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re: About to turn 40. Haven't had sex in 10 years. AMA.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 1:10 pm to Yewkindewit
Posted on 9/24/25 at 1:10 pm to Yewkindewit
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I knew what I was getting into when I got married. I married the best available to me after striking out in every direction. We share similar views on kids (we dont have any), Money (we don't have any)
I don’t know whether to laugh with you or cry with you brother
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Posted on 9/24/25 at 1:34 pm to Allthatfades
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I don’t know whether to laugh with you or cry with you brother
Nah, its all good. I am not a danger to myself or anyone else. I don't hate successful people, whether it be with women or money or whatever. I don't blame women because I am where I am. Its just how it is for me.
Back before I got married an old friend of mine told me one time..." Stogie, I watched you work women multiple times, and I am sad to have to report to you, you couldn't get a woman in a women's prison with a signed pardon." I thought it was funny at the time, I don't think its funny anymore, but whatever.
I gave my life in service to others, Buried two parents and an uncle, while everybody else was out making bank and getting laid.
As Brother Merle Haggard once said.... " I'll just dream, and keep on being the way I am"
Posted on 9/24/25 at 1:36 pm to boomjosh
Are you the poster that used to go by BooKrewe?
Posted on 9/24/25 at 1:49 pm to boomjosh
Why?
Just how ugly are you?
Just how ugly are you?
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:06 pm to boomjosh
Not legit
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:17 pm to stogie5150
That’s not healthy man
Seriously you two should consider a sex therapist
Seriously you two should consider a sex therapist
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:19 pm to ActusHumanus
This happened to my best friend in high school
Now he’s been gay for 15 years
Now he’s been gay for 15 years
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:19 pm to stogie5150
quote:you could have been doing all those things, including making bank and getting laid, all at the same time LOL. Doing good and caring for family and having sex are not mutually exclusive
I gave my life in service to others, Buried two parents and an uncle, while everybody else was out making bank and getting laid.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:22 pm to stogie5150
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She has health issues she wont address,
You're 55 and haven't had sex since the 90's...have you ever had sex with your wife? Was she always in poor health?
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:29 pm to jchamil
Never understood the “married men don’t have sex” talk. Been married over 25 years. Wife and I are both early 50s. We have sex at least 3-4 times a week.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:46 pm to cgrand
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you could have been doing all those things, including making bank and getting laid,
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:47 pm to danilo
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Just your average Tool fan
you shut your mouth
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:51 pm to Dawgfanman
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Never understood the “married men don’t have sex” talk. Been married over 25 years. Wife and I are both early 50s. We have sex at least 3-4 times a week.
I’d tell you to go frick yourself but you’re probably already tired.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 2:55 pm to boomjosh
Knowing how nasty women are at 40...brother you living the dream
Posted on 9/24/25 at 4:23 pm to boomjosh
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Haven't had sex in 10 years.
Nobody to blame but yourself.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 4:26 pm to Lark225
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Knowing how nasty women are at 40...brother you living the dream
They are nasty in the best possible ways.
Posted on 9/24/25 at 4:29 pm to jchamil
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You're 55 and haven't had sex since the 90's...have you ever had sex with your wife? Was she always in poor health?
Yes. About once a month before we were married. Birth control wrecked her hormones... After she got off birth control is when it trickled to a stop.
I had no idea that wasn't normal. Almost every man I talked to told me the same thing, welcome to marriage. So I just let it go.
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you could have been doing all those things, including making bank and getting laid, all at the same time LOL. Doing good and caring for family and having sex are not mutually exclusive
No sir. When your Dad is laying in bed gasping for breath dying of heart failure and asks you teary eyed to take care of his wife until she dies...that's what you do. You put aside any dreams you have and do what a Son is supposed to do. Again, I had NO idea what that was going to entail, but I know duty and I fulfilled my duty. I do not and will not ever apologize for taking care of the people that gave me life.
This post was edited on 9/24/25 at 4:35 pm
Posted on 9/24/25 at 4:35 pm to stogie5150
So you don’t have sex, you hate the gym so you don’t take care of your body, you don’t have any money, and you think it’s pointless to be on TRT?
No wonder you’re depressed. Btw the whole you lived your life in service is bullshite, that’s a cop out you tell yourself to feel better about where you are in life.
Supposed to do? No loving parent would ever ask their child to sacrifice their lives for their benefit.
No wonder you’re depressed. Btw the whole you lived your life in service is bullshite, that’s a cop out you tell yourself to feel better about where you are in life.
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When your Dad is laying in bed gasping for breath dying of heart failure and asks you teary eyed to take care of his wife until she dies...that's what you do. You put aside any dreams you have and do what a Son is supposed to do.
Supposed to do? No loving parent would ever ask their child to sacrifice their lives for their benefit.
This post was edited on 9/24/25 at 4:37 pm
Posted on 9/24/25 at 4:51 pm to stogie5150
quote:what?
I do not and will not ever apologize for taking care of the people that gave me life.
you can take care of people AND have sex (just not at the same time)
Posted on 9/24/25 at 5:13 pm to stogie5150
Seriously you need a mental health provider, a potential sex therapist, a doctor to check your hormone levels etc.
This is a multifaceted problem.
This is a multifaceted problem.
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