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It’s amazing how much more receptive people are when you come in respectful/considerate
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:31 pm
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:31 pm
its not hard and usually benefits everyone involved. And if you don’t, you’re probably on some level being ignored and/or deprioritized.
People struggle with this most simple of soft skills. It’s astounding
People struggle with this most simple of soft skills. It’s astounding
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:32 pm to athenslife101
It’s amazing how much life better is when you don’t act like an a-hole.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:32 pm to athenslife101
Thanks, Captain Obvious
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:32 pm to athenslife101
Don’t be a dick and you won’t get the dick. Or something like that.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:34 pm to athenslife101
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People struggle with this most simple of soft skills. It’s astounding
Should be taught in High School and again as a 101 class for freshmen. Please and thank you really do work wonders.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:34 pm to athenslife101
I’ve been trying to get my mom to understand that my entire life.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:34 pm to athenslife101
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its not hard and usually benefits everyone involved. And if you don’t, you’re probably on some level being ignored and/or deprioritized.
People struggle with this most simple of soft skills. It’s astounding
I have noticed people from the north east are really shitty at this. I'll throw Chicago in there too, but not the whole midwest.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:36 pm to deeprig9
Im usually pretty great to anyone until you act stupid. Then I'm an a-hole
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:37 pm to athenslife101
So did you still get the speeding ticket?
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:39 pm to athenslife101
That’s why you should care about how people think about you. If they have a good opinion about you, they'll treat you a lot better and vice versa. But what do I know? All I hear these days online is “why do you care what people think” as some power trip.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:39 pm to athenslife101
It works in everything except mentally ill flawed ideology.
You can be as respectful and nice as you want. You can explain it three ways, if a person is mentally ill they arent receptive.
Just my 2.
You can be as respectful and nice as you want. You can explain it three ways, if a person is mentally ill they arent receptive.
Just my 2.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:40 pm to deeprig9
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but not the whole midwest.
based on my experiences hunting in the midwest the folks there are some of the nicest I've ever encountered.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:43 pm to Mr Clean
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Thanks, Captain Obvious
Is it obvious?
Because my wife (school counselor) has a non-trivial portion of her student’s parents just come in hot with weapons-grade assholery before trying anything else.
Needless to say, nobody in the building is going out of their way to help these asshats and they end up doing twice the legwork to get what they want (if they get it at all).
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:43 pm to Loup
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based on my experiences hunting in the midwest the folks there are some of the nicest I've ever encountered.
Concur. Midwesterners are some down to earth folks. Very nice.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:44 pm to Loup
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based on my experiences hunting in the midwest the folks there are some of the nicest I've ever encountered.
I work with a ton of them who relocated to ATL for their jobs, overall very nice people with much in common with Southerners.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:51 pm to Aguga
It’s not even being a dick. My coworker is nice. But has been ignored for the last 3 months on something. Because they kept emailing the wrong people and because my coworker never introduced themself or reached out other than email on something the people she was emailing ignored my coworker rather than even telling them they were the wrong group.
I had to be the one to go walk by and have an in person chat with them to find out why things have not progressed
I had to be the one to go walk by and have an in person chat with them to find out why things have not progressed
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:53 pm to athenslife101
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My coworker is nice. But has been ignored for the last 3 months on something. Because they kept emailing the wrong people and because my coworker never introduced themself or reached out other than email on something the people she was emailing ignored my coworker rather than even telling them they were the wrong group.
That's a bigger problem with the people on the other end of the emails. That's passive aggressive behavior. Talk about shitty soft skills.
Also- ETA - Is it Them or She? You use both. Also a shitty soft skill.
This post was edited on 1/14/25 at 3:55 pm
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:54 pm to bad93ex
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Should be taught in High School and again as a 101 class for freshmen. Please and thank you really do work wonders.
No, it should be taught and upheld by parents from the time kids are able to understand. I didn't have a choice growing up. It was, "Yes/no sir/ma'am" and shut up and listen when grown folks are talking.
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:55 pm to athenslife101
Dont start shite wont be shite
Posted on 1/14/25 at 3:57 pm to athenslife101
We were designed to care for each other, so things go better when we approach things with that intention.
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