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What's the point of marriage?

Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:21 pm
Posted by truthteller34
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
146 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:21 pm
Historically, it started out as a way to unite families for power reasons and to provide children.

Then it shifted to marriage being based on love and wanting to be one person for the rest of their life. "Till death do us part"

But with divorces on the rise, doesn't that defeat the point of marriage?

If you can marry someone and commit to love and care for them forever in sickness and in health till death do you part, but then get a divorce 2 years later, what's even the point to begin with?

Sure the tax breaks are nice, but marriage has lost a lot of its initial value.

It seems nowadays girls just want a ring to show off to their friends and a fancy wedding and afterwards complain, then want a divorce then take half your earnings (if you're dumb enough to not get a pre-nup).

So if two people aren't going to stay together forever and legally they can get divorced whenever they want and in most marriages people do get divorced, what's the point of marriage in the first place?

You don't need to get married to have kids, and you don't need to get married to have sex, so I don't see any advantage to it for men or women.




Posted by UltimateHog
Oregon
Member since Dec 2011
66032 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:22 pm to
To ruin your life.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112939 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:23 pm to
As a young fella, Divorce Corp(doc on Netflix) scared the shite out of me. Pick the wrong woman and you could be living in the poor house as a middle aged man.
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:24 pm to
quote:

What's the point of marriage?

The pussy.

Wait...
Posted by Smoke Ring
Scenic Highway Crackhouse
Member since Dec 2010
4257 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:25 pm to
There's a 2/10 chance you pick the right woman. If you do, congrats, marriage is good. If you don't, you're fricked.
Posted by Rockbrc
Attic
Member since Nov 2015
7997 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:26 pm to
Mutual obsessive torture
Posted by LSUERDOC
Member since Jul 2013
2608 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:26 pm to
It's only advantageous for women. They can cheat and still be entitled to compensation in the divorce. Marriage is fine when you're young and want to raise a family. But getting remarried after your kids are older and your career is on track is a very bad business decision. You're bringing in a 50% partner who invested nothing toward the business other than tits and vagina.
No thanks.
Posted by heypaul
The O-T Lounge
Member since May 2008
38134 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:26 pm to
quote:

Sure the tax breaks are nice,

ummm...
I'm part of the highest taxed group of citizens in the country.
There are NO tax breaks for us...
This post was edited on 6/8/16 at 8:29 pm
Posted by bbeck
Member since Dec 2011
14572 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:28 pm to
It's a social status nowadays.

People have this idea stuck in their head that if they're not married or have kids by a certain age then they are a failure. It's sickening, depressing and hilarious all at the same time.
Posted by 75503Tiger
Member since Sep 2015
4268 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:28 pm to
To assure that you never get to do what you want, when you want or how you want. In exchange for that you get to live in a clean house and occasionally eat a nice meal you didn't have to cook. Being married is better than single
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58564 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:29 pm to
I did it to piss you off.
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15761 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:29 pm to
What's the point of this thread?


If you don't like it, don't get married.


Are you trying to take away the option for people who want to?
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:31 pm to
Cause after the wedding you get to put your penis in her, and it's awesome!!!
Posted by TigerGman
Center of the Universe
Member since Sep 2006
11352 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:38 pm to
There are some sad lonely people in this thread.
Posted by Kel Varnsen
Member since May 2013
1975 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:40 pm to
I don't know why this is getting downvoted so much. Agree 100%. If I married ANY girl that I've dated, I'd be fricked. Maybe that's more of a reflection on me though
Posted by Byron Bojangles III
Member since Nov 2012
51880 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:41 pm to
Monogamy is something humans created it's not natural
Posted by Mars duMorgue
Sunset Dist/SF
Member since Aug 2015
2816 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:46 pm to
In a species where millions bet on Powerball every week, it should be no surprise that many people are willing to gamble on marriage.
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
69424 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:47 pm to
In some parts of this world families marry their teenage daughters for cows.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:51 pm to
People tend to blame marriage for being flawed or a failure as an institution. I find that view shortsighted and naive for a few reasons. Marriages fail because

1. People marry for the wrong reasons (money, attractiveness)
2. People search for significant others that have appealing qualities if you're looking for a girl to bang at a bar, but not if you're looking for a wife.
3. People aren't willing to put in the work to make it successful. And it takes both people to make it work.
4. People do not discuss the real issues that will matter in a marriage and get married only because it "feels right." This is sort of related to reason 1.


It basically all boils down to people not looking at what is important in a spouse before making that commitment and living solely by their feelings.
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
28193 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 8:51 pm to
Commitment, who can do it? Best thing I ever did. 35 years of joy. Can you commit? So few can.
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