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re: What do ya'll think it was like living in the old days? Say 1880s

Posted on 6/13/21 at 7:48 pm to
Posted by MSUDawg98
Ravens Flock
Member since Jan 2018
9986 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 7:48 pm to
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Did dads spend anymore time with their kids back then as today. Got to thinking, 2 of my son's friends mentioned their dads sit on their phones and laptops almost the entire time they are home from work.
I'm in a similar situation but am home for probably 160/168 hours a week. I am the CTO/co-founder of a media company so I set my own hours. My whole family is on tech. We communicate from room to room via texts and Facebook messenger. My wife comes home from work, makes supper, and then spends the evening working from home (thanks you lazy Kung Flu $300 u/e bonus frickers.) Little Dawg has 4 screens in his room (phone/laptop/32" monitor for Xbox sX/50" TV) which will help since the HS FB team went full digital with the playbook and film breakdown available remotely. My oldest kid does PS5 all the time when he's not on his iPad whacking off to his favorite women's soccer player.

Then there's the generation to generation financial growth/Amer Dream. I grew up in a home where the rent was $350 and we didn't have A/C. My other parent lived in a $33k house (currently worth $75k) The "rich" part of town had $150k homes. My kids only know living in a $150k house. I got an NES when I was 10 and played it on a 10" B&W TV.

When I got in trouble I had everything but my radio taken away. We didn't have A/C. So I can kind of imagine life with the basics. I used to spend those days playing outside and the nights keeping score of the baseball game of that night. Of course I grew up in the upper Midwest so the heart wasn't as bad but the humidity was just as bad as a late summer day in StarkVegas. I could survive if we were hit with an EMP tonight that wiped everything other than radios, printing presses, and pharmaceuticals. My kids would be lost. We can't even take a vacation without a video game system.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29435 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 8:28 pm to
This was kids who worked in a coal mine in 1912. Most kids worked to help provide for their family. Life was hard, even for kids.

Posted by bee Rye
New orleans
Member since Jan 2006
33961 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 9:29 pm to
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My kids only know living in a $150k house.


What is this? A house for ants?
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10563 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 9:51 pm to
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It was hot as shite but that's one of those things about can you miss what doesn't exist? If heat it all you know then you adapt to it. We melt in the heat because we know AC is a thing


Open windows in Louisiana means flying roaches in your house at night. I’m sorry but that life ain’t worth dealing with that.
Posted by Reubaltaich
A nation under duress
Member since Jun 2006
4964 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 10:28 pm to
I remember my grandmother saying more than one time that she did NOT miss the 'good old days'.

Of course, the 1880s was way before her time. My granddaddy and her were farmers during the Depression and WWII.

I can image life in the 1880s in Louisiana was pretty hot in the summers, with no AC. And it got pretty cold in the winters with just maybe a chimney and/or wood burning stove.

Then there was the Louisiana state bird, the hellish 'skeeters.

Hard work was the order of the day for the whole family.

The men were usually farming, cotton in the north, sugar cane way in the deep south, or cutting, hauling lumber in the swamp or in the forests.

The South was still recovering from the Civil War.

The women were usually at home taking care of the house and barn, milking cows tending the horses mules etc, working the gardens, preparing meals, bailing water...

Most of the children were in school but worked when they got home and helped around the house.

I can image life was pretty hard. No stores to go to on a whim, no refrigerators, you either walked, rode horse/mule or rode in a wagon to get somewhere.
Food could get scarce.

There was usually one doctor who took care of the whole town. There was no anesthesia for medical procedures, usually a few shots of whiskey to help numb the pain.

Same with a dentist, an abscessed tooth must have been hell.

A serious injury or disease was usually fatal.

Infant mortality was high.

There was the Saturday night social where the young folks could court each other.

There was church on Sundays and sometime dinner afterwards.

I am sure the parents would interact and spend family time with their children.

When the kids went to bed and were fast asleep, momma and daddy had their little time together.

I am sure that life was somewhat simple back then as there was no where near the BS we have to put up with today.

We have the advantage of looking back on history and reflecting on how things were back then.

No doubt things are a lot better today than they were back 140 years ago.

IDK if our best days are past or not but SOMETIMES to me it seems like the golden years of our nation
are a thing of the past.

Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
49182 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 10:36 pm to
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My granddaddy and her were farmers during the Depression and WWII.



Had some relatives, farmers, that lived through the Depression and they didn't trust banks right up to the end. Kept thousands in cash in the house.

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Same with a dentist, an abscessed tooth must have been hell.



Probably just yanked it themselves.
Posted by ned nederlander
Member since Dec 2012
4267 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 10:46 pm to
Parents in the 1880s buried a lot of children. I’m always struck walking through old cemeteries how many children died prior to the 1950s. Modern medicine, nutrition and vaccines really are something else.

I frankly don’t know how people lived back then and will freely admit I am far to soft to survive back then. It’s actually an interesting question to think how far back in time could you go and survive. Some people who have posted on this thread could probably survive in 1880. Zero people on this thread could go back to 1680 and survive a year.
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
17165 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 10:53 pm to
The hellish conditions people in Appalachia in Eastern Kentucky endured with coal mining was abysmal in those days. It actually got worse for them in the 1900s and beyond and they've never really recovered. But they are hardy God fearing folk. Don't know how folks down there back in the swamps live, but I imagine there's a lot of similarities between them and those out in the hollers in Kentucky.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20375 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 10:57 pm to
I hope you like yellow fever.

And I’m not talking about the banging Asian chicks kind.
This post was edited on 6/13/21 at 10:57 pm
Posted by Reubaltaich
A nation under duress
Member since Jun 2006
4964 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 11:18 pm to
Yep, when the banks were failing, folks lost their money outright.
There was no FDIC to bail out the depositors. Losing their money was a life-altering, devastating blow that many never recovered from.

We have all heard of the old-timers burying their cash in mason jars and how banks were despised by them.


I remember hearing stories of how people would tie a string around the abscessed/rotten tooth and tying the other end to a door knob and then have someone slam the door.

That must have been horrific.

Reading up on it, an abscessed tooth was a major contributor to deaths over 200 years ago.

I am thankful for all the medical advances we now have today.
Posted by Globetrotter747
Member since Sep 2017
4310 posts
Posted on 6/13/21 at 11:34 pm to
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Let's just say average family, small town Louisiana, this time period we will stick with white people, for obvious reasons. You think people then were happier or much more pissed off everyday?

Happiness has a lot to do with your experience and expectations. If you were living in the late 19th century and knew nothing but hard work on the family farm with few comforts and everyone around you lived a similar life, you probably would be happy.

If you grew up in the early 21st century and lived in a modest apartment while driving a beat up car and had no money to go on the vacations and all that jazz, you probably wouldn't be very happy even though you still would be living a much more comfortable lifestyle than anyone in the 19th century.

Ignorance is bliss in a lot of ways. Someone toiling in the 1880's didn't know that he was just barely missing out on television, phones, cars, microwave ovens, air conditioning, and all kinds of other shite that would make his life a lot better.

One day people are going to look back on our time like we do previous centuries. They will think at least some of our cultural norms are barbaric, our technology is primitive and inconvenient, and our religions are silly.
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