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re: How does the OT feel about Botox?
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:16 am to DarthRebel
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:16 am to DarthRebel
Well I think that you and I just have a different opinion on what defines us. My dick working or not wouldn't define me as a man. It's a plus don't get me wrong but it's very superficial. Maybe we should start focusing on what's going on the inside than the outside. Why do you need to have shite shoved in your face to feel beautiful?
I think it's pretty obvious that I should tell her she is beautiful more often..because there's no reason to have it pumped into your forehead...Maybe my affirmation of her beauty without it will prevent her from doing it.
I think it's pretty obvious that I should tell her she is beautiful more often..because there's no reason to have it pumped into your forehead...Maybe my affirmation of her beauty without it will prevent her from doing it.
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Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:22 am to Tacktheritrix
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I'm totally against it.
Is this really the battle you want to fight?
Some of y'all make marriage so much harder than it needs to be and its no wonder "Are you really happily married" threads go on for pages and pages of guys bitching about the institution of marriage and not really believing happiness can truly exist.
My advice is, if it makes her happy and you can afford it OR she can get her health insurance to pay for it (migraines) then let her be happy. Tell her how beautiful she is. Ask her to dress nice and take her out on a date. Enjoy her being happy.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:25 am to Tacktheritrix
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This is my thing. I married you for you, I don't care if your skin gets old and wrinkly, I mean I'm going to be the same way. What I do care about is if you look like some balloon animal of your old self.
It's been a hot topic in our household. She hasn't done it or I would know. Not to mention like someone else said it's a gateway drug. You go once you'll want to go again and again.
This is not about you. You seem to think that it is. You don't get to tell her how to feel about her appearance. Sounds to me like you're worrying that she will look good and you'll look like an old fart!
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:27 am to Tacktheritrix
quote:Because men are different than women. You dont have to agree with it or feel it or even understand it but you need to accept it (or accept being unhappy).
Maybe we should start focusing on what's going on the inside than the outside. Why do you need to have shite shoved in your face to feel beautiful?
The same way a woman doesnt have to agree or feel a mans desire to sit in a deer stand for hours and shoot his dinner or fish with his buddies or work on cars or climb a mountain or jump a fence that clearly says "STAY OUT".
Its part of what makes a man and man and a woman a woman
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:29 am to Tacktheritrix
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I'm not sure if this is on the same spectrum...
Completely the same spectrum. It's normal for your dick to not work so well when you get old. Just a normal part of aging, like wrinkles. So you just be happy sitting with your own wrinkly old arse.
How old are you anyway?
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:29 am to Tacktheritrix
My ex started getting it at like 15 because her mom kept telling her she was ugly (she legit is) and that of course led to all kind of other plastic surgery and issues. She always thought it cured her resting bitch face, but it didn't because she's just a biotch and can't help it.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:29 am to Tacktheritrix
I despise the look of a Botox face. And yes, I can see it almost every time. Looks like shite!
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:29 am to LaLadyinTx
Bingo! I'm worried about looking old...busted!
No...it has to do with more of a moral issue for me.
Why do you need to change your appearance? There is some underlying reason and it should be solved any other way besides filling your face with botox.
No...it has to do with more of a moral issue for me.
Why do you need to change your appearance? There is some underlying reason and it should be solved any other way besides filling your face with botox.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:31 am to TDsngumbo
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I despise the look of a Botox face
And guys wonder why their wives cheat on them
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:31 am to Tacktheritrix
I look about 10 years younger with Botox and fillers
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:31 am to Tacktheritrix
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My dick working or not wouldn't define me as a man
Are we even sure this is a guy? Hard to imagine a man who doesn't find sex important.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:32 am to LaLadyinTx
How old are you to think that sex is so damn important? You can't be over 25 or married. Nice try youngen.
Dick working does not define someone as a man..sad to know that you think it does. Bless your heart
Dick working does not define someone as a man..sad to know that you think it does. Bless your heart
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:36 am to LSUfan4444
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"Are you really happily married"
not ever did I say I was unhappy in my marriage. We are both extremely happy with each other. This isn't something that is causing a massive divorce discussion. I just don't think she needs to have it for me to
quote:or to
Tell her how beautiful she is
quote:I do both of these things without her having botox.
Ask her to dress nice and take her out on a date
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:37 am to Tacktheritrix
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Why do you need to change your appearance? There is some underlying reason and it should be solved any other way besides filling your face with botox.
