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re: Why women pick fights

Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:09 am to
Posted by BatonRougeBuckeye
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2013
1792 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:09 am to
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Its a defense mechanism to keep them from realizing how wrong they are.
This. I can't be wrong so let me start an argument with the hubby and make him say something mean so he's the bad guy.


Yessir.

Dont argue, eventually you'll say something that validates her anger.



Young guys pay attention to this bit of wisdom. Truer words have never been spoken. I commend you sir!
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90726 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:14 am to
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Women are inherently miserable


I swear they are. I almost feel bad for them. And when they seem content and happy they don’t roll with it, they seek out drama and misery because it’s like they can’t handle everything going just fine
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:14 am to
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They don't pick fights. They just comment on the dumb shite that you do. Sorry you take it so personally.


And that’s why you’re single
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
34007 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:27 am to
Part of it I'd women not regulating each other like men do. We run our mouths we have a probability of getting our arse kicked. Women, in general, do not have a tangible consequence like that. Society protects them and they known it. I'm not advocating the violence but I do wish women would duke it out more often
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30188 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:35 am to
I thing that for the most part, most women need to have that tangible emotional connection with their partner that is vv different than what most men need.

you know talk it out- whereas men are withdrawn and process internally- lacking the need to discuss whatever it is.

it's just apples and oranges, which could coexist if both would give a little bit.

women could realize that their man's commitment to them isn't inherent on conversation and men could open up a little bit to their women-folk.

Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
19067 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 11:51 am to
I briefly dated a woman like this. She’d randomly text me asking a seemingly benign but off the wall question. I’d respond but then absolutely no response from her. Fast forward a few weeks and then she’d circle back to her original question and my response and be mad as frick. Forget everything in between that time, she’d just be going off and it would take me a minute to figure out what she was ranting about. Even to this day, two plus years later she’ll randomly text me asking how I’ve been, eventually getting around to questioning about shite two years ago… I know I should block her but at this point it’s just amusing to me. She’s crazy as frick no doubt.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136823 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:05 pm to
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And that’s why you’re single


I wasn't aware that I share my personal life with this place. You are correct that I'm not married. At this point in my life, it is absolutely a losing proposition.

So you are making shite up or talking about me in the back channels.

I'm honored.
This post was edited on 11/24/23 at 12:07 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:11 pm to
I couldn’t give 2 shits about you. I was just taking a shot in the dark.

Looks like a hit my target
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1580 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:26 pm to
I always thought they picked a fight because the pussy was starting to itch and it needed a scratch.
This post was edited on 11/24/23 at 12:26 pm
Posted by HillabeeBaw
Hillabee Reservoir
Member since May 2023
1504 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:30 pm to
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As it turns out, it stems from a lack of emotions they are feeling. This makes sense to me because the one thing they hate is when you don’t react. They
feed on the reaction.



Water is wet
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1580 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:35 pm to
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You are correct that I'm not married. At this point in my life, it is absolutely a losing proposition.


If you’re not 50, then this is a lazy perspective. Just because you can’t get pussy every day doesn’t mean it doesn’t have its rewards.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
33051 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:38 pm to
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We all know people, both men and women, but mostly women, who pick fights out of nowhere,


I’m sure most of you feel this is done more by women than men bc your experiences have mostly been in relationships with women. However, I can tell you from my experiences that men very often do the same in relationships, usually due to some insecurity. It may be an insecurity in the relationship wondering if she’s willing to be monogamous, an insecurity in their own feelings wondering if they want to move forward in a relationship or an insecurity in themselves that they are capable of being in a monogamous relationship with any woman. Men seem to react to all of these questions by creating issues and, thus, arguments. It’s likely not for the same reasons as women but they can be just as guilty of this as women. Men just call it sabotage but it’s the same thing.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136823 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:39 pm to
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you’re not 50
I turn 45 in a month

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Just because you can’t get pussy every day
being single has zero correlation with sexual activity

If anything, I have much more access.
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1580 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:41 pm to
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being single has zero correlation with sexual activity If anything, I have much more access


You’re very preachy without much accountability. Hence when someone called you out for being single and you’ve only made excuses since. The good women avoid you cause you act just like a shitty woman.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38796 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:42 pm to
Lol shocked she didn't understand her making you soft lol
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6530 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:43 pm to
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don't need to read a whole article to know women are crazy.


Women pick fights with men to shite Test them, at least when they’re young. That fades with age. And has been discussed here many times, young women crave drama like a fish craves water.
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
14227 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:43 pm to
Usually because they’re irritated about something you did or didn’t do…and you have no idea what it is because they won’t tell you…:so they pick a fight over something totally unrelated.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136823 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:44 pm to
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You’re very preachy without much accountability. Hence when someone called you out for being single and you’ve only made excuses since. The good women avoid you cause you act just like a shitty woman.


Whatever you say, Chief.

What am I being preachy about?
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30188 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:46 pm to
sometimes we are irritated abt things that we think should be obvious to y'all and when y'all don't read our minds, it's even more infuriating.

do better dudes.


other times, bitches just be crazy.
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1580 posts
Posted on 11/24/23 at 12:46 pm to
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Whatever you say, Chief. What am I being preachy about?


You came in here preaching like you knew better. You got met with hard truths and have deflected since. You’re serially single because you probably side step accountability. But deflect away baw.
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