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Why is it that even when I win an argument with my wife I feel like I’ve lost?

Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:11 pm
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:11 pm
Got out of going to her high school reunion when I explained to her I’m not going to enjoy myself and I don’t know anyone who will be there, but it seems like it’s the calm before a storm. She hasn’t spoken to me in about 30 minutes and seems to be sulking and brooding

For those saying I should just suck it up and go, I would if I was just planning to sit at the house by myself, but instead I am choosing to golf with friends of mine from college I actually know and like.
This post was edited on 5/31/24 at 9:18 pm
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
75476 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:12 pm to
You ATA here.
Posted by Duckhammer_77
TD Platinum member
Member since Nov 2016
2901 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:12 pm to
pussy remains undefeated...again
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
6222 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:13 pm to
You should do the right thing and go with her
Posted by RealDawg
Dawgville
Member since Nov 2012
10716 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:13 pm to
Because you did lose. Gonna have to get used to winning on the inside.
Posted by alajones
Huntsvegas
Member since Oct 2005
35248 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:14 pm to
It’s too much of a chore for you to go to your wife’s 50th reunion? WTF is wrong with you?

You’re all in your 70s. It’ll be wrapped up by 9:00.
This post was edited on 5/31/24 at 8:15 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
150431 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:15 pm to
Don't you want to meet all the guys that banged her?
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
19791 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:15 pm to
What was the argument?

You established your boundaries of avoiding a social event. Seems like there wasn’t even a problem?
quote:

She hasn’t spoken to me in about 30 minutes and seems to be sulking and brooding



Sounds like a she problem.
This post was edited on 5/31/24 at 8:16 pm
Posted by Rob Perillo
Member since Feb 2017
463 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:17 pm to
Doesn’t sound like you won an argument at all. You’re about to be made into a cuck by one of her classmates baw.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
11276 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:17 pm to
Sometimes when you win, you really lose, and sometimes when you lose, you really win, and sometimes when you win or lose, you actually tie, and sometimes when you tie, you actually win or lose. Winning or losing is all one organic mechanism, from which one extracts what one needs.
This post was edited on 5/31/24 at 8:22 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188768 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:18 pm to
she wants to show friends she has a husband

its one night , and you can get a weekend away if you're smart about it

Go in the room and say you know I'm actually looking forward to showing all your friends how much I love you kiss her on the cheek

then butt stuff tonight and start planning a fishing trip
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68987 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:18 pm to
Let me share two very wise sayings to live by

1. When it comes to arguing with your wife, you can can be happy or you can be right. But not both.

1. When it comes to arguing with your wife, remember; to win is to lose, there is no win.

I hope this helps.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
40516 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:18 pm to
She’s gonna bang a couple dudes.
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
4918 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:19 pm to
I don't really understand high school reunions. I don't give a frick what anyone I went to high school with is up to.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
62294 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:19 pm to
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
34691 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:20 pm to
quote:

Got out of going to her high school reunion when I explained to her I’m not going to enjoy myself and I don’t know anyone who will be there, but it seems like it’s the calm before a storm.


For starters- this seems like it shouldn't be about you. and who cares if you're not comfortable for a few hours. Just make small talk and allow your wife to catch up with some old hs friends. and honestly, she may be nervous about going to her HS reunion and really wanted you to be there with her to help her feel more comfortable.

I think you ATA here and you should suck it up, go apologize and go with her to the reunion.
Posted by Duckhammer_77
TD Platinum member
Member since Nov 2016
2901 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:20 pm to
In all sincerity, you didn't "win". You just got your way and actually lost that one. Go with her bc that's what husbands do. You never know who you'll meet and what connections could be made.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
62294 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:20 pm to
100% agree. I already kept in touch with anyone I wanted to.
Posted by Pfft
Member since Jul 2014
4576 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:20 pm to
Because pussy is undefeated
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188768 posts
Posted on 5/31/24 at 8:23 pm to
quote:

She’s gonna bang a couple dudes.
The black guys on parole
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