Are all women born to bitch???

Enjoy the couch tonight, baw.

Simple answer yes, long answer, yes.

Yes, now get your shite together.

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Enjoy the couch tonight, baw.

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OP sounds like a broken man. A man beat down by women.

Your response is no better. Any man who would say something like “enjoy the couch” is not respected by his wife.

Can’t live with them, can’t cut them up in tiny little pieces and feed them to the crows.

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Let me define bitching---finding any reason to bicker

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You have to understand the source of that nit-picking attitude. Women hate themselves. Due to the way that women talk to and about each other, nearly every woman is in some way completely broken inside. Even the most beautiful and accomplished woman in the world deep down doesn't believe she's good enough. They nitpick and bicker with you because they're unhappy with themselves, they're insecure, and they need reassurance from you that they should have no reason to be. They boss you around because they feel worthless and need to prove to themselves that they at least have some power to change...something.

When they start to bicker, that's when you put on the charm. That's when you get serious. That's when you tell her that you know that even though you should/shouldn't have done whatever it is she is harping about, that you know that isn't the only thing that's bothering her. You need to complement her, tell her how much you care about her, about how beautiful she is, and let her know that you are there to listen because you want to know her. You need to know why she is upset so you can make it right, even if it's something you have no power over. Once she starts telling you what's bothering her, in no way make suggestions. Just listen and empathize. Tell her that you are always there to listen and that she should never be afraid to vent her insecurities or frustrations to you so long as she does so knowing that what you want is to help her be happy. She will smile and tell you she doesn't need your protection. You will reply that you know she doesn't need it, that she's perfect and capable and all that bs, but that you are always willing to stand by her side no matter what. That's when she gives you the booty. That is how you get to PIIHB after marriage.

If that is too much work, then you are not cut out for this relationship. You clearly don't care about making her think you care. You should end it and in your next relationship establish that from the beginning. Don't care about anything. If they start bitching, literally just ignore them and leave the room. If they get angry, just tell them "we'll have this conversation when you've calmed down" and straight up drive away. Go drink a beer, watch a ball game, and come home. If she tells you to sleep on the couch, just say no. If she's unhappy next to her, tell her she can go to the couch. You just want to resolve this like an adult and you won't tolerate pettiness. This seems cold and distant and you're right.

Women win arguments because guys care about the well being of their SO's. Women may care about men too, but not in the context of an argument. Women are basically Sheriff Bart holding himself hostage at gunpoint when they argue. They frame arguments as if the mere act of arguing itself is pain to them, so the longer you go without caving, the more you are hurting them. They wager that you will cave in order to protect them. Most men do. Once they do, their SO owns them, and they will simply continue to up the stakes every time you dig in until they get their way.

The key is to nip this in the bud from the beginning. You have to realize that it's all a ploy. Much like SJW's screaming at the sky, they are not AT ALL injured or damaged by the issue they are arguing about. They just want you to think they are so you will give them what they want when you otherwise would not. They can't beat you on merit (or they've never had to try) so they try to bully you with emotion.

Don't cave. Don't EVER cave! When they pull it, just ignore them. No matter what they threaten to do to themselves, call their bluff.

They have few other cards to play. The only thing they will do is try to provoke you to hit them by dredging up old arguments and moral failings of yours. Ignore those and stay on target. Don't hit her back. If she starts getting violent, just leave.

When you win, you own her...forever. Women these days are so used to getting everything they want that when some dipshit doesn't give a shite about them and doesn't cave to their BS, they straight up can't help themselves but completely dedicate themselves to that guy. You ever see a good looking girl that stays with some terrible POS dude that beats her and cheats on her all the time? They don't break up with those POS dudes no matter what even after all that BS. Ever wonder why that's so? That's how it happens. The dude doesn't care, doesn't cave to them, so the girl dedicates her life to trying to make him care. He won't because he doesn't have to.

It's the same reason why women stop respecting their men after they cave. They no longer have to respect them. That man has become her b&%*h, and women actually don't want a b&%*h, they want a man. Society tells women that they have to be in charge, so they spend their relationships trying to gain control. However, women hate actually being in control. Women don't desire being in control of a man. They actually desire the opposite. They straight up aren't wired to be attracted to a man they dominate, so they quickly lose respect for those men.

That causes them to lie and deprive affection, and pester, and do all of those things to keep up the appearances that they still care while coping with the internal struggle that they don't anymore despite knowing that logically, they should. They hate themselves because they don't care anymore, they feel guilty, so they externalize that guilt onto you.

They try to rationalize that it must be something you did or things you don't do or never did that are causing them to lose attraction. It can't be a moral failing in them, no, it must be YOU! You never take her dancing anymore or to the theatre. You don't complement her enough, or listen to her B.S. about Dianne at work, or remember what she told you about the boxes in the laundry room. Yes, clearly THAT's the reason she no longer desires to have sex with you! It's not because she utterly emasculated you like Cosmo told her to and now has lost all respect for you. That can't be the reason why all she can think about is that young Jody that she's been covering up banging behind your back. He doesn't give a crap about her, but he makes her feel ALIVE inside.

That's why she has to make you feel dead. She is externalizing her inner conflict about her own cognitive dissidence between what she has been told to want, what she believes she wants, and what she actually enjoys and is attracted to.

Yes. It is actually impressive how my wife can bitch about any sitiation, good or bad.

You haven’t seen/heard shite.

Just wait until you get her pregnant.

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Are all women born to bitch??? by reo45

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Nope...we train them to do that. They are taught from a very young age how to manipulate people into getting their way.

Man, I sure did think so last night when gf complained about being sore ever two minutes last night , from getting on the damn treadmill for the first time in 4 damn years.
Finally stuck a Tylenol / Advil combo from my dentist in her mouth and the bedroom slowly got quite.
Other than that (single incident haha) and nit picking a lot of things I do, she really has put up with a lot with me and helped me more than I could ever ask for. I’m forever grateful for that girl and would listen to her bitch about sore legs every night if I had to, because she really is great.