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re: Anyone else give up on dating?

Posted on 3/15/25 at 8:24 pm to
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 8:24 pm to
In permanent relationship with Manuela Palmas
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:04 pm to
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Baw at the gym found him a Latina and he told me she cooks, cleans, doesn’t complain, is grateful for what they have and basically will cater to his every single need. I’m kinda jealous honestly. They are out there just have to find them.


My Cubana was a model that dated Castro's grandson for a moment. I thought she was going to have pretty privilege but she still did all of that. Was awesome with an instant pot
Posted by Redbone
my castle
Member since Sep 2012
20078 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:16 pm to
I gave up dating in 1969.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67999 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:18 pm to
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divorced almost 4 years ago


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Had a few relationships that lasted 7-11 months


Maybe take some time to just be single and work on yourself?
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
18923 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:19 pm to
From a female's perspective:

I was on dating sites years ago.

ALL of the men were looking for Barbies more than half their age.
Not worth wasting time and money when the requirements can't meet.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67999 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:20 pm to
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God forbid anything happen to my wife there is absolutely no way i'd ever date or get married again.


You could start dating dudes
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
20392 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:24 pm to
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My wife passed 10 years ago and I dated once. That was enough to remind me that I liked the parts of a woman but not all of the rest of the stuff that comes with it. I’m not a misogynist because I like women just don’t want to start over. I had a great wife and memories are good enough. I just don’t want to have a “relationship” again.
my condolences. I’m 58 and been married for 25 years and this is one of my biggest fears. My wife dying before me( we are the same age). My health hasn’t been great lately but she’s in good health. I told her to find a good man if I go first but I definitely wouldn’t date again
Posted by Ostrich
Alexandria, VA
Member since Nov 2011
9664 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:25 pm to
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I guess there’s reasons why they’re single in their 30s and 40s.


Uh, yeah.
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
14433 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:28 pm to
I see a handful of people say I should date girls from other countries
Dated a Venezuelan and a Lebanese , multiple dates with 2 Latina women, and a Vietnamese girl.
They were attractive, horney and nice accents. Attitudes were not attractive tho
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:34 pm to
After the cubana left I had my friend's honduran sister in law move in. Tonight we had sex and then she cooked carne aside, fresh tortillas, rice, beans, and salad. Currently getting a head massage while watching Day of the Jackal. No torta either
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
6843 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 9:56 pm to
Don’t look for others to fill your cup. Accept people where they are and have fun, works for me. Not being a complete tool and misogynist also works. shite ain’t that serious.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 10:03 pm to
You're taking it the wrong way. This is normal behavior for them and you can do for them as they do for you. Sure my post was no frills but American women are less likely to share in these tasks as foreign women would. I believe doing the mundane together to strengthen a relationship
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
54986 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 10:03 pm to
Yup
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
189550 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 10:24 pm to
B4 the stroke, divorcee poonanie was vv available to me


yall must be ugly
Posted by pelicanpride
Houston
Member since Oct 2007
1512 posts
Posted on 3/15/25 at 11:49 pm to
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Women have their dating lists of what's okay and what's not and it's almost always an aggregate of wants/red flags from the combo of all of their relationships


About 20 years ago a woman old enough to be my grandmother gave me a piece of advice. She told me if you ever go on a date with a guy who is rude to the waitstaff, then run because that tells you all you need to know about him. I’m married now, but I still think that’s great advice. Some red flags are pretty good indicators of character flaws.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
68381 posts
Posted on 3/16/25 at 12:12 am to
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From a female's perspective:

I was on dating sites years ago.

ALL of the men were looking for Barbies more than half their age.
Not worth wasting time and money when the requirements can't meet.


CatsGoneWild wouldn't do you like that.
Posted by Gusoline
Jacksonville, NC
Member since Dec 2013
10006 posts
Posted on 3/16/25 at 12:14 am to
Similarly, waited an entire year after divorce and dated many over the next 4 years. After the last one was a mental abuser... i stopped. Had a fwb for a while until she fell in love like i told her not to and now I'm just not interested. Keeping my peace and being stress free is worth so much more.
Posted by Gusoline
Jacksonville, NC
Member since Dec 2013
10006 posts
Posted on 3/16/25 at 12:17 am to
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She told me if you ever go on a date with a guy who is rude to the waitstaff, then run because that tells you all you need to know about him. I’m married now, but I still think that’s great advice. Some red flags are pretty good indicators of character flaws.


Being rude for no reason, sure... but holding people accountable when/if they mess up is not a character flaw. Being nice to everyone and protecting feelings is how society got so messed up to begin with.
Posted by NorCali
Member since Feb 2015
1332 posts
Posted on 3/16/25 at 4:32 am to
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Spankum


Quit dating 15 years ago? yep, name checks out
Posted by Stinger_1066
On a golf course
Member since Jul 2021
2899 posts
Posted on 3/16/25 at 5:43 am to
Just get one of these.



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