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Rehoming a dog

Posted on 2/12/23 at 11:27 am
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 11:27 am
We have a 9.5 year old 45 lbs. shepard mix mutt. She’s been a great dog. I adopted her from a shelter in 2014 when my wife and I were dating. We got engaged, married, and had children. The dog is a wonderful pup, but she never grew to like the children as much as she needs to. Unfortunately, because of this, we’re looking at rehoming her this week.

We have a no-kill shelter in town that she doesn’t qualify for because of where we live. The other shelter is not a no-kill shelter, but it’s where we got her and they do a great job of getting dogs adopted out. I have looked at the social media dog adoption sites, but I’m not impressed. I have also asked around to friends and family to see if they would be interested in adopting her, but no one has any interest.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to what direction to turn? Does anyone know of a place that might make a good home for her or a no-kill shelter with good success in adopting out pups to good homes? FYI-we’re in South Mississippi.

This post was edited on 2/12/23 at 5:19 pm
Posted by deeprig9
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 11:54 am to
A 9.5 year old dog that hates children isn't going to get adopted.

Real Talk.
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 12:08 pm to
She doesn’t hate them. She tolerates them. But she doesn’t give them a very long leash.

Yeah-and I get what you’re saying. That’s why I’m here.
Posted by Sp0728
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:01 pm to
Would you rehome your kid ?
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:02 pm to
That's a terrible analogy. Are you a "dog parent"?
Posted by LSUJML
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:11 pm to
She’s going to have a hard time getting adopted at that age
Have you tried working with a trainer to see if there is anything you can do to help her better tolerate kids?
Posted by deeprig9
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:12 pm to
I had a beagle that growled at my toddler once.

So I get your side of it too.
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:20 pm to
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Have you tried working with a trainer to see if there is anything you can do to help her better tolerate kids?


We put her through obedience school when we got her and she did great. We have not gone the specific kid-dog trainer route, but I have looked into it. It is difficult to find anyone around here to come into the home to assist. Our kids are young and require a lot of care, and unless it is something that can be done in the home a couple times a week in the evening, then we can't do it.

We did do a lot of reading when the children were born on how to socialize the dog to the children, and we followed the advice we read. I think that made a difference in that she tolerates the children, rather than she is openly hostile to them being around her. However, she does not like them in certain spaces around her (i.e. her spot on the couch), and try as we may, you can't keep 3 young kids away from her all of the time.
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:20 pm to
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I had a beagle that growled at my toddler once.

So I get your side of it too.


Man-it's tough.
Posted by greenbean
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:24 pm to
does she get along with other dogs and cats?
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:35 pm to
Yes to dogs, once she's socialized to them. She likes to show some dominance over them, and she's gets a little playful with them sometimes.

She's never been around cats.
Posted by deeprig9
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 1:37 pm to
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However, she does not like them in certain spaces around her (i.e. her spot on the couch)


Kennel train her, if it isn't too late. The oldest I ever trained was a 6 yo dog to a kennel. Then there's no "my" spot on the couch. Her spot is kennel. If this is the main point of contention, the couch spot, then consider kenneling.
Posted by tigerfoot
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 2:03 pm to
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Would you rehome your kid ?
one is a kid. One is a dog. I don’t get your point.
Posted by LordSnow
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 4:26 pm to
I think it's a pretty shite thing to re-home a 10 year old dog.
Posted by WeagleEagle
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 4:34 pm to
She growls at the kids? What does she do?
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 5:11 pm to
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I think it's a pretty shite thing to re-home a 10 year old dog.


You're welcome to suggest alternatives. That's why I made this post.
This post was edited on 2/12/23 at 5:16 pm
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 5:12 pm to
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She growls at the kids? What does she do?


Yes. And it's gotten worse of late. And she went a little beyond that twice last week.
This post was edited on 2/12/23 at 5:36 pm
Posted by cgrand
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 6:12 pm to
don’t send her to a shelter after 9 years of living in your home. That’s just straight up cruel

try to find a friend or put an ad out for a free dog. If you don’t get any takers, and there is no other alternative, have her humanely euthanized
Posted by tes fou
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 6:51 pm to
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Yes. And it's gotten worse of late. And she went a little beyond that twice last week.


When I first got a dog I lived in the city. I wanted the dog to be safe from doing something stupid like getting run over by a bus. Obviously letting her get hit to teach her was not an option, so the first time she stepped off the curb without my permission I quickly convinced her that I would kill her the next time she did it. She was the smartest best behaved dog I've ever had, lived on Magazine St. at the time and could open the door, let her out in a non-fenced yard by herself and she'd come right back to the door when done.

Either you can teach the dog that biting the kid may result in her death, you can teach the kid that fricking with the dog may result in their death, or you can just let the dog bite the kid and learn their lesson that way.

Nobody wants to adopt your geriatric mutt who doesn't like kids.

Almost forgot, step 1 put the dog on the floor and sit on "her spot" on the sofa, every single time you sit down, you let her set the pecking order you're asking for trouble. I now have 2 large male dogs. The dog gets a hint of an attitude about something like that, they immediately get banished until the attitude changes.
This post was edited on 2/12/23 at 7:01 pm
Posted by Tangineck
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Posted on 2/12/23 at 6:59 pm to
If you feel like your kids may be in danger and you can't find a home for the dog, have it euthanized. It's whats best for your kids and the dog. People will give you hell on here and i'll be downvoted to hell for saying it, but life isn't a fairytale.
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