re: 15 year old son. First homecoming dance

Posted by JBeam

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:33 pm to Tyga Woods

Honest question, why would you ask the OT about this topic?

Posted by SuperSaint

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:34 pm to Tyga Woods

Honest answer:

Don't hand him one as he is walking out three door.

But I'm assuming you have had some sort of talk with him before. So it shouldn't be a big deal, but just this week but a box of condoms (not a special trip but while making groceries or something) and just let him know if he every needs one, they will be in the drawer in the bathroom.

I'm forever grateful my mother was cool af and never minded offering my older brother and I if we needed any condoms when she went to Delchamps. Never made it awkward.

Good luck. Hope your boy pounds out him a little hottie

Posted by Tyga Woods

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:34 pm to JBeam

quote:
Honest question, why would you ask the OT about this topic

Because I'm smart enough to realize that I don't know everything. And there are some fathers in here older than me that have gone through this shite already.

Not all the posters here are retards.

This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 12:35 pm

Posted by MrLarson

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:35 pm to Tyga Woods

He is 15, one won't be enough.

Posted by LSUFanHouston

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:37 pm to Tyga Woods

I would not give him one but you should be sure to have the conversation.

Is it an older girl? Who is driving? Homecoming is usually dinner and the dance, right? Unless one of the kids are driving or someone is having an after-party... not sure if he's gonna get the chance to bag and tag?

Posted by Pavoloco83

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:37 pm to Tyga Woods

Give him the money and make him go purchase his own. Wait in the drugstore parking lot. Gotta learn to man up and go buy that shite and not be embarrassed.

This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 12:38 pm

Posted by Tyga Woods

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Member since Sep 2016

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:38 pm to SuperSaint

quote:
Honest answer:

Don't hand him one as he is walking out three door.

But I'm assuming you have had some sort of talk with him before. So it shouldn't be a big deal, but just this week but a box of condoms (not a special trip but while making groceries or something) and just let him know if he every needs one, they will be in the drawer in the bathroom.

I'm forever grateful my mother was cool af and never minded offering my older brother and I if we needed any condoms when she went to Delchamps. Never made it awkward.

Good luck. Hope your boy pounds out him a little hottie

Solid answer. Thanks

Posted by Barrister

Member since Jul 2012

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:40 pm to Tyga Woods

When you pay your auto insurance, are you encouraging collisions? Nope....you are covering your arse in case someone makes a bad choice and causes one. So, cover your kid's arse in case he makes a bad choice.

Posted by Tyga Woods

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:40 pm to LSUFanHouston

quote:
after-party

This is my concern. We will be driving them to the dance, and from the dance to the after-party. There will be adults there...but it's a big house and a lot of kids will be there. I'm sure they'll have time to sneak off if they choose to do so.

Posted by 50_Tiger

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:41 pm to Pavoloco83

quote:
Give him the money and make him go purchase his own. Wait in the drugstore parking lot. Gotta learn to man up and go buy that shite and not be embarrassed.

Psh ever heard of Amazon now and the 36pk?

Posted by LucasP

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:42 pm to Tyga Woods

AIDS lives in poop, tell him keep it out the butt and he'll be fine.

Posted by lsucoonass

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:42 pm to Tyga Woods

Have you even had the sex talk with him?

What about the young lady? Does he talk about her a lot or is it just some one time thing?

It wouldn't hurt but don't pressure the young bloke

Posted by 50_Tiger

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:42 pm to Tyga Woods

quote:
This is my concern. We will be driving them to the dance, and from the dance to the after-party. There will be adults there...but it's a big house and a lot of kids will be there. I'm sure they'll have time to sneak off if they choose to do so.

Semi-Worse case, your lil baw gets his dick sucked.

Posted by lsucoonass

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:44 pm to SuperSaint

Delchamps still around?

Posted by Tyga Woods

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:46 pm to lsucoonass

quote:
Have you even had the sex talk with him?

Yes

quote:
What about the young lady? Does he talk about her a lot or is it just some one time thing?

It wouldn't hurt but don't pressure the young bloke

They aren't "dating", but they've been friends for a while and I think they really dig each other. And without sounding creepy, she's probably the best looking girl in their grade. Pretty advanced if you know what I mean

Posted by lsucoonass

shreveport and east texas

Member since Nov 2003

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Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:47 pm to Tyga Woods

Yeah

Give a condom just in case