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In-Law Advice Needed

Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:25 am
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:25 am
Received an email today from my MIL informing me of her remaining summer travel schedule. Each summer my in-laws, who I loathe, travel around and visit each of their children. They have 2, but you would think they are planning Queen Elizabeth's summer tour. The dates that they have chosen to visit my family are September 4-11. See where this is going?? The first Saturday of college football is a high-holy day for me. I do nothing besides watch football and I certainly don't want to put up with their snobby, petty, judgmental, critical, crusty asses on one of my favorite days of the year.
I promptly responded, thanks, but that date isn't going to work for us - we're busy.
So tonight she gets drunk, calls my husband (yes, I'm a girl) crying saying she hasn't been feeling well and that she's afraid that this is her last visit ever and they need to visit that weekend. I still said nope. There are 7 weeks bt now and 9/4, plenty of other days to visit. I also suggested that my husband take the kids and go visit them (my kids aren't speaking to me now).
Been dealing with these a holes for over 20 years and I'm just tired of their BS.
So anybody out there think I should cave and let them visit??
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 12:27 am
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
100979 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:26 am to
Plan a work trip for that weekend
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 12:28 am
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43022 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:27 am to
quote:

(yes, I'm a girl)


Pics?
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:27 am to
How far away do they live?

CFB is king but you'll feel like a total dick if she really does die.

Posted by Bigpoppat
Drinking a Manhattan
Member since Oct 2008
9270 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:27 am to
You sound trashy
Posted by Paedin
Tampa, Florida
Member since Apr 2012
2310 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:28 am to
quote:

Pics?


The OT does not disappoint
Posted by BigB0882
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2014
5417 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:28 am to
If she is really sick and this may be her last visit then the earlier the better, right? It sounds like she would be happy to come sooner but since she isn't that goes to show she is just lying and playing her son. I love that you stuck to your answer. Is your husband upset? Is he a big momma's boy? Why are your kids so upset? Are they still at that age where grandparents are the best thing in the world?
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
29568 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:28 am to
quote:

The first Saturday of college football is a high-holy day for me. I do nothing besides watch football all day


The women who post here are just so cool.
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 12:29 am
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76276 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:30 am to
Holy shite. This is one of the most selfish things I have ever heard of.


And I am a self admitted a-hole. It is football, get over it for one weekend.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84356 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:31 am to
Cheat on your husband with the BBC.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76276 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:32 am to
quote:

The women who post here are just so cool.



I have never enjoyed being near a single woman during football. Even the coolest ones are annoying as hell during a game.
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:32 am to
The MIL will understand, she's done it before too.
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:33 am to
My kids are mad because I suggested a they go visit them for a week. It takes me weeks to repair my children's self-esteem after their grandparents visit.
The last time they were here my husband had to be out of town for work for 4 days of their visit (um-hmm) I wore out his credit card for those 4 days, btw.
They just aren't very nice people...
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:34 am to
quote:

I wore out his credit card for those 4 days, btw.


Ahhhh you're one of those gals huh

Explains this thread really
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76276 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:34 am to
They say men tend to marry their mothers.


So there is that.
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 12:35 am
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
179553 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:36 am to
I think you're being a C U Next Tuesday myself.

I bet you wouldn't be such a bitch if it was your family visting.

It's just football and family is way more important than that but I don't expect a Gump to grasp that concept.

I hope your husband leaves you for a younger piece of trim and menopause makes you undesirable to any other man.
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 12:42 am
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
179553 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:37 am to
quote:

I wore out his credit card for those 4 days, btw.


GD you seem miserable. Your husband probably needed a break from you.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76276 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:38 am to
quote:

think you're being a C U Next Tuesday myself.



I almost posted the exact same comment.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83127 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:42 am to
Do you know how to do the atomic wedgie?
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:44 am to
quote:

happy to come sooner but since she isnt


Exactly my point. I have never one time asked them to switch a time that they have visited. Neither of them work, she wouldn't give me a reason she couldn't come a few days later.
I don't think she is doing this bc of football. She's doing it bc last year they came after school started and with 3 teenagers that was difficult; I asked them last year to plan on coming this year before school started.
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