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Posted on 7/20/15 at 12:10 pm to HaveMercy
Whats so great about you that he constantly has to pikc u over his parents?
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:03 pm to StrongSafety
My wife and I have been married 4 years and she has over analyzed everything my parents have said and done ever since we got married. Says their marriage is horrible and she doesn't want us to end up that way. It has really put a damper on our marriage and I see divorce in our future. It's fine for her parents to come and go as they please, but any time mine asks to come visit we are always "busy". Makes life a living hell. We also have a 17 month old. It's going to be tough. Any time we have an argument or differing opinions she threatens to leave, and now she's trying to send me to a counselor again (this time by myself bc "I'm the problem"). It's been a very trying four years and not at all the happily ever after I had hope for.... I will never get married again if this falls through. I think all women have a level of crazy and not at all worth the trouble.
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 1:30 pm
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:16 pm to slowdanceCHUB
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I see divorce in our future.
Quiter
This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 1:25 pm
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:17 pm to TigerHam85
That was a really sad post
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:20 pm to slowdanceCHUB
Yeah its time to put them big boy pants on son. The wife has them on now. Tell her straight up about her one way street with the parents thing. If you can't work on it through counseling maybe it is time to move along. Your kid is young and won't remember you being married just be prepared to pay child support a long time. Get a good lawyer too. Good luck
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:22 pm to boddagetta
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Underated post. Nice.
Thanks. Mine are either gems or turds. I just cannot tell which until after I hit submit.
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:25 pm to TigerHam85
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Quitter
Hell 4 years vested you can get over that dont wait to get to double digits in marriage years then decide it is time for the big D.
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:27 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
Divorce sucks, but marriage sucks worse.
Go for it.
Go for it.
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:28 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
I agree. I was just using that term jokingly from the divorce thread last week when some guy was calling the OP, who had been served papers, a quiter after 23 years of marriage, 18 months of counseling and all kind of other shite.
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:29 pm to LucasP
Yeah marriage has a few good years but since my divorce 6 years ago I have never been happier.
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:34 pm to slowdanceCHUB
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Any time we have an argument or differing opinions she threatens to leave
He who files 1st wins. Do it now!!!!
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:49 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
There are lots of interesting ways in which a father being in his child's daily life that are important for his development
For example, a father will let a child learning to crawl go further than a mother would, thus fostering independence
For example, a father will let a child learning to crawl go further than a mother would, thus fostering independence
Posted on 7/20/15 at 1:51 pm to TigerHam85
*quitter. You had it right the first time
Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:04 pm to slowdanceCHUB
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Makes life a living hell
OP here might not be the best person to offer advice on this topic for obvious reasons; but please don't let this ruin your marriage. My sister-in-law moved away from both sets of parents so they could get some peace. Maybe get your pastor involved or another impartial 3rd party.
If the in-laws are a pain in the arse now, imagine how they'll be when your divorced...
Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:07 pm to HaveMercy
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(my kids aren't speaking to me now)
Sounds like you have bigger things to worry about than College Football...
Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:08 pm to Paige
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How old is your "herd"?
Not sure about your quotes, but I have 71 weanlings at a sale. I just sold all 32 bull calves. It went well - heifers go later...
Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:09 pm to HaveMercy
because I wasn't sure if you were referring to your children as your herd Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:10 pm to Paige
LOL. That's funny!
Posted on 7/20/15 at 2:21 pm to slowdanceCHUB
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My wife and I have been married 4 years and she has over analyzed everything my parents have said and done ever since we got married. Says their marriage is horrible and she doesn't want us to end up that way. It has really put a damper on our marriage and I see divorce in our future. It's fine for her parents to come and go as they please, but any time mine asks to come visit we are always "busy". Makes life a living hell. We also have a 17 month old. It's going to be tough. Any time we have an argument or differing opinions she threatens to leave, and now she's trying to send me to a counselor again (this time by myself bc "I'm the problem"). It's been a very trying four years and not at all the happily ever after I had hope for.... I will never get married again if this falls through. I think all women have a level of crazy and not at all worth the trouble.
Shouldn't have married a Filipina.
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