re: Any of you fellas on the dating sites

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Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack.

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tried it once upon a time in 2010 when i was divorced and looking to get back into dating scene.

got turned down by at least a dozen 'ok i guess i could make this one work OT3.5' women

asked my OT10 hair dresser out IRL and we were married within 2 years and i've never been happier.

screw the dating sites. try talking to women IRL instead.

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Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack

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I just couldn’t ever bring myself to do this. The girls who are on dating sites are either slutty, weird, screwed up, or a combination of the 3 and usually soft 7’s at best who are looking for a self esteem boost. The whole “impress me with your best line or I’m not responding” thing is so degrading and lame over the quality of women that hang out on dating sites and the quality of conversation you’d have with them IRL.

I’m in the camp that it’s way more fun to pick up a hobby that both men and women can do and hope to organically connect with someone that way. Bars and dating app girls are a waste of time and energy