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re: What Kind Of Man Shares A Meal With His GF?
Posted on 3/7/17 at 5:59 pm to goldennugget
Posted on 3/7/17 at 5:59 pm to goldennugget
quote:may not agree with him on a lot but this is hard to argue with
What Kind Of Man Shares A Meal With His GF? by goldennugget quote: Bunch of people here think they are "gentlemen" because they bring some cum dumpster out to eat Taking a woman to dinner is a terrible idea for an early date. You don't do that until you have at least half a dozen dates under your belt. Because you can't demonstrate your value or how to have fun when you are sitting at a table. All you can do is talk, which is boring to a woman. Girls just want to have fun. They can talk with their girlfriends and orbiting male friends. The way you get a girl to go on a 2nd date is to have fun on the 1st date, and when she has fun with you she will want to do it again. Hard to have fun at a table. Places I go for early dates: shooting range, driving range, mini golf, bowling, paintball, indoor go Kart track, etc. My 2nd date is always the same. I invite her over and we cook a meal together. I do not cook for her. I make her do her part of the work. This way I can demonstrate my leadership and how I can take charge. Captain and First Mate dynamic. Women like to see a man who takes the lead.
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Posted on 3/7/17 at 5:59 pm to goldennugget
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The more a woman learns about you, the less attracted she will be. Women will fill in the gaps of what they don't know about you with fantasy. Which goes away the more they learn. It's best to remain mysterious which is intriguing.
Oh. My. God.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:00 pm to TH03
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I had all the fun I wanted, met someone I wanted a life and family with
Sounds like you are jealous of how alpha and single goldennugget is while you are stuck in some nightmare marriage changing diapers
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:02 pm to goldennugget
Any man is lying if they have never had one of those dumb bitches straight ask for a drink, guy tells her no, and they do that head toss scoff move.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:03 pm to Nado Jenkins83
Never had a woman ask me to buy her a drink
I guess I should go out more
I guess I should go out more
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:03 pm to TH03
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Then you're either ugly, poor, boring, or all three. It ain't hard to get laid if you aren't completely unappealing in every way.
I used to pay for women's shite on dates. I used to buy them gifts and flowers. I used to go visit them in the hospital after they got in a wreck or go drive hours out of the way to go to their volleyball game
You know how many times I was rewarded for doing all that. 0.
Whoever is investing more has the least amount of leverage. I was investing all that in hopes of winning the woman over and failing. Why? I had been told my entire life women want a man who is sweet, nice, caring, and all of that. It wasn't working for me.
I'm still pretty much the same guy today. Same face. Same height. My body is leaner and I dress better. Most importantly? I am more confident and give zero fricks. I have outcome independence. I stopped trying so hard and stopped trying to win women over by being ultra nice and worshipping the ground they walk on. All of a sudden I started having success. Why? If the way to a woman's attraction is to be ultra nice and caring, then why did I have no success doing that and am now having success doing the opposite?
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:05 pm to jimbeam
Still the thread is about GFs. Not side pieces
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:05 pm to Nado Jenkins83
I k ow. Thread is so derailed
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:05 pm to Burt Reynolds
I don't have kids and we don't plan on it for a long time.
My wife is 4 years younger than me, we go out every week, travel every month, and we have a lot of fun. I'm not jealous in the slightest.
My wife is 4 years younger than me, we go out every week, travel every month, and we have a lot of fun. I'm not jealous in the slightest.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:06 pm to Nado Jenkins83
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This post was edited on 3/8/17 at 6:14 pm
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:09 pm to goldennugget
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You know how many times I was rewarded for doing all that. 0.
quote:Jesus dude
I used to go visit them in the hospital after they got in a wreck
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:09 pm to goldennugget
Guys that buy girls dinner before having sex are most definitely desperate betas.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:09 pm to Burt Reynolds
That was when I was early 20s. Young dumb chicks. Lots of women want weed nowadays too
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:10 pm to Nado Jenkins83
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Any man is lying if they have never had one of those dumb bitches straight ask for a drink, guy tells her no, and they do that head toss scoff move.
They absolutely do. Happens all the time. And it drives them nuts. They think that by being pretty they can get guys to do whatever they want. So when some guy doesn't play along they hate it. And they will ask themselves "What's so special about this guy that he refused to buy me a drink like the rest?". And as the night goes on they will be more and more intrigued. Especially if she sees you talking to other women. She will ask her self "He must have a lot of options if he rejected to buy a drink for me". They see you rejecting buying her a drink as something done out of confidence and a position of strength. And eventually they will return.
That is how shite tests work in general. A woman wanting you to buy her a drink is a shite test. You pass by not complying. Passing shite tests involve a temporary downside at first but an upside in the long run.
1. Women want what they can't have
2. Women are attracted to men that other women want/are attracted to(pre selection)
It's about then long game.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:11 pm to Burt Reynolds
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Guys that buy girls dinner before having sex are most definitely desperate betas.
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
I think a lot of you would be surprised just how cheap access to a woman's intimacy can be. You are just afraid to try.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:12 pm to Nado Jenkins83
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This post was edited on 3/8/17 at 6:13 pm
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:13 pm to goldennugget
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I think a lot of you would be surprised just how cheap access to a woman's intimacy can be.
Yea it's called Applebee's
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:15 pm to goldennugget
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I never pay for a girls meal
If you want a woman to brand you as a weak beta, pay for her meals and other things
i kind of agree with you here. i believe whoever invites/asks the other one on the date should pay. once you're in an established relationship split as much as you can, therefore there's no animosity towards the other. i know many women who make more than me, no way am i paying for all their shite.
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:15 pm to goldennugget
I just know how to talk to females and be just enough of a Dick to keep them interested. I don't need to waste time or a chance by ignoring them by acting too cool for half the night. I'm not arguing the big league method doesn't work but don't understand why that's your plan before even going out. Learn to read people
Posted on 3/7/17 at 6:16 pm to goldennugget
quote:what if you're ugly or fat?
They absolutely do. Happens all the time. And it drives them nuts. They think that by being pretty they can get guys to do whatever they want. So when some guy doesn't play along they hate it. And they will ask themselves "What's so special about this guy that he refused to buy me a drink like the rest?". And as the night goes on they will be more and more intrigued. Especially if she sees you talking to other women. She will ask her self "He must have a lot of options if he rejected to buy a drink for me". They see you rejecting buying her a drink as something done out of confidence and a position of strength. And eventually they will return
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