re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)

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This is a gross generalization and incredibly sexist.

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Everything in this thread is sexist, your post included.

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Yes, it absolutely is women's fault that 80% of them have such overinflated opinions of themselves that they all think they're worthy of the top 10% of men.

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I'm not going to argue absolutely in the other direction. I think that women also need to take a look at themselves and understand that they won't find the perfect man. 100% agreed. A lot of them are after a fairy tale guy that doesn't exist.

Perhaps my perspective is different, but I've seen it with old friends from high school, as well as random guys on the streets of downtown Boise.

I see normal guys, well adjusted men dressed well, look like they have means. But they are typically already taken. So I'm not talking about all men.

But what I see far more often is men, in groups of 5-6, roaming the streets acting like idiots. Not college kids. I'm talking men in their 30s. Being loud, drawing attention to themselves, eye fricking women, being dickbags. I don't even know if they are aware of how they look. I'm not a woman, but I would imagine that they look very undesirable. And that's just one faction. That's the guys that can actually get out and about. There's an entirely other faction that have such a hard time putting themselves together they they hole up and play video games. This is not a secret or conjecture. Go on Twitch or Youtube on a Friday and Saturday night and look around.

I know duality is hard for some people on here, so I'll spell it out even though I don't think it needs to be said. I look at women. My wife knows I look at women. My wife looks at other men. It's biological. What isn't biological, however, is the holding of the gaze for 10 seconds while a woman walks by and then nudging your friend, very unsubtly, and making everyone around you uncomfortable because you lack tact.

Men need to do better in terms of presenting themselves or the 10% of men will keep fricking everything. Women who desperately want to get married and settled down need to accept reality. It's not a one sided thing.