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re: Anyone else not allow video games in their house?

Posted on 4/7/22 at 8:42 am to
Posted by PT24-7
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Posted on 4/7/22 at 8:42 am to
I guess I never realized how big video games were bc I only played them for a short time in college.

Apparently they’re a huge issue in marriages as well. I was shocked to hear how many grown men play video games at the expense of their responsibilities as a dad/husband. Teacher at kids school lives with inlaws, has two kids, and husband games all day/night while she’s at work.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 4/7/22 at 9:10 am to
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Apparently they’re a huge issue in marriages as well. I was shocked to hear how many grown men play video games at the expense of their responsibilities as a dad/husband. Teacher at kids school lives with inlaws, has two kids, and husband games all day/night while she’s at work.

i still play video games on a regular basis but i simply can't imagine allowing anything like this to happen

whenever something in the real world comes up i turn it off. it's fun and i enjoy it but i usually get bored pretty quickly .
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 4/7/22 at 9:15 am to
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Apparently they’re a huge issue in marriages as well. I was shocked to hear how many grown men play video games at the expense of their responsibilities as a dad/husband. Teacher at kids school lives with inlaws, has two kids, and husband games all day/night while she’s at work.


I’ve had one couple I’ve seen since I started couples counseling that had this issue. Figured out real quick it was just a coping mechanism for the husband to check out because he was unhappy in the marriage. Wasn’t any different then one that might go to the bar for hours right after work or might work a ton of OT just to not go home.
Posted by ThuperThumpin
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Posted on 4/7/22 at 9:33 am to
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I guess I never realized how big video games were bc I only played them for a short time in college.


A lot has changed in video games over the years. The complexities and maturity of the stories, the level of strategy and cooperation required to play well in team based games, and ability to engage your imagination in stuff like Minecraft is pretty amazing.

I'm in my 40's and play sporadically. Sometimes 10 hours in a week, often zero. My daughters play sporadically too and we will sometimes play games together which is something parents should really try to do. They mostly like to build things things in Minecraft and team up with their friends from school on Fortnight while talking about whatever. So its a social experience as well. Frankly I find the mental engagement they experience in gaming to be a lot better than simply watching a TV show.
This post was edited on 4/7/22 at 9:34 am
Posted by The_Slip
Member since Jan 2022
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Posted on 4/7/22 at 10:39 am to
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Apparently they’re a huge issue in marriages as well. I was shocked to hear how many grown men play video games at the expense of their responsibilities as a dad/husband.

I dropped them, too, because it was such a time sink. Most of my friends play them all the time. I don't see how they can just sit there all the time. All the guys in my office start playing when they get home and stop when they get sleepy. Then they complain about all the things that need to be done around the house, or things broken, or wives complaining. Uh, yeah man.

But i wouldn't stop kids from totally playing video games. I would stop them from doing any tech while eating.
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