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Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:08 pm to CAT
define a "crush"
do you daydream about this chick constantly? stalk her FB?
being attracted to someone, and having a crush/flirting with someone is completely different
do you daydream about this chick constantly? stalk her FB?
being attracted to someone, and having a crush/flirting with someone is completely different
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:12 pm to CAT
Of course it can happen and you can still be normal. Just don't act on it or put yourself in a situation that might contribute to your acting on it.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:13 pm to CAT
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:16 pm to CAT
cheat on your wife with the girl you like
tons of people are doing it nowadays
tons of people are doing it nowadays
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:16 pm to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years but
You just did. You posted about it for more information. Bang the woman, what could go wrong.
BTW, if your wife sees this post she will figure out who the woman is and you are frickED
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:20 pm to CAT
Is this other woman from work or what?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:26 pm to CAT
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the other woman
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Central Arkansas
Your Sister, right?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
Be sure you are not perpetuating the thrill......that goes into emotional infidelity that may likely lead to the physical type.
Do not make yourself available for drinks after work or any other convenient forum to grow the crush.
Walk away or yee shall be judged.
Do not make yourself available for drinks after work or any other convenient forum to grow the crush.
Walk away or yee shall be judged.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
In my opinion it's only normal. You're biologically programmed to reproduce with the fittest mate and your mind sees this women as your next reproductive tool. Acting on it would be shitty human part. I'm sure everyone at one point in their marriage has seen another person and just wanted to frick them all night.
I firmly believe proximity creates attraction.
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My sister calls them work crushes, and she tells her husband. If you work a ton of hours with this person, shite like this happens.
I firmly believe proximity creates attraction.
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 1:32 pm
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
Do you consider yourself cooler than her husband?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:44 pm to CAT
Deny Deny Deny
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:47 pm to CAT
Bitches love men who DGAF. Happily married men DGAF and if you want to stay happily married just do that and take the occurrences as compliments and go about your day.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 2:09 pm to CAT
Strange is but laser turrets attempting to prevent you from hitting the exhaust port.
C'mon, dude.
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 2:13 pm
Posted on 8/26/14 at 2:18 pm to CAT
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This happen to others? Been very happily married for over 15 years and never thought you could have a crush on another but still love your wife the same. Weird as frick. No problems at all in our marriage. The other part is fairly certain the other woman feels the same, and yes she's married.
In general, I would say it's not a big deal. But the last sentence is concerning. You saying you think she has a crush on you leads me to think there's two possibilities:
1) She's flirting with you. You might be thinking it's innocent, and it might not be particularly harmful, but it's extremely dangerous. If you are reciprocating and doing what you think is "harmless" flirting, you need to stop now. If she is flirting with you but you (despite your crush on her) are doing good not to return the flirting, you need to talk with her and tell her to stop and/or really, really limit the amount you see her.
2) You might be completely wrong that she has a crush on you, but your mind is tricking you to think she does and you may subconsciously want her to have one on you. This means you're not really complicit at all now like if you were flirting with her in scenario 1, but you have to a) be very wary if she actually were to develop a crush and/or b) try to make yourself aware if you act subconsciously around her in a way that tries to validate for you that she indeed has a crush on you. If so, you need to stop that behavior, too.
I don't know how it's possible for you to think she has a crush on you if it's not one of those two things.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 2:49 pm to CAT
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The other part is fairly certain the other woman feels the same,
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Never would act on it in a million years
The curiosity will get to both of you if this is the case
Posted on 8/26/14 at 3:29 pm to CAT
How would you feel if your wife had a crush on another man?
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 3:30 pm
Posted on 8/26/14 at 3:42 pm to CAT
That is how affairs get started. Mutual attraction between married to others.
It is normal. If you act on it, then you suck.
It is normal. If you act on it, then you suck.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 5:31 pm to CAT
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The other part is fairly certain the other woman feels the same, and yes she's married.
It's a trap
Posted on 8/26/14 at 7:39 pm to CAT
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Having a crush while happily married This happen to others? Been very happily married for over 15 years and never thought you could have a crush on another but still love your wife the same. Weird as frick. No problems at all in our marriage. The other part is fairly certain the other woman feels the same, and yes she's married. Never would act on it in a million years but just wondering is this common or do I just suck as a human?
Have you told your husband?
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