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re: What’s the max number kids a chick can have that you’ll date?

Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:03 pm to
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
170606 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:03 pm to
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i dont think i could ever raise someone elses kids except for being a godfather.



As someone who has briefly dated a couple of single moms I don't think most are expecting that of you
Posted by FWGolfer
Member since Oct 2017
87 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:05 pm to
Girlfriend has 2 and its great. Just my opinion but don't miss a a great opportunity because of kids. Luckily for me her kids are great (and older).
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
88742 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:06 pm to
There isn't a max.

If I enjoy myself with her enough while taking the kids into consideration...then the number doesn't matter.


That said, more than 2 is pushing it
Posted by Somebody2
Member since Jun 2018
267 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:21 pm to
0. I would not want to be a stepdad
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
154096 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:25 pm to
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intentions to make whoopi
Posted by transcend
Austin, TX
Member since Aug 2013
4166 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:30 pm to
1 for me 1 for her. 2 max total. Anymore and I'm running.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
79132 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:34 pm to
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None


You wouldn't consider a young widow?
Posted by umop_apisdn
Member since Sep 2017
3673 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:42 pm to
Depends on if she holds her own financially. And I don't mean with 'da gubment' help.

If she earns a good living and handles her life without a man or the governments financial help that's great.

I LOVE kids. Would be a huge plus honestly.

But... Government ticks and clingers can get farcked.
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:45 pm to
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I can tell you've never had sex with a woman who has had a few kids


The doctor did me a solid and stitched my wife tight.
Posted by Fishwater
Carcosa
Member since Aug 2010
6027 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 9:50 pm to
just 1. But I also want my own kid(s), so if it got serious with the single mom, she'd have to want to have at least one more...

The kid(s) isn't the issue part, its the baby daddy that's the real issue. Is he a POS, is he in the kid's life, does he pay CS, what trashy situations is he going to create, etc...

Posted by umop_apisdn
Member since Sep 2017
3673 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:05 pm to
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The kid(s) isn't the issue part, its the baby daddy that's the real issue. Is he a POS, is he in the kid's life, does he pay CS, what trashy situations is he going to create, etc...


It's much more than that. When women have babies and don't have a solid supportive dad what happens is the mother becomes desperate for a family, normal life and a man and forces things without proper judgement.

I can't say I blame them but the problem is as a man you get attached to those sweet babies and if/when id doesn't work out losing the child in your life becomes harder to deal with than the erratic mother.
Posted by JDogg33
Member since Oct 2017
405 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:08 pm to
Depends on....
My Age

How hot she is

If she is looking for me to support them

Etc
Posted by trevorsandler2016
Los Angeles
Member since Nov 2017
18 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:08 pm to
0 for me but I'm 22 and got no kids
Posted by Fishwater
Carcosa
Member since Aug 2010
6027 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:09 pm to
quote:

I can't say I blame them but the problem is as a man you get attached to those sweet babies and if/when id doesn't work out losing the child in your life becomes harder to deal with than the erratic mother.



I can see this. You care for the kiddo, then you feel bad for the kid for going back to single parent lifestyle.
Posted by umop_apisdn
Member since Sep 2017
3673 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:11 pm to
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I can see this. You care for the kiddo, then you feel bad for the kid for going back to single parent lifestyle.


Exactly, if/when it doesn't work out you will miss those sweet babies. Kids are awesome, so sweet, innocent and loving.

When single mothers force relationships for support its almost always bad. You can't force Love &/or chemistry.

Desperate mothers do indeed force relationships, unfortunately. *Not all
This post was edited on 7/14/18 at 10:14 pm
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:25 pm to
0
Posted by the paradigm
Moon Township, PA
Member since Sep 2017
5417 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:45 pm to
I dated a chick with 4. On top of that she was a former stripper. Big mistake.
Posted by FournetteForEver7
Member since Nov 2015
2475 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 10:46 pm to
Did she key your car?
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 11:11 pm to
Absolute zero no exception. I’m not paying for her past mistakes.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
21851 posts
Posted on 7/14/18 at 11:46 pm to
Zero
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