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re: How does the OT feel about Botox?

Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:07 am to
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:07 am to
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It is biblical in its importance.


neither of us are religious so probably why you don't get it. We would rather spend time traveling the world like we do drinking and eating and seeing things. Spending time together in those moments. Sex is just an added bonus. Again, sorry that our relationship isn't built strictly on sex.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
21288 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:08 am to
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but that doesn't mean I cannot voice my concerns in a marriage that we are 50/50 on...


Well you said in OP

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Am I wrong for putting my foot down about this?


You voicing concerns or are putting your foot down? Those are not the same. One is a healthy discussion, one is making her a prisoner of your will
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:10 am to
Okay, I'm done responding to you lol you are no help and just twist everything I say to fit your narrative. Obviously somewhere in your life some man hurt you and I'm sorry!

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Why do you get to be the deciding factor on that?


WHO SAID I WAS???

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Do you both drive a piece of shite vehicle to get you purely from ___ to ____ because you don't NEED anything else?


I do and she gets a nice new car every few years because you're right...I don't need anything else...
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:10 am to
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telling me how much of a POS I am for having the opinion that she shouldn't and doesn't need it LOL




Nobody is telling you you're a POS for having an opinion. BUT, it is a shitty thing to do not "allow" your wife to do something thats largely insignificant because you don't agree and in the end, won't even change the way you think about her other than remembering how you didnt get your way which will cause resent one way or the other.

She'll either resent you because you drew a line in the sand on something that doesnt even really impact you OR you'll resent her because she did something you didnt approve. In the end, it's all pretty petty, insignificant and not worth it.

Give her the thumbs up, tell her how it made her look, take her out to dinner and enjoy the evening. Don't make this JUST about you. Let it be about her and work towards making her feel she never needs it again if thats what you want to do. And if she wants it again in a few months, wash, rinse and repeat.

Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:11 am to
If I wanted to go frick some other women I'm sure she would put her foot down on that. Does that make our marriage not 50/50 any more? You're arguments are just flat out silly at this point.

Do you think botox is bad or good, that was the question. Not how do you feel about my relationship with my wife LOL
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:13 am to
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We would rather spend time traveling the world


Thats not NEEDED

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drinking and eating


Not NEEDED

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seeing things


Not NEEDED



You see, you want to set the morality bar on things YOU feel needed and when your wife doesnt agree you get mad she doesnt agree with you so you're pressuring her and judging her choices until she either agrees or goes her own way.

Your path has no win for you here. Even if you win and she doesnt get the Botox, you still lose my friend.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 10:15 am
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:14 am to
Not once did I ever say I was mad about this either LOL.

Anyway, I'll never lose, friend. I have a great loving wife that is so beautiful and we get to experience this wonderful life together. Thanks for playing!
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 10:15 am
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:14 am to
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WHO SAID I WAS???


You did by thinking, acting and talking like you're preventing something she wants. You solely want to make this decision. You are forcing her to have your approval "or else".

Its a dick move.
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:16 am to
I never said or else. Again, you should read more. I specifically said I would not divorce her over this....Where are you pulling this stuff from? You read what I type then spin it to your own imagination. Stop

You still have yet to answer the question. HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BOTOX
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 10:17 am
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:18 am to
You'll never lose? Keep playing emotional warfare with our wife and see how that works out.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
21288 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:18 am to
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If I wanted to go frick some other women I'm sure she would put her foot down on that.


Well, yeah. She would not want you to burn in hell for eternity for breaking you covenant with God...oh wait, never mind on that you heathen.

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You're arguments are just flat out silly at this point.


Only because they go against what you wanted to hear. Maybe you can find a support group that likes to control women, maybe you will find what you need there.

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Do you think botox is bad or good, that was the question.


Botox is safer than the Covid vaccines, so YOLO. I personally would let her try it, because it is her body.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:19 am to
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I never said or else.


No, you won't say it. Thats not how it works right?

Instead, you'll withhold approval and support and wonder why your wife has confidence and insecurity issues.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:21 am to
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You still have yet to answer the question. HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BOTOX

Don't act like you only asked one question..one I have answered multiple times.

But again, my answer is, it's largely insignificant. If it makes her happy, we can afford it or it's paid for by insurance, I don't give AF.

It's THIS question that you don't like the responses to

"Am I wrong for putting my foot down about this?"

And the answer to that is YES. Yes on so many levels.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 10:23 am
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:22 am to
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oh wait, never mind on that you heathen.


Heathen LOL ah love seeing people of faith go against their own beliefs. Putting a non believer down rather than try and preach the word of their Lord Nicely done


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Botox is safer than the Covid vaccines


Awesome, thanks for answering. All that other jargin you were spewing now is pointless. Thanks for your input on Botox!

Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:23 am to
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It's THIS question that you don't like the responses to


But I didn't ask that. Take that to the "Am I wrong for putting my foot down" thread
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:24 am to
Hold up hold up hold up.....you mean to tell me if I came out and said one of the main reasons I put my foot down is because we cannot afford it...that would sit right with you? You would be like ah okay, no big deal?
Posted by BlackPot
Member since Oct 2016
2067 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:24 am to
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Tacktheritrix




Your original post is spot on with what I tell my wife. I'm finished fighting it. You want to put that shite in your face, go ahead. I damn sure told her, if it looks bad for some reason, bet your arse I'm letting you know.
Posted by Tacktheritrix
Wonderland
Member since Jun 2013
1159 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:26 am to
Watch out. Some people on this board might accuse you of withholding approval and causing your wife to have confidence issues
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
53957 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:27 am to
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But I didn't ask that. Take that to the "Am I wrong for putting my foot down" thread


It's literally a quote from your first post
Posted by RaisingCanesOnly
Member since Jan 2020
42 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 10:27 am to
I think y'all are getting really emotional. This is awesome entertainment.

Separate note: those lip injections look disgusting on women how tf do they think that makes them look good. Maybe there are some who do it right, but if I notice it, not cool
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