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Tips for my son

Posted on 3/11/26 at 10:16 am
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 10:16 am
My son is almost 13. He made the golf team for his school. And he’s absolutely obsessed. His home course is Money Hill so he gets unlimited use during the season. We live 5 minutes from MH so we’ve been going almost every day. He hits his driver, woods and wedges pretty damn good. But he struggles with irons. We do have him in lessons but it’s obviously way too expensive to do every day and like I said we live so close to MH that I need ways to help him on my own. I’m not a golfer but have started to play with him so we’re both learning. What tips can I use to help him, not just with his irons but in general.

I had no idea how insanely addictive this is. I can’t hit at MH because we’re not members yet. But we also live right by the Abita range so we’ve been going out there when I want to hit. He likes to hit off grass and not the mats so he usually wants to go to MH cause the grass at Abita isn’t well maintained

TIA
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 10:29 am to
Get him working with Rob Noel.
Posted by FieldEngineer
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 10:59 am to
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We do have him in lessons but it’s obviously way too expensive to do every day


That should be an every 2-6 week deal, probably even less often as he progresses. A teaching pro will give him drills to work on, and he can work to commit movements to muscle memory in between lessons.

My biggest tip would be to manage expectations. Don't let the bad shots or blowup holes get to him. He may go through some months where he plays like crap before he finds his swing. Golf is really hard.
This post was edited on 3/11/26 at 11:00 am
Posted by reauxl tigers
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 11:14 am to
After about 4 years of playing without lessons as a kid, one lesson with Chris Burkstaller exponentially improved my game. Only had a few more after that. Probably the only reason I'm any good today.

I think the earlier you get lessons the better. The less time spent forming bad habits/muscle memory, the better.

I know the Island is a bit of a drive but I'm just giving my 2 cents.
This post was edited on 3/11/26 at 12:36 pm
Posted by Geauxldilocks
Member since Aug 2018
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 11:19 am to
At that age (and many) it’s always more fun to hit full shots on the range.

Having an elite short game (pitching, chipping, bunker and putting) comprises well over 50% of shots in most rounds.

Spend at least 2/3 time on short game as part of regimen.

Don’t ignore strength and flexibility training and it’s not too early to start speed training (speed sticks, stack etc). Distance is king learn to go hard now figure out accuracy later.
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:04 pm to
He’s actually very disciplined (on his own) with practicing his short game. He rarely ever picks up his driver first. He puts a lot of time into his wedges and putting. He got a sand wedge the other day and has been practicing hitting balls out of the bunker. “I’m a beginner dad, I’m sure I’ll be in the bunker a lot”

I have no idea who this kid is
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:06 pm to
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Distance is king learn to go hard now figure out accuracy later.

With all due respect, I know I’m not an expert, but from all my research and what a couple coaches have told me, it should be the opposite.
Posted by Geauxldilocks
Member since Aug 2018
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:14 pm to
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With all due respect, I know I’m not an expert, but from all my research and what a couple coaches have told me, it should be the opposite.


Go read Jack Nicklaus’ golf my way. His instructor famously held his hair instructing Jack to max out his swing as a 13 year old. There are no keep it in play 270 yard hitters in the top 20 to be found.
Posted by dalefla
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Member since Jul 2024
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:16 pm to
There is only one club you use most every hole. Good putting will save the most strokes as he improves the rest of his game.

Drive for show, putt for dough.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:18 pm to
My son is 9 and fairly solid right now. Took him to Leitz. He said let him keep hitting it as hard as he can and just being athletic and loving golf and come see him again around 11

So it seems “coach” them young maybe shifting
This post was edited on 3/11/26 at 12:19 pm
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:18 pm to
quote:

There is only one club you use most every hole. Good putting will save the most strokes as he improves the rest of his game. Drive for show, putt for dough.
Driving is far more important than putting
Posted by RichJ
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:23 pm to
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I can’t hit at MH because we’re not members




Posted by Geauxldilocks
Member since Aug 2018
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

My son is 9 and fairly solid right now. Took him to Leitz. He said let him keep hitting it as hard as he can and just being athletic and loving golf and come see him again around 11 So it seems “coach” them young maybe shifting


Agree, plenty of time to learn the technical nuances of the swing. 15 seems more appropriate to AMV type training but at that age just have fun and compete with yourself and friends.
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 1:02 pm to
Haha. We’re about to join. Just waiting for the season to end since he gets unlimited use right now.
Posted by dek81572
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 1:39 pm to
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Drive for show, putt for dough.


That's old school advice, analytics says otherwise. Being able to shorten the course leads to shorter approach shots which statistically get closer to the hole. Shorted approach shots increase birdie chances. According to analytics, 1. approach shots 2. driving distance/ keeping it in play 3. short game 4. putting.

A typical 15 hcp golfer loses roughly: 3 strokes off the tee, 4-5 strokes on approach, 1-2 strokes around the green and 1 stroke putting. The majority of strokes lost come before the putter ever comes out.

Notice the Tour players increased desire to hit it farther. It doesn't really matter to them if they hit fairways, they want to get it as far down the fairway as possible to shorten their approach shot so they can get it closer to the hole. What good does it do you to be a great putter if you're putting for bogey the majority of the time because you can't hit greens in regulation and the #1 factor in hitting greens in regulation is how close one is from the hole after their drive.

Are the irons he has fit for him or are they just some old clubs y'all picked up. Having clubs that are fit for length, lie angle, flex and weight are extremely important to how the club reacts to the turf and ball. I'm not saying you need to go to Club Champion and try 15 different club head, shaft combo's and spend a ton of money. You can get this done at Edwin Watts, Golf Galaxy or maybe Dicks. You can buy good used clubs and have them trimmed if they are too long or 2nd swing has thousands of used sets that could match his specifications.

This post was edited on 3/11/26 at 1:46 pm
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 1:53 pm to
His grandfather gave him a set of gently used callaway rogue x irons, 3 and 5 woods, A, G, P and S wedges and a big Bertha. Took them to 1.50 in Covington and got them cut to length and regripped.
Posted by questionable
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 2:47 pm to
You’re 5 minutes from one of if not the best teachers in the state, doesn’t sound like you realize how lucky you are. He doesn’t need weekly lessons, buy him one every few months and let Rob know you can only afford to bring him once every few months and he’ll give your son some drills to work on in the meantime.
Posted by VanRIch
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Posted on 3/11/26 at 3:21 pm to
I mean I stated we have him in lessons already. Thought it would be understood that we’re ok with getting him lessons but the main point was how to help when he doesn’t have lessons. How can I supplement him?
Posted by dalefla
Central FL
Member since Jul 2024
3993 posts
Posted on 3/11/26 at 3:23 pm to
All I was doing was reminding the original poster that there's another club in the bag that is used more than any other club. All the other points are valid but I'll leave you with this.

For most amateur golfers, shifting focus from trying to hit long drives to consistent iron play and solid putting yields the best results.

Stripping a drive 280, hitting a 7 iron to 12ft, and 3 putting is what I see a lot because amateurs don't practice putting.
This post was edited on 3/11/26 at 3:27 pm
Posted by LSUfreak1459
Member since Feb 2008
960 posts
Posted on 3/11/26 at 3:31 pm to
What issues does he have with his irons? Is he hitting it thin or fat? Hitting a hook or slice? Just off the little information I’d assume he’s hanging back and scooping. You can hit a decent wood that way. Can’t hit an iron like that. Another thing to look for is his wrist. Is he releasing the club early? Is he cupping his wrist during his swing? Did his golf coach tell you what issues he’s seeing with his irons? What advice has he given?
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