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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:36 pm to
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19588 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:36 pm to
This can't be real. Download Tinder and Bumble, swipe right all day, then sift through and bang some of the decent matches you get. Or just don't be a pussy.

Come on man. Finding a woman isn't a huge deal in the grand scheme of things. Stop looking so hard and it'll happen. Life goes on.

Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26217 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:36 pm to
You approach it all wrong

I will give you a full diagnosis once I get to my laptop tomorrow
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:36 pm to
quote:

Actually you read this completely wrong, we are exactly the same age. We were discussing siblings, my sibling is 11 years older than me whereas her sister was only 5.5 years older.
which proves my point i didn't read your fricking posts because i don't fricking care lol and she doesn't either. not that you are a bad person i nor she has any reason to be vested in you to read that novel of a a thread.

Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42020 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:36 pm to
quote:

can help you 

I'm at a wedding right now but I will give advice later





Lmfao love it
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42020 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:38 pm to
quote:

It was inconsequential blabber.


Yeah but inconsequential blabber was issue in my mind
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34894 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:39 pm to
quote:

Forget her and go out and live your life. One day she might contact you and you'll have plenty of things to talk about.


And? He'd cover it all in one email
Posted by AnarchySupporter
Member since Dec 2016
383 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:39 pm to
Her final message before letting me know it wasn't going to happen:

Good Morning!

Oh those post vacation blues can be tough! Planning the next one definitely helps but I dream of the day I get to retire and be on permanent vacation lol The (deleted) cruise is a 7 night.I am going with my (deleted) and my (deleted). They have wanted to do a (deleted) cruise for a long time. She chose this itinerary because it goes to (deleted), where my (deleted) was born and my (deleted) was born and raised. One of my (deleted) was also born there but they left for the states when they were very young. While she was giving the future cruise sales person their information she gave him my name too and I said, "No, (deleted), that's for the guest who are going, he doesn't need my name," but she said that her and her sisters wanted me to come with them to help play tour guide and to thank me for helping them through the loss of my (deleted). How could I turn it down? Plus I would love the chance to see where my (deleted) was born.

Ah, a business degree! That was what my ex went to school for, so I feel like I took many of the classes (I was often drafted to assist him with his papers and presentations). I did not actually take any marketing classes but my first job straight out of college was actually as a (deleted) believe it or not! Long story, short I was doing the round of interviews and went to my last one at a small telecommunications advising firm. Given my degree was in (deleted), I was hoping to find a job as an administrative assistant until I had time to build up a stronger resume. The interview was going extremely well and after speaking for nearly an hour he inquired if I had any questions and I simply asked how soon I would expect to hear back. He asked if I was interested in working for his company and I said yes. He then told me that he was actually conducting interviews for two potions: the (deleted) one and a (deleted) and that he wanted to hire me as his (deleted). Bewildered I told him i did not believe that I was qualified for the position as I had not taken even one (deleted) class! He politely disagreed and said he had a good feel for people and wanted me to try the position out. He then said if after three months it wasn't working out he would move me into the position I interviewed for. He also mentioned that the salary was significantly higher and I would have better benefits. So, I made the obvious choice and took the position. It turns out I have a natural knack for (deleted) and successfully spearheaded many projects for very recognizable brands including (deleted). My "short" story turned out a bit longer than planned, but rest assured there is actually much more to the story! My apologies!

Aww, gotta love Hufflepuff, I agree they need a much bigger presence in the movies!

I didn't just watch TNG, i loved it! It was a weekly event with my dad and when I had cable if I caught it on TV, I always had to stop and watch. Can't go wrong with Picard and Riker! My (deleted) is much more of a Trekkie than I am but I do love the stories and am really enjoying the new movies. I may have to check out some of those books just to get a taste.

Yes, see Rogue One as soon as you can! I understand about busy holidays, had I not seen it on the boat I may not have sen it at all. However, I loved it so much I had to get in at least one more time so I managed :)

Like you, I work in (deleted). I try not to give out too much information about myself before I meet someone because there is always that fear, as a woman, that it may not be safe. I am not implying anything with you, but that is my reason for not being more up front with what I do for work. That being said, I feel confident enough to tell you now, since you asked, that I also work at (deleted). I work in (deleted) at )deleted) and have been here for (deleted) years, but I have been with the company for just shy of (deleted) total. I hope my omission does not offend you, as I said, it is merely a safety measure, and as we both know- (deleted) hahaha

I am glad that you want to meet me before my trip :) I will be gone and while I enjoy emailing, it would be nice to put a person with the persona :) That being said, I am available both (deleted) and (deleted), though I still do not have a concrete time when I will be back, however I am aiming for early afternoon. Do you have a preference for either day?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:39 pm to
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you make connections with ppl by meeting in person




Well obviously...I'm talking about before that first date happens. Sometimes peoples schedules don't match up and they may not even get to meet for a week or so(or longer if they travel for work frequently). You need something more than emails to keep the other person interested enough to still keep the actual date.


If OP had chatted on the phone with that chick...she might have been more curious to meet him. She might have even bended her rule and still gone on a date with him even after the date with the other guy.


Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42020 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:40 pm to
I will give you one from my playbook

Just random message a bunch on these internet girls "didn't we meet at a party 2 weeks ago"?
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
46136 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:40 pm to
I can guarantee you this dude isn't worried his "dick isn't going to suck itself." He currently is incapable of functioning, normal social relationships and all of a sudden he's going to put "two sluts" against each other?
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:41 pm to
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You need something more than emails to keep the other person interested enough to still keep the actual date.



sounds like something id read in 1995

today it is: swipe right, match, send 2-3 messages, meetup

this guys investing way too much time into a girl hes never met before. i wouldnt even write an email that long to someone ive known my entire life.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42020 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:41 pm to
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Her final message before letting me know it wasn't going to happen: 



Lol we get it rainman
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26217 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:41 pm to
This is a really easy diagnosis

I know exactly where you are messing up

I don't want to tell you simply what it is I want to be able to elaborate on the why it's wrong not just the what. Hard to do on a phone

I will get things turned around for you
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47239 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
Dude... mail order bride
Posted by AnarchySupporter
Member since Dec 2016
383 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
Very nice TheWalrus, I guess if I take your advice I guess I should just give up then.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
66472 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
I'm almost wondering if all that emailing and information put out there took the mystery out of it and made things less appealing. Just a thought
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118233 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
I agree.
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19588 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
quote:

Just random message a bunch on these internet girls "didn't we meet at a party 2 weeks ago"?


This is my go-to. "You look awfully familiar."
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42020 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:42 pm to
quote:

She might have even bended her rule 


Let's be honest the rule was a lie
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 10:43 pm to
dude this is the Schindler's list of friend zoning [ how you got get friendzoned by a girl you ain't even met
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