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Kids getting held back for sports

Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:20 pm
Posted by Tiger1242
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:20 pm
I know it’s a very common thing for private high schools and public school districts especially in small towns/suburbs to do.

My question is why are parents down with it? Why would a parent of a 5th grade kid agree to hold their kid back so that when they’re a senior in high school they can help the program?
Posted by Deplorable Duke
Lousyana
Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:22 pm to
“He needs to play.”
Posted by BZ504
Texas
Member since Oct 2005
12779 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:23 pm to
Because they think by getting held back a year, little Braxton has a better shot at getting a scholarship.
Posted by tigerclaws15
Member since Jan 2007
3487 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:25 pm to
How can you win 11u tournaments and get that ring if you not 12 years old?
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
33057 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:28 pm to
I just think it’s crazy to delay your kids life a year for some high school glory. I’m all for holding kids back who need social and emotional development, I think a lot of boys could benefit in grade school from starting school a year later. But holding a kid back who doesn’t need it specifically to help them athletically is some selfish arse parenting
This post was edited on 8/6/23 at 9:29 pm
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:32 pm to
Extra year of babysitters.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:35 pm to
I’m 33 and this was a thing when I was young.

It raised alarms for me then and as an adult I think you should probably get beat half to death if you go this route.

The frick are the Yankees gonna want to do with your graduating 19.8 year old son?

You know what they like? They like fake arse 15 year old Dominican kids. They don’t want your overgrown 19 year old 3rd baseman white kid.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:41 pm to
The rule of thumb is a kid should graduate high school at the age of 18 no matter what athletic ability they have
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:41 pm to
One of the private schools in my area is notorious for it. Embarrassing
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:42 pm to
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I just think it’s crazy to delay your kids life a year for some high school glory. I’m all for holding kids back who need social and emotional development, I think a lot of boys could benefit in grade school from starting school a year later. But holding a kid back who doesn’t need it specifically to help them athletically is some selfish arse parenting


It worked out for Arch Manning
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:43 pm to
My son will graduate at 17 so he has an extra year to be all of your son’s boss
Posted by BeepNode
Lafayette
Member since Feb 2014
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:44 pm to
Its lame as hell. You got a kid that is graduating at 19 you should be ashamed unless they have a legit disability.
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
50106 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:45 pm to
I wish I got held back. I was kind of a late bloomer and graduated when I was still 17. When I was a Senior there were juniors older than me.

I have a few friends that have held theirs back. I am not really for or against doing it for my kids.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:45 pm to
quote:

They like fake arse 15 year old Dominican kids. They don’t want your overgrown 19 year old 3rd baseman white kid.


This 100%

15 year old Dominican kids are just about washed up at that age
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:46 pm to
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worked out for Arch Manning


Wiki says he is 18. Turns 19 in April.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:46 pm to
quote:

One of the private schools in my area is notorious for it. Embarrassing


John Curtis?
Posted by BeepNode
Lafayette
Member since Feb 2014
10005 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:47 pm to
There's a local travel ball organization that gets their parents to hold kids back. a lot of kids on their teams will graduate when they are 19. It's pathetic.
This post was edited on 8/6/23 at 11:25 pm
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
88599 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:47 pm to
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The rule of thumb is a kid should graduate high school at the age of 18 no matter what athletic ability they have
I graduated at 17

Being young was an asset the ENTIRE way through my career.
This post was edited on 8/6/23 at 9:50 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:47 pm to
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Wiki says he is 18. Turns 19 in April.


Wiki is wrong
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
33057 posts
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:50 pm to
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I wish I got held back. I was kind of a late bloomer and graduated when I was still 17. When I was a Senior there were juniors older than me.

See you started early, I think that’s a mistake as well in most situations (obviously it depends on the kid). My youngest sons birthday is in June, so basically he’ll either be one of youngest or one of the oldest in his grade. We are going to start him late and he’ll be one of the oldest, otherwise he’d graduate high school at 17. I think is makes sense for boys to start late in situations like that, but to hold back a kid in middle school who is the proper age so they can develop more athletically is a little crazy.
This post was edited on 8/6/23 at 9:52 pm
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