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re: Im struggling bad this morning

Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:19 am to
Posted by ThaTigerDon
You cant see me
Member since Jun 2009
649 posts
Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:19 am to
I figured coming to work would take it off my mind for a while its not working.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
17145 posts
Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:21 am to
Take the day off and go home
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10074 posts
Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:23 am to
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I figured coming to work would take it off my mind for a while its not working.

This is probably the worst thing a normal person can do in this situation, which is why so many do it.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13271 posts
Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:27 am to
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I figured coming to work would take it off my mind for a while its not working.

Trying to carry on with normal life too early after a loss will only make it worse. Grieving with friends and family is a process that needs to be done in order to move on. Share memories of the good times you had together with all who knew your friend.

There is nothing shameful about crying, especially in this situation. My condolences to you, may you find comfort after this tragedy.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
27388 posts
Posted on 9/22/14 at 8:58 am to
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figured coming to work would take it off my mind for a while its not working.


You need to think about it. It's part of the grieving process. To do otherwise is only to delay it. If he had a wife or kids, go help/do something for them. That'll give you a way to honor your friend and help them. Men cry. Just not over pain or women. Just bro's and dogs. And their favorite team losing. And perhap's at the end of Rudy or Ole Yeller. Or when McDonalds shelves the McRib.

Condolences and prayers for your friend and his family.
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