dumber than a pile of rocks.

Divorced #1. Second wife died tragically after a few years and lo and behold I remarried again 15 years later.

Difference is unlike some in this thread I am not suicidal and seem to be one of the few that actually loves my wife and consider her my friend and not just a marriage partner.
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 6:56 pm
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 6:58 pm to
Unfortunately I’m not a Hallmark Channel guy. If I’d owned a ski resort, or a bookstore or a dog rescue facility I’d be that guy. I’m not that guy.
Posted by VolunGator
Franklin, TN / Key West, FL
Member since Jan 2020
1389 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 7:08 pm to
My first marriage was an effing nightmare. Bitch was mean and crazy dysfunctional.

Second marriage (16 years) is just the opposite. My wife is an amazing woman. She makes me want to be a better man. I'd step in front a a train for her. The first one however is lucky I didn't push her in front of a train.
Posted by FulshearTiger
Member since Jul 2015
5294 posts
Posted on 12/19/21 at 7:13 pm to
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People admire his honesty?


fricking sucks for yall if you're that miserable and counting down the days until your death. Will definitely regret that one day. Or maybe not as suicidal as yall seem to be.
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