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re: Should I say something to the father?
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:26 pm to prplngldtigr
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:26 pm to prplngldtigr
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Some really bizarre, immature comments in this thread. Some of you either aren't grown men or have no idea about what constitutes friendship. When men are friends they look out for each other and perhaps even each other's families should they happen to be that close. If you have a friend like that and you value loyalty, trust and honesty; you have no alternative but to talk to the dad. If you saw your buddy's daughter being groped, touched, grabbed, etc., you have got to do something. Either personally intervene of talk to the parents. It is in no way okay to watch a friend's daughter be taken advantage of and even if it's of her free will you stop it. It's the equivalent of allowing a friends child to do drugs, lie, cheat, steal, have sex at your house, etc. Adults shouldn't be complicent in the bad behavior of children. Adults , especially friends, prevent bad outcomes whether the child sees it that way or not. Lot of dumb in this thread. Hopefully, it's just ignorance from not having kids, but even that isnt an excuse. If you're an adult , you should know better than to be okay with shite like that.
This. All day this.
Really, the only adult response in this whole damn thread.
I'd be happy to have you as a IRL friend.
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:28 pm to Goldrush25
You may be right, but I don't see it as necessarily the case. Different kids have different needs. They could just think that the different environments will be better for her development. This may be a little different, but my sisters and I all went to different high schools based off of the type of students that we were.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:29 pm to Festus
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don't feel compelled to tell every friend I have that their daughter in high school flirts. If you do, you need to reevaluate your life.
This . Teenagers flirt/talk to/like the opposite sex. I'd wonder if they weren't interested in or flirted with one another.
Unless they were doing something illegal or disrespectful to elders/authority figures,etc..... I can't see why this is an issue nor why I should intervene.
Everybody's poor daughter is 'taken advantage of' just like their Sons 'hang with the wrong crowd' & need parents(and parents friends) to protect them?
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 2:33 pm
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:33 pm to sugar71
WTF is wrong with people in here? This is what the OP said:
And he stated they were in public. Unless he's withholding info, she was flirting. Done by every high school kid in the world.
If you feel compelled to tell her daddy this, you seriously have busybody syndrome, and should reevaluate your life. Or consider possibly you have some inappropriate jealousy over your friend's teenage daughter. Again, reevaluate your life.
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I noticed the boys were a little too friendly with her when the brother was not around.
And he stated they were in public. Unless he's withholding info, she was flirting. Done by every high school kid in the world.
If you feel compelled to tell her daddy this, you seriously have busybody syndrome, and should reevaluate your life. Or consider possibly you have some inappropriate jealousy over your friend's teenage daughter. Again, reevaluate your life.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:41 pm to DWaginHTown
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quote: This thread makes it pretty apparent who has kids, and/or is often around kids.
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And who should never procreate
And who the overbearing, tyrannical parents are that will ultimately create the rebellious slut who gives me my lap dances every Friday afternoon.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 2:48 pm to bigpetedatiga
You can tell who the people are in this thread:
High schoolers: let the guys get laid
College aged: you have a relationship with the young lady
Young adults: mind your own business
Middle aged parents: let the parents know
High schoolers: let the guys get laid
College aged: you have a relationship with the young lady
Young adults: mind your own business
Middle aged parents: let the parents know
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:01 pm to Dupont3
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You can tell who the people are in this thread: High schoolers: let the guys get laid College aged: you have a relationship with the young lady Young adults: mind your own business Middle aged parents: let the parents know
The issue is that there seems to be a disconnect here in what constitutes inappropriate behavior. As far as I can tell, it was some guys that were hugged up on her at the meet. That's pretty weak IMO.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:03 pm to Dupont3
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Middle aged parents: let the parents know
And probably don't need kids if they are too naive to know or already understand that sexually mature High School kids flirt with the opposite sex. Or whatever the heck 'too friendly' means.
Unless the flirting is with someone who is not a peer(someone older) I don't understand what the problem is.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:26 pm to sugar71
The immaturity is this thread is quite unbelievable
The older boys were chatting up the developed younger girl for one reason, to get their dick wet. And the retards in this thread are cheering that on.
Quit trying to paint it as innocent conversation. The parents need to know now, rather than to deal with an offspring later
The older boys were chatting up the developed younger girl for one reason, to get their dick wet. And the retards in this thread are cheering that on.
Quit trying to paint it as innocent conversation. The parents need to know now, rather than to deal with an offspring later
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:35 pm to Festus
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Are these guys just flirting with her? That's normal to do when the dad and brother aren't around. Or are they groping her? And what's the OP's business in all of this? Why can't he just mention something to the girl?
Yep.
It's not looking good for the OP. He should've mentioned the age and clarified if she wasn't handicapped or not. I don't blame him for abandoning this thread like he did.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:39 pm to Sentrius
Only logical answer to this is for YOU to PIIHB.
Your welcome.
Your welcome.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:46 pm to Clutch Cargo
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Really, the only adult response in this whole damn thread.
he turned what apparently was normal flirting behavior into
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groped, touched, grabbed, etc.
so "adult responses" = over exaggerating for emotional effect?
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:47 pm to Sentrius
Go frick yourself Sentrius.
I stated that I already called and talked to the father. What else was I suppose to be sticking around for?
I stated that I already called and talked to the father. What else was I suppose to be sticking around for?
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:48 pm to Sentrius
The OP said that he is a close family friend of the children, father in question and she is like a daughter to him. He also said he is a teacher which I why I assumed he was at the meet. Some of the immaturity in this thread is hilarious. For all all the talk on this site about what is "trashy" It's funny how it isn't recognized that allowing some disrespectful little shits to be all over your your good friend's daughter and not intervening is looked at in a positive light.
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 3:50 pm
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:51 pm to League Champs
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The older boys were chatting up the developed younger girl for one reason, to get their dick wet. And the retards in this thread are cheering that on.
Quit trying to paint it as innocent conversation
"innocent" isn't how it's being painted.
normal? yes
expected? yes
improper? no (at least how it was described/being analyzed)
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:55 pm to St Augustine
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For all all the talk on this site about what is "trashy" It's funny how it isn't recognized that allowing some disrespectful little shits to be all over your your good friend's daughter and not intervening is looked at in a positive light.
"be all over" is the issue. it sounds like they were just flirting with her...like teenagers do...and like you did. and i did. and most people are telling him to chill the frick out over what was described as no big deal
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:57 pm to League Champs
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Quit trying to paint it as innocent conversation. The parents need to know now, rather than to deal with an offspring later
If it were that bad, he should have done something as it was happening. Esp if they were touching her inappropriately
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:58 pm to SlowFlowPro
Fair enough. I gave the OP the benefit of the doubt that it was more than simply flirting though being that he has had multiple years teaching experience and probably sees his fair share of teenage interaction.
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 4:00 pm
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:58 pm to Lester Earl
I did
Posted on 3/30/14 at 3:59 pm to bigpetedatiga
what did you tell the boys?
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