re: What do you and your S.O. fight about the most?

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you are not showing respect for his time

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This is exactly what he says. Which is why I’ve simply stopped telling him exact times, because I disagree. The alternative in this specific scenario (when he knows it pretty much always runs over) is for me to leave practice while the rest of the team is still playing. I hate having to choose between pissing him off & leaving something I’m enjoying 10 minutes before everyone else for arbitrary reasons.

If his practice ran late, I wouldn’t be mad, so it’s very hard for me to understand.

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I hate having to choose between pissing him off & leaving something I’m enjoying 10 minutes before everyone else for arbitrary reasons

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no that's bullshite and I'd politely tell him to frick off

she said in her post when they have no plans

you're just being a lnchbox

If you throw out the fights we have when my wife is PMSing, then we really don't fight.

We used to fight every single day. We went to counseling and discovered how to better communicate.

I said I have nothing going on after. Unless “being together at home” is a scheduled event. It’s a matter of expectation vs reality. If I say we’re practicing til 8, he expects it to stop at 8. If we don’t stop til 8:15, I’m lying about what time it ends. It’s stupid and controlling. Like I said, it’s gotten better, but it has caused a frick ton of fights.

He sounds like a cheater.

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If you throw out the fights we have when my wife is PMSing, then we really don't fight.

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I told my gf this JUST last week.

"Bitch you always mad and either about to get your period, on your period, or still getting off your period.
that leaves me 48 hours a month of you being nice to me and giving me the booty."

I really said that but immediately groveled that it was just a joke and I loved her greatly.

I'm just confused as to how that makes you a liar I could see him being annoyed that it ran late, but that doesn't make you a LIAR. You can't predict the future.

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"Bitch you always mad and either about to get your period, on your period, or still getting off your period.
that leaves me 48 hours a month of you being nice to me and giving me the booty."

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Look into Clue - an app that tracks cycles. At least now when I ask her if she is PMSing, she can check. Pretty much every time she starts yelling I tell her this. She yells that it is impossible she isn't PMSing. Then she checks and apologizes.

That's one thing we don't have to deal with. I never get periods/don't PMS.

Honestly, we don't fight much at all. Neither of us believes in "fighting", really. If there is an issue, we talk it out.

Name calling is strictly forbidden. I'd never be with someone that thinks it is okay to call me a bitch or something.