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Is seeing a therapist regularly a red flag?

Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm
Not someone who is looking for help getting thru a bad situation but a person that goes to a therapist once a week regardless if they have issues or not. The last couple of chicks I tried to date did this and it seemed the consistency between them was they overthought everything about the relationship to the point of talking themselves out of a commitment. Another example of single women in their mid 30s who have no kids and have never been married usually having a reason why.

What says the OT?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:46 pm to
Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.
Posted by captainahab
Highway Trio8
Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
Daddy issues - run!
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
69533 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
all women could use a therapist
Posted by broadhead
Member since Oct 2014
2484 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:47 pm to
Yeah, she sounds crazy but the sex should be worth it for a little while.
Posted by yellowhammer2098
New Orleans, LA
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:48 pm to
Isn't this what friends are for? As opposed to paid help (therapist)?
Posted by PsychTiger
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:48 pm to
She just hasn't met a man who can please her, yet.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:49 pm to
of course it is
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:50 pm to
It's not a red flag, but it's a yellow flashing light. It means you don't need to stop, but proceed with caution.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:51 pm to
quote:

Isn't this what friends are for? As opposed to paid help (therapist)?



You don't have to see your therapist whenever you go out for hours at a time, and friends (particularly females) can give some awful advise. A therapist means she's self aware, which is a hell of a lot better than a psycho who insists they're right about everything, no matter how crazy it sounds.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60323 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:51 pm to
Maybe some guys just enjoy playing the rapist?

It's just not my style.
Posted by ballscaster
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:55 pm to
quote:

It's not a red flag, but it's a yellow flashing light. It means you don't need to stop, but proceed with caution.

I'd posit that it's closer to a green flag than a red flag, though I completely agree with what you say.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:56 pm to
Yes it means she has issues. Cum in her butt, not vag.
Posted by MrSmith
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:59 pm to
quote:

Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.
Posted by LucasP
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 2:59 pm to
Trashy
Posted by Kraut Dawg
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:04 pm to
This post was edited on 11/8/20 at 11:23 am
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:07 pm to
Anyone who sets aside a chunk of money and at least an hour a week to focus on what makes them unhappy with a stranger, definitely has some issues.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:10 pm to
All chicks need therapy
Posted by Titan
Member since Apr 2008
2480 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.


I concur. People who dont know when to seek help or think bad of others who do are mentally weak.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85946 posts
Posted on 11/17/15 at 3:44 pm to
quote:

Not really. It means that they're self-aware enough to mean they know they need help.



Ehhh, very well could be.

But I have to say that I've seen plenty of females in particular who see a therapist regularly who also continue to make the same absurd, attention-seeking decisions over and over again.

Some people view perceived mental health issues, minor depression, behavioral/emotional issues as part of their personality. Sometimes that is necessary, sometimes it is a fricked up hobby.
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