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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to AnarchySupporter
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to AnarchySupporter
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would be open to posting these messages but if you think my first message was too long you'll never read these messages. Some of these are short story length
Don't need it sometimes shite doesn't work. Time to drop line again. Simple as that. She doesn't know you from email so need to feel rejected.
Chin up buddy. She is probably a rug muncher
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Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to AnarchySupporter
I've probably met 10 girls through online dating that seemed great on paper for each other and we met and there was no chemistry at all. Love isn't a romance novel. You can't fall in love through online messages.
I do feel sorry for you because of your lack of self awareness. I'd suggest working with a therapist to get over your insecurity and talk through your failures if you haven't already. They'd help you more than Tigerdroppings.
I do feel sorry for you because of your lack of self awareness. I'd suggest working with a therapist to get over your insecurity and talk through your failures if you haven't already. They'd help you more than Tigerdroppings.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to AnarchySupporter
For frick's sake this thread just gave me estrogen poisoning.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to AnarchySupporter
You were dating a week. It wasn't a relationship. You didn't get dumped. Sounds like you latch on way too damn quick
ETA. not even dating. Just pen pals.
ETA. not even dating. Just pen pals.
This post was edited on 4/1/17 at 10:03 pm
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:00 pm to Mr. Hangover
And also, keep your head up man..
You seem broken down. You CANNOT be right with another perso if you aren't right with yourself
You seem broken down. You CANNOT be right with another perso if you aren't right with yourself
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:01 pm to AnarchySupporter
quote:
OKellsBells I guess what gets me is that it wasn't like we were never going to meet. We had actually agreed to meet up tomorrow! I just got this message 2 hours ago. This is still very raw for me.
Well, it's Saturday. If you want to make a friend or meet a girl tonight, get off the internet and go out.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:01 pm to AnarchySupporter
Best thing you can do baw is delete all the dating apps and just enjoy life without that nonsense. Someone will walk into your life when you least expect it.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:02 pm to AnarchySupporter
At least you recognize some virtuous qualities in a woman that isn't a family member. That, my friend, is a win.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:02 pm to Sun God
Okay then here I go, please note that I will be eliminating any potentially personal information:
This was message 3, seems like the first two messages are gone:
Hello! I am also really excited for (deleted) to open, sad that I will be traveling on the official opening date (but I can't be that sad since I will be in Europe, lol) I used to love playing mini golf! I haven't played in quite some time because of my wrist but I am hoping the surgery will have corrected the issues and I will be able to go back to the things I used to love! Oh I totally have a nerdy side! I love all the Marvel/DC movies, think Firefly and Sherlock are the two best shows every written and will happily geek out over documentaries, cartoons and Lord of the Rings and most especially, Harry Potter :)
I was raised n a family of zero sports fanatics so I know very little about them. My ex also didn't partake in "normal" sports so all I know has been learned from movies I am afraid. However, that being said, I am quite eager to learn about things and if I had a teacher willing to explain the rules I would be most excited to play pupil!
Too many people on here have zero interest in getting ti know me, its all about hooking up, which I have zero interest in. I am on here to find someone to share my life with in the future, so if the only thing you can say to me is, "hey baby girl you super sexy, wanna meet up", it's not gonna work out. And I am glad you agree that honesty and openness are the most important qualities in a relationship!
Always here for travel advice, I know I have friends I go to when I get confused! DCL is by far my favorite cruise line. it's hard to want to cruise with anyone else when you see their quality and standards compared to other cruise lines. Out of the others I cruised, I found NCL to be the closest quality wise, though my experience with RCCL was on older ships and i have been told the cruises not heir newer ones are such better, so I hope to try one soon. My favorite DCL was the Panama Canal Crossing I did in 2011, for the usual itineraries, I love their Western Caribbean. I loved the NCL i did to Hawaii, and even though I did NOT like Princess, I loved seeing Alaska! Where are some of your favorite places you have visited? Where do you want go? (I can literally talk travel all day!)
My wrist surgery was for something called De Quervains Tenosynovitis and unfortunately it was 20 years int he making. I injured it when I was 11 and it got progressively worse through the years with more injuries and just use, as it is my dominant hand. The surgery was the day before Thanksgiving and I still have quite a bit of tenderness and aching. The surgeon says I won't know for sure how successful it was until about 6-9 months, there was much more damage than he expected. So I am hopeful, but trying to remain realistic.
I agree about iPhone cameras. I have the 7 Plus and you should see some of the amazing photos have gotten with it! I love my DSLR, but they are so bulky and with my wrist being poorly still its easier for me to use my trusty iPhone :)
I have had allergies for years, all kinds, animals, plants, and food. I have learned rot deals with what I can and take meds for the ones that are catastrophic. And I too have heard that many have the same issue with tolerance being lost after significant time away. Too bad! Thankfully, I have no plans to leave my babies for that long ever again!
I am going to finish up in a part two so I don't get cut off!!!!
