re: Why women pick fights

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Women pick fights with men to shite Test them, at least when they’re young. That fades with age. And has been discussed here many times, young women crave drama like a fish craves water.

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Not sure it really fades. When my wife gets bitchy or tries to start a fight I sit there and listen, let her vent then ask her if she’s done. If she says yes, then I say, I’ll talk to you when you calm down.

Which usually just starts another argument and she forgets about the reason why she was mad in the first place.

Usually get the silent treatment for a day or 2 but it’s worth it after 22 years of marriage

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When my wife gets bitchy or tries to start a fight I sit there and listen, let her vent then ask her if she’s done. If she says yes, then I say, I’ll talk to you when you calm down.

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This are I just blow it up and she pulls back reigns

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Part of it I'd women not regulating each other like men do.

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Anyone who believes this does not understand women. Women are brutal about keeping each other in line. That ability has been hijacked to bring about the woke nonsense we're seeing currently.

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when y'all don't read our minds, it's even more infuriating.

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Because apparently there’s nothing more infuriating to a woman than men refusing to use telepathy instead of their face hole to communicate effectively.

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Why women pick fights

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Because they can?

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Usually get the silent treatment for a day or 2 but it’s worth it after 22 years of marriage

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Silent treatment is great from time to time. It's nice to go in the front room and veg. out for a couple days without answering any stupid questions.

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I think more women file for divorce due to boredom, aka "I'm not happy", than for "abuse" or any other excuse they give.

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Without a doubt. Rom-coms are one of the worst inventions that ruined the world, up there with social media and cell phones with internet access. Women spend their entire lives looking for this unrealistic feeling that can't be acquired.

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that's the thing- men just need to use their face holes more.

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Yeah, but when we do, it’s difficult to communicate with one who cannot verbalize what is the matter in a manner in which once can understand.

in all seriousness, I have worked alongside far more men than women in my career and actually tend to have. a more male typical perspective.

I don't need the conversation, the idle chatter, small talk 'how was your day' bullshite and whatnot.

I like a conversation that is blunt, to the point and if there's a disagreement- just state your opinion, hear the other's and either agree or disagree- no feelings involved- and go on abt your business.

are you familiar with the enneagram?

I'm an 8

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are you familiar with the enneagram?

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Nope


This is my spirit animal and my personality type never seems to fit the tests.