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Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:53 pm
Posted by momentoftruth87
DeSantis Country
Member since Oct 2013
73317 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:53 pm
Looking for good advice on teaching my son beyond the basics early on. He is 3 the greatest kid anyone can ask for! He's always outside and loves sports.

Just looking for advice or techniques that you or your family did with your children to challenge them and strengthen their mental ability. Right now we read to him, do flash cards with colors, shapes and objects. He has a hard time remembering numbers by sight and writing. I've tried to do dashes and have him follow the lines and will be picking up a writing book for him soon. I guess I'm just frustrated and want the best for him and have always expected more out of him. I hope I'm not wrong or behind. Again any advice would be awesome!
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 7:59 pm
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:54 pm to
Discipline him when he does wrong

Limit his tv usage

Posted by Rekrul
Member since Feb 2007
7996 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:55 pm to
Take him to a river, throw him in. Swimming lesson
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66526 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:56 pm to
quote:

He is 3 the greatest kid anyone can ask for


no, my two sons are both better than him
Posted by Tactical1
Denham Springs
Member since May 2010
27104 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:57 pm to
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How to spell would be a good start.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67023 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 7:59 pm to
quote:

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quote:

Looking for good advice on teaching my son beyond the basics early on.

quote:

He is 3 the greatest kid anyone can ask for!

quote:

do flash cards with colors,

quote:

I've tried to do dashes


If you're going to teach him anything about spelling or grammar I'd suggest hiring a tutor. In fact if you're going to teach him anything yourself just stop.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 8:00 pm
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36247 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:00 pm to
Probably not a good place to get advice.

On anything.

Ever.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18153 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:03 pm to
At 3, his fine motor skills may not be strong enough to really write legibly. It takes a lot of finger strength to get those darned letters in the right shape. Really, let him play age appropriate hands-on things like blocks and Play-doh; while you might not think of these things as "educational", they help build the skills to do other things.

A lot of preschool/Kindergarten/1st grade teachers use dry erase markers and boards because they slide easier and make it easier for kids to write.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 8:05 pm
Posted by Schmelly
Member since Jan 2014
14543 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:03 pm to
As for teaching numbers & letters, the apple App Store is great. Look for one called Endless Reader & another called Endless Numbers. Mine just turned 2 & can navigate an iPad like an adult.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:04 pm to
Writing? A three year old?

You might be trying too hard
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 8:23 pm
Posted by TexasTiger1185
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2011
13076 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:06 pm to
My advice? Chill the frick out.

Get him to meet other kids. My son is the same age, and he can draw people, count to 29, knows all his letters and numbers by site, colors, shapes. All that bs, but getting him to interact with other children has been the best thing for him so far.

And make it more fun than flash cards. Come on, that sounds miserable.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:07 pm to
Dorothy is correct

Expecting a three year old to write is ridiculous

When they take the test to get into pre-k, they ask shite like body parts and colors

Unless your kid is a myers-Briggs genius, you really need to chill out
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:13 pm to
He's three and you already sound like a nightmare of a parent. God help him if he ever brings home a "B" when he's older.
Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35720 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:19 pm to
He's 3. What the frick do you "expect more out of him"?

Jesus, let the little kid be a little kid.
Posted by BelleTigre11
Member since May 2011
1087 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:19 pm to
Expose him to everything.
children's museum, zoo, farmer's market
play sports-buy him a ball & bat
listen to classical music - buy him an instrument
show him art - make art with him
Grocery store - teach him foods/veggies/fruit & have them taste them

When he gets a litter older, TRAVEL with him. When he's learning American History in 7th grade & he's already been to DC or Pennsylvania he'll have a head start.

READ magazine articles to him about interesting animals or places or technology. Hang out at the book store and let him explore and see where he ends up (most have a children's section that you can be a little noisy in)

Bring him out into the world. Taste different food - have him help cook in the kitchen. Make everything a learning experience. Have him "pay" for items so he learns currency.

Bring him to a public park so he learns what other children look like that are different than him (different races, dress differently than him, sound different than you)

Yea and you need to discipline him. Tell your wife to get over it. All of the above is pointless if he ends up in jail...
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 8:22 pm
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
20946 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:20 pm to
Your kid isn't special.
Posted by TROLA
BATON ROUGE
Member since Apr 2004
12584 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:21 pm to
Let him be a kid.. No reason to challenge a child that age, it will frustrate the both of you at that age.. Studies repeatedly show that playing and the interaction that follows is best from them.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76846 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:22 pm to
Maybe your kid is dumb like his daddy
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
14183 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:24 pm to
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 8:26 pm to
Burn him with a lit cig whenever he doesnt meet your expectations.

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