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Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?

Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:33 am
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30616 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:33 am
This guy's grandmother died and my girlfriend felt like she had to go. I don't understand why? She sent flowers already. The ex's mom showed up at her work yesterday and she told her she was sorry but will not be able to attend because of out of state plans with me.

Well, this morning comes and she now decides she has to go. Out of state plans with my family are now changed. Will leave tomorrow. I could not go with her to the funeral due to short notice because the funeral is 90 minutes away. I thought sending flowers and speaking to his mom was enough. Her ex's family are friends to her family. But, I know her ex emails her but she says she does not respond. I'm not really sure what to think about the situation. I guess it is not a big deal.

Would you care if your significant other wanted to attend an ex's family member funeral?
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 11:35 am
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83668 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:34 am to
quote:

Would you care if your significant other wanted to attend an ex's family memeber funeral?


:sigh:

my god
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:34 am to
Ex is banging your gf, guaranteed
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:34 am to
Yeah it's fine
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101853 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:34 am to
quote:

The ex's mom showed up at her work yesterday and she told her she was sorry but will not be able to attend because of out of state plans with me.
Posted by LSUTygerFan
Homerun Village
Member since Jun 2008
33232 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:34 am to
quote:

Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?


yes... next question
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101935 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:35 am to
quote:

Would you care if your significant other wanted to attend an ex's family memeber funeral?

No, not really. Especially since you said they were family friends.

Changing her mind and forcing you and your family to change your plans is bullshite though.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:35 am to
funerals are not for the dead. They are for the relatives.

She is going for the ex. Death is nature's aphrodisiac
Posted by ipodking
#StopTalkingAboutWomensSports
Member since Jun 2008
56325 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:36 am to
Of course it's ok. Sounds like she is close with that family, you shouldn't have a problem with it
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73729 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:36 am to
Her ex boyfriend or exhusband/fiance.

It makes a big difference.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39640 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:36 am to
quote:

But, I know her ex emails her but she says she does not respond.


So the guy just keeps emailing and emailing without a single response?

Ya right.
Posted by genro
Member since Nov 2011
61788 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:37 am to
There's no strict yes or no answer to whether this is okay. You made this thread because you don't trust her. Is that mistrust justified? You have to figure that out.
Posted by iluvdatiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2004
42834 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:38 am to
quote:

Would you care if your significant other wanted to attend an ex's family member funeral?


not at all.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21669 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:40 am to
quote:

This guy's grandmother died and my girlfriend felt like she had to go. I don't understand why?


Because she hasn't let go completely.


quote:

Well, this morning comes and she now decides she has to go.


Because "ex" contacted her overnight.

quote:

I know her ex emails her but she says she does not respond.


And you really believe that?

Just wait until tomorrow when the 90 minute trip is too long for her to drive back and she thinks she better "get a hotel room" and stay over.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:41 am to
your girl is getting banged out by her ex. sorry brah
Posted by GetEmGates225
Member since Oct 2014
88 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:43 am to
Ex is gonna PIIHB.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
17041 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
Need pics before I can pass judgement
Posted by Dylan
Bayou Barbary
Member since May 2009
3415 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:44 am to
Nothing wrong at all with her going.
Posted by CajunAlum Tiger Fan
The Great State of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2008
7883 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:46 am to
You either have trust issues, insecurity issues, or both. Girls hate that shite.

If you give her a hard time, the end is near.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32547 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:49 am to
There's definitely something going on. Guys don't continue to email girls that don't respond. They talked yesterday, that's why she is now going.
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