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re: A hard / moving story we all need to read if for anything to shoot a prayer north

Posted on 8/23/17 at 11:58 am to
Posted by lsupride87
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 11:58 am to
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he didn't mean that literally, and you know that

I do? What was he saying then?
Posted by oleyeller
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:03 pm to
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You clearly will make decisions for your young child you deem unsafe where the risks arent worth it. Football just isnt one of those for you, which is perfectly fine. But it isnt because you are "just letting him live his life."


Kid n story was 17.. he wasnt a 10 yr old. He is old enough to decide if he wants to play football. But you wana use comparison that i may as well let him do blow and join the kkk, but when i bring up not letting him drive because of risk its (laughable) because driving is necessary for every day life... well its not for a kid, or a teen. But i would imagine when yours hits 16 he will be driving omg the risk, the horror
Posted by Carson123987
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:05 pm to
the phrase "he can live his own life" has implicit properties. parents use it when their kids choose soccer instead of football. they use it when their kids choose band over sports.

they don't use it for doing blow or joining the KKK or becoming a heroine junky.

"oh, tommy is a heroine addict?"
"yes, he can live his own life"
Posted by sicboy
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:07 pm to
Wow. This thread wrapped it's lips around the tailpipe.
Posted by lsupride87
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:10 pm to
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the phrase "he can live his own life" has implicit properties. parents use it when their kids choose soccer instead of football. they use it when their kids choose band over sports.
Agreed completely. I do not think that phrases should have been used in response to my comment....
Posted by Carson123987
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:11 pm to
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Wow. This thread wrapped it's lips around the tailpipe.


well the message of that article was trash, so the thread took an appropriate direction
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:12 pm to
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Kid n story was 17.. he wasnt a 10 yr old. He is old enough to decide if he wants to play football. But you wana use comparison that i may as well let him do blow and join the kkk, but when i bring up not letting him drive because of risk its (laughable) because driving is necessary for every day life... well its not for a kid, or a teen. But i would imagine when yours hits 16 he will be driving omg the risk, the horror
It is clear you are trying to use bravado to call me a pussy for not putting my son in football


You seem like a real hardass
Posted by sicboy
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:14 pm to
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well the message of that article was trash, so the thread took an appropriate direction


Not really. Even the mother acknowledge he didn't die because he was playing football. It was because he was sick and no one knew it. It could have happened with him playing basketball.
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:15 pm to
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Agreed completely. I do not think that phrases should have been used in response to my comment....




My phrase did not attack you or how you will raise your son. It simply stated how i will raise mine. I know there are plentu of people in the world today sheltering their children from every risky thing in the world out there, and thats fine. I choose to let my kid live his life, and if he wants to plat football, so be it. If he wants to be in a band, so be it. It is his life, not mine.
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:17 pm to
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clear you are trying to use bravado to call me a pussy for not putting my son in football




I not once attacked you, or called you out. Again i simply stated my opinion on raising my kid, same as you did about raising yours. Everyone is different.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:17 pm to
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My phrase did not attack you or how you will raise your son. It simply stated how i will raise mine.
You are going to say you werent trying to throw some salt by saying "you have to let them live their life"? Come on man
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
96255 posts
Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:19 pm to
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I not once attacked you, or called you out. Again i simply stated my opinion on raising my kid,



The equivalent to what you said, would have been me saying, "I am not going to let my son play football. I actually care about his well being and future"


You absolutely added your comment for emphasis. It is cool, I still like you
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:23 pm to
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You are going to say you werent trying to throw some salt by saying "you have to let them live their life"? Come on man



I never said this.. i said if he wants to play fb thats his decision.
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:24 pm to
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The equivalent to what you said, would have been me saying, "I am not going to let my son play football. I actually care about his well being and future"



And that would have been fine for u to say that. That is your decision. I have no issue with that. It seems that you already know what you are doing is making decisions for your kid and trying to justify it.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:25 pm to
What happens if he watches football on tv and likes it and begs to play year after year?
Posted by sicboy
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:26 pm to
Then I'll teach him to kick.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:28 pm to
Why not show him clips 9f tom brady and tell him to play like that? /except the whole acl tear thing tell him not to do that
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:29 pm to
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What happens if he watches football on tv and likes it and begs to play year after year?
It will be tough man. Being a parent if tough as hell. It isnt as easy as letting them do what they want. It is a fine line of balancing protecting them, vs sheltering them
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:29 pm to
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Then I'll teach him to kick.



Thats fine also..as well as not letn them play. That is each parents decision, and a decision they have to live with no matter their decision. My kid will have a choice if he wants to play or not. He will be aware of dangers of it, but in the end if he wants to play he can.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
96255 posts
Posted on 8/23/17 at 12:29 pm to
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except the whole acl tear thing tell him not to do that
Or the playing while concussed thing his wife talked about....
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