You seem to spending more time examining your wife's place in all of this rather than your own.
Taking Botox out of the equation and purely looking at it from a superficial standpoint...if she just wants to look better physicially, have you talked to her about it? Have you told her and explained to her how beautiful you think she is? Have you said it around other people...her family, your friends, your kids (if you have any)? Do you say it all the time?
If you feel she is being unreasonable and doesnt feel as beautiful as she should YOU 100% WITHOUT QUESTION PLAY A PART IN IT and it's obviously much bigger than you realize.
Sure, there may be reasons she doesnt feel as beautiful as she should and Botox probably won't fix all of that with a couple injections BUT you shouldn't lump all the issues into the same box anymore than she should.
They are separate so keep them separate. If your concern is her self confidence...work on that and frick caring about the Botox. Pick a different battle to fight and work to ensure she doesn't ever need more than pajamas and a pony tail holder to look like the most beautiful thing on the planet in your eye and the same goes for your daughter(s) if you have any or ever plan to.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 9:39 am
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:42 am to Tacktheritrix
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This is my thing. I married you for you, I don't care if your skin gets old and wrinkly, I mean I'm going to be the same way.
She’s not doing it for you
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:43 am to LSUfan4444
I'm so confused. You're one hand saying it's my fault and let her get botox...then in the next paragraph you say how we should work on the reason she wants to get it rather than let her get it. Make up your mind please.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:43 am to Tacktheritrix
A bunch of strange takes in this thread.
Women who start buying makeup don’t ever stop. Women who start working out don’t ever stop. Women who change their diet don’t ever stop. Women who start coloring their hair don’t ever stop.
If they do, then shite changes. About their appearance. Their weight. Their looks. Their health.
But some men here have no issue with a woman who alters her appearance with cosmetics, diet, hair color, exercise, etc.
Those women who hit the gym after throwing some weight on are still the women you love for who they are. The women who start eating better to lose weight are too. Same with the women who have gray hair.
Are y’all bitching about the gym? Them getting their hair cut and colored? Them wearing makeup or paying for a bike or weights or yoga classes?
All of those things cost money, change their appearance and make them and others happier about themselves.
Women can wear too much makeup. They can lose too much weight. They can work out too much. They can get too much Botox.
Why are y’all bitching about the latter and not any of the former, which accomplishes the same damn things for women?
Costs money just like the rest. Changes the way they look just like the rest. Can be overdone just like the rest. But somehow…it’s different from the rest.
Women who start buying makeup don’t ever stop. Women who start working out don’t ever stop. Women who change their diet don’t ever stop. Women who start coloring their hair don’t ever stop.
If they do, then shite changes. About their appearance. Their weight. Their looks. Their health.
But some men here have no issue with a woman who alters her appearance with cosmetics, diet, hair color, exercise, etc.
Those women who hit the gym after throwing some weight on are still the women you love for who they are. The women who start eating better to lose weight are too. Same with the women who have gray hair.
Are y’all bitching about the gym? Them getting their hair cut and colored? Them wearing makeup or paying for a bike or weights or yoga classes?
All of those things cost money, change their appearance and make them and others happier about themselves.
Women can wear too much makeup. They can lose too much weight. They can work out too much. They can get too much Botox.
Why are y’all bitching about the latter and not any of the former, which accomplishes the same damn things for women?
Costs money just like the rest. Changes the way they look just like the rest. Can be overdone just like the rest. But somehow…it’s different from the rest.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 9:46 am
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:44 am to Tacktheritrix
quote:It's ok in moderation but if you get so much like Nicole Kidman then you look really dumb and fake.
How does the OT feel about Botox?
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:45 am to Tacktheritrix
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How old are you to think that sex is so damn important? You can't be over 25 or married. Nice try youngen.
Dick working does not define someone as a man..sad to know that you think it does. Bless your heart
You picked on the wrong old broad here. I'm 60. My husband passed away 7 years ago. We were married for 34 years. Sex was pretty damn important to him and seems to be for most men. That's why you have 80+ year old men in the nursing home getting caught trying to get it on with the old ladies. I don't think it defines a man at all. However, most men really do. I think defining you isn't correct, but making you feel like a real man probably is for most men. Otherwise, viagra wouldn't be so popular!
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 9:49 am
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:46 am to Tacktheritrix
[quote] I just don't think she needs to have it for me[/quote]
It's not for you. It's for her.
It's not for you. It's for her.
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