This was message 3, seems like the first two messages are gone:
Hello! I am also really excited for (deleted) to open, sad that I will be traveling on the official opening date (but I can't be that sad since I will be in Europe, lol) I used to love playing mini golf! I haven't played in quite some time because of my wrist but I am hoping the surgery will have corrected the issues and I will be able to go back to the things I used to love! Oh I totally have a nerdy side! I love all the Marvel/DC movies, think Firefly and Sherlock are the two best shows every written and will happily geek out over documentaries, cartoons and Lord of the Rings and most especially, Harry Potter :)
I was raised n a family of zero sports fanatics so I know very little about them. My ex also didn't partake in "normal" sports so all I know has been learned from movies I am afraid. However, that being said, I am quite eager to learn about things and if I had a teacher willing to explain the rules I would be most excited to play pupil!
Too many people on here have zero interest in getting ti know me, its all about hooking up, which I have zero interest in. I am on here to find someone to share my life with in the future, so if the only thing you can say to me is, "hey baby girl you super sexy, wanna meet up", it's not gonna work out. And I am glad you agree that honesty and openness are the most important qualities in a relationship!
Always here for travel advice, I know I have friends I go to when I get confused! DCL is by far my favorite cruise line. it's hard to want to cruise with anyone else when you see their quality and standards compared to other cruise lines. Out of the others I cruised, I found NCL to be the closest quality wise, though my experience with RCCL was on older ships and i have been told the cruises not heir newer ones are such better, so I hope to try one soon. My favorite DCL was the Panama Canal Crossing I did in 2011, for the usual itineraries, I love their Western Caribbean. I loved the NCL i did to Hawaii, and even though I did NOT like Princess, I loved seeing Alaska! Where are some of your favorite places you have visited? Where do you want go? (I can literally talk travel all day!)
My wrist surgery was for something called De Quervains Tenosynovitis and unfortunately it was 20 years int he making. I injured it when I was 11 and it got progressively worse through the years with more injuries and just use, as it is my dominant hand. The surgery was the day before Thanksgiving and I still have quite a bit of tenderness and aching. The surgeon says I won't know for sure how successful it was until about 6-9 months, there was much more damage than he expected. So I am hopeful, but trying to remain realistic.
I agree about iPhone cameras. I have the 7 Plus and you should see some of the amazing photos have gotten with it! I love my DSLR, but they are so bulky and with my wrist being poorly still its easier for me to use my trusty iPhone :)
I have had allergies for years, all kinds, animals, plants, and food. I have learned rot deals with what I can and take meds for the ones that are catastrophic. And I too have heard that many have the same issue with tolerance being lost after significant time away. Too bad! Thankfully, I have no plans to leave my babies for that long ever again!
I am going to finish up in a part two so I don't get cut off!!!!
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:02 pm to AnarchySupporter
without readhing this entire thread i'm going to attempt to give you some real advice because i've been there bro.
First, dating is a numbers game. you are putting all your eggs in one basket. You are expecting women to be loyal to you and you hven't built any value with them yet, which is part of the problem the other being, that you are acting like she owes you something and she doesn't. No one fricking told you that you can't go on dates with other women while she's going on dates.
I was the same way for a long time. I would set up dates, get stood up, get cheated on, get made fun of for no reason, get stood up.
You have to build a life that women want to be apart of. Women aren't going to frick you because you are a good guy they don't give a shite.
You are in a pickle. To create a spark, you need two sticks. The quickest way to get one woman really into you, is to find two lol and put them against each other. Go out and find two sluts and have fun, then parlay those two sluts into something more worth while.
I was overweight most my 20's but when I got in shape i made a mission to go out and get rejected by 100 women, just so I could get used to being shot down. If you can get used to being shot down you can slay the world. You stop caring what a particular woman thinks about you and realize that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. you are taking one shot a game and calling yourself a bad shooter.
Go out and talk to women and it's going to hurt but you will get used to it. Leave the cynicism at home it'snot attractive.
First, dating is a numbers game. you are putting all your eggs in one basket. You are expecting women to be loyal to you and you hven't built any value with them yet, which is part of the problem the other being, that you are acting like she owes you something and she doesn't. No one fricking told you that you can't go on dates with other women while she's going on dates.
I was the same way for a long time. I would set up dates, get stood up, get cheated on, get made fun of for no reason, get stood up.
You have to build a life that women want to be apart of. Women aren't going to frick you because you are a good guy they don't give a shite.
You are in a pickle. To create a spark, you need two sticks. The quickest way to get one woman really into you, is to find two lol and put them against each other. Go out and find two sluts and have fun, then parlay those two sluts into something more worth while.
I was overweight most my 20's but when I got in shape i made a mission to go out and get rejected by 100 women, just so I could get used to being shot down. If you can get used to being shot down you can slay the world. You stop caring what a particular woman thinks about you and realize that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. you are taking one shot a game and calling yourself a bad shooter.
Go out and talk to women and it's going to hurt but you will get used to it. Leave the cynicism at home it'snot attractive.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:02 pm to TheWalrus
quote:
I do feel sorry for you because of your lack of self awareness. I'd suggest working with a therapist to get over your insecurity and talk through your failures if you haven't already. They'd help you more than Tigerdroppings.
