Woman wants to have sex with man; Man confused (Reddit Thread)

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Tonight, Friday, as I'm getting ready to go to the gym after three days of radio silence from her she sends me a text "Want to frick?" Dude, really? I was drafting another email in my head telling her goodbye and she sends that, so ok, I do want to frick just to see if maybe there is a chance there.

So she comes over, goes in the bathroom and then immediately drags me to my bedroom, strips her clothes off and jumps on my bed. I get undressed, lay down with her and after approx 2 minutes of kissing she grabs a condom, puts it on me and puts my dick in her. Now this only lasts about three minutes and I've lost all interest because there was no build up, playing, anything. She just likes fricking, don't caress her, don't tell her she looks beautiful, just frick. So after my dick quits working she says frick it, gets dressed and gets ready to leave. I ask her why is she behaving like this and she comes out with a whole laundry list of problems with me:

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What would possess someone to come over here with some kind of agenda and humiliate and shame me because I've tried to date her with respect and courtesy and space? What did I do wrong here? I tell her I don't want to see her anymore. I'm not that casual about sex and I get attached and if she just wants to frick with abandon, and I mean JUST fricking, no foreplay or fun I'm not interested. I asked if she was looking for Friends With Benefits and she said "Just Benefits. I don't want to be your girlfriend, I just want to frick."

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