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re: Am I seeing something that’s there or just what I want to see?

Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:20 am to
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19245 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:20 am to
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Are you 14? Just fricking ask her


That’s how you scare her off. Gotta keep it cool
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2195 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:24 am to
Saying a whole lot of words without really saying shite.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
54890 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 8:57 am to
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That’s how you scare her off. Gotta keep it cool




If him talking to her scares her off then that pretty much answers his question. People that get weird about communication are probably better left alone.
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
11046 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 9:11 am to
1) you can be an adult and talk to her. Even if it’s not the news that you want, wouldn’t you rather know and move on instead of wasting your time?

2) if you have to ask the OT, then you already know the answer.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34354 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 9:11 am to
Trust your gut.

Don't ignore the red flags for the sake of the sex.

Multiple failed marriages or relationships are the reddest of the red flags, as she's the common denominator.

Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 9:12 am to
Does she see you as her BEST option? If so she won’t leave you “ in limbo”, she will fight for her man. If you aren’t her best option, you are just a fall back guy . Anything “ weird “ or “ unusual “ or “ vague “ is by definition on shaky ground. You need to take a page out of the female playbook, and instead of having all your eggs in one basket, you need to get 2/3 others going to some lesser degree on the side in case she falls off. This is where men lose the script- we focus on one woman while they always have 2/3 behind the scenes on standby. You have to make sure you aren’t the guy on standby. And if you really like her you have to do everything you can to improve yourself and make sure you are her best option.And when you two lock in on each other, then all those janky descriptives you used will go away.
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
5321 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 9:17 am to
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Talk to her about it. Get it straight from the source.


In my experience, if you want to know what a woman really wants or thinks, the last person you should ask is that woman.
Posted by BigDropper
Member since Jul 2009
8143 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 4:49 pm to
Start ignoring her, you'll find out then.
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
11046 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 8:06 pm to
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You need to take a page out of the female playbook, and instead of having all your eggs in one basket, you need to get 2/3 others going to some lesser degree on the side in case she falls off.


This is quite literally how I got my wife. She didn’t want to be exclusive cuz she knew it’d be a long term thing and “wasn’t ready”. Well I started going on dates with other girls and calling her less and wouldn’t you know it, she was magically ready for a long term relationship.
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