I agree with everything you said here except for the last sentence. Sometimes this place can work wonders
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:03 pm to AnarchySupporter
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:05 pm to AnarchySupporter
quote:
AnarchySupporter
Dude. Let it go. Meet people in real life.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:05 pm to AnarchySupporter
I think you would get more sympathy if you admitted you had issues and didn't profess your "hatred."
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to vengeanceofrain
Damn, I've gone about it a whole different way my entire life. But that is a pretty solid advice
Don't think the OP is capable of that though. It gets thrown around here way too much but I mean it when I say it takes a guy with some sort of alpha in him to do this
Don't think the OP is capable of that though. It gets thrown around here way too much but I mean it when I say it takes a guy with some sort of alpha in him to do this
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to CommunityCollegeFTW
Chin-ho alter. Just stop.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to vengeanceofrain
Her next message:
When I drive around here I genuinely feel like I am taking my life in my hands every time I leave the house. It is terrifying the things i have seen, including people going the wrong way down a highway, backing up on ramps, getting into a J turn the wrong way, ignoring stop signs and red lights- terrifying! I have lived in (deleted) since 2010, I originally hail form (deleted) and miss it terribly. The change of seasons is something you never forget. The hills of (deleted) is a big part of why I chose it :) It does feel a little bit more like home! I don't have fave beach, I have actually only been to two I think, to be honest. I like going with people and never found anyone to take me.
I actually went to (deleted) this summer! It is my goal to see al 50 states, and i try to do at least 2-3 new ones a year, so this summer, to escape for awhile I did a solo trip to that area! (Deleted) was beautiful and I loved visiting (deleted) (big horse fan) and I also had one of the best burgers I have ever had there!! I think the place was called the (deleted) and it had this great Law theme. so cool! i also went to (deleted) to see the zoo, which was incredible! i love zoos :)
11 years! thats quite an age gap! I have a sister who is 5.5 years older than me and she has two children, my niece and nephew that i adore. She recently got divorced last year and it was awful but luckily my family is very close and we all take care of each other. My parens have been married for 44 years and have known each other since they were children. They are an inspiration to me, and i hope to be as lucky in love as they are one day. They, along with my sister and the kids, live in (deleted) as of this past summer, and I have been lucky to make the drive a few times. My extended family that i see is limited to my moms sisters and my two cousins. Every once in awhile we do a reunion in my dads side but we aren't as close.
Its important to me that a potential partner have a good relationship with their family, my ex did not and it took a huge toll on our marriage. My family is a huge part of my life and they are amazing people. I won the lottery when it came to family :)
Okay, I need to get ready for work now but I look forward to hearing back from you! Id love to hear about some of your fave movies, music etc :)
Have a great day!
When I drive around here I genuinely feel like I am taking my life in my hands every time I leave the house. It is terrifying the things i have seen, including people going the wrong way down a highway, backing up on ramps, getting into a J turn the wrong way, ignoring stop signs and red lights- terrifying! I have lived in (deleted) since 2010, I originally hail form (deleted) and miss it terribly. The change of seasons is something you never forget. The hills of (deleted) is a big part of why I chose it :) It does feel a little bit more like home! I don't have fave beach, I have actually only been to two I think, to be honest. I like going with people and never found anyone to take me.
I actually went to (deleted) this summer! It is my goal to see al 50 states, and i try to do at least 2-3 new ones a year, so this summer, to escape for awhile I did a solo trip to that area! (Deleted) was beautiful and I loved visiting (deleted) (big horse fan) and I also had one of the best burgers I have ever had there!! I think the place was called the (deleted) and it had this great Law theme. so cool! i also went to (deleted) to see the zoo, which was incredible! i love zoos :)
11 years! thats quite an age gap! I have a sister who is 5.5 years older than me and she has two children, my niece and nephew that i adore. She recently got divorced last year and it was awful but luckily my family is very close and we all take care of each other. My parens have been married for 44 years and have known each other since they were children. They are an inspiration to me, and i hope to be as lucky in love as they are one day. They, along with my sister and the kids, live in (deleted) as of this past summer, and I have been lucky to make the drive a few times. My extended family that i see is limited to my moms sisters and my two cousins. Every once in awhile we do a reunion in my dads side but we aren't as close.
Its important to me that a potential partner have a good relationship with their family, my ex did not and it took a huge toll on our marriage. My family is a huge part of my life and they are amazing people. I won the lottery when it came to family :)
Okay, I need to get ready for work now but I look forward to hearing back from you! Id love to hear about some of your fave movies, music etc :)
Have a great day!
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to AnarchySupporter
quote:
Hello! I am also really excited for (deleted) to open, sad that I will be traveling on the official opening date (but I can't be that sad since I will be in Europe, lol)
frick this rug muncher
Move on baw
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to AnarchySupporter
Post screenshots of your emails with her and we'll tell you where you went wrong.
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:06 pm to bhtigerfan
I agree with this statement,
Keep your confidence up buddy! Don't take any of these dates too seriously. Flirt with your date and keep the focus on her. If she decides to end it, it's her loss!
quote:
Sense of humor and attitude/confidence are more important.
Keep your confidence up buddy! Don't take any of these dates too seriously. Flirt with your date and keep the focus on her. If she decides to end it, it's her loss!
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