re: What are women actually attracted to?

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tbh- I have the humor and maturity of a 14 y/o boy too.

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Nice. +1 (compliant with 12 y/o us )

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But- I am a very effective communicator when the need arises.

I’m not bitchy about things either bc I believe you get better results with a drop of honey than you do a gallon of vinegar - and that decreases subsequent and unnecessary collateral fights/damage.

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Sound reasonable to me. Should our respective situation change, I'm filing you away...just in case.

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Such is life when your man can cook better than you.

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so true

There are a few things I make better than he does. None of them are casserole.

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I can grill better than most, but I'm pretty clueless in the kitchen otherwise

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Just have to get in there and experiment, I’ve been finding recipes through TikTok and wife is extremely happy when a meal is fully prepared when she gets home.

They want security as in physical and financial.

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Just have to get in there and experiment, I’ve been finding recipes through TikTok and wife is extremely happy when a meal is fully prepared when she gets home.

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I work from home a lot, and I get off around 4pm, so I do try to start dinner for my wife on those days.

Fresh Market deli is my go-to. I can go buy something like chicken cordon bleu, stuffed porkchops etc, just stick them in the oven and heat up a vegetable and maybe some bread. A high-quality meal and very little skill involved

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if you haven’t kissed me in a week, I’m not initiating sex

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Nor should you. You should be kissed passionately every single day. Preferably with a hand on your arse while being moved by his superior physical strength against a wall. I had an ex who said "all our problems can be solved in the bedroom" and I think that is the ancient wisdom we need to understand. Genuine burning desire for each other. I couldn't wait to kiss her in the way I knew she craved. Was I doing that for me or for her? That passion keeps the lights on. Going through the motions is for suckers.

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not really but what should YOU do besides making enough money to pay the bills? Or is that good enough?

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My job as a man is to give you what you need, telling you NO when it is in our best interest to establish my innate masculine competence and leadership until you begin to crave it. You just know your man has integrity and good judgement and you find that attractive. Your job is to submit in a loving and feminine manner that causes me to become even more attuned to you and aware of your needs. Your submission is a gift that makes you irresistible. Wise people call this natural masculine-feminine dynamic- JOY. And wise women know this is the way to get what you want from the man. In the end, he's scrambling to think of new ways to give you what you want. Your submission created that, not by acting like a Boss Bitch who "don't need no man, y'all". Not that you or anybody in this thread is that horrific sub species of American womanhood.

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Why so salty? Yikes

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don’t you get tired of the woman hating threads? All women are gold digging whores threads? It’s trite and shallow.

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don’t you get tired of the woman hating threads? All women are gold digging whores threads? It’s trite and shallow.

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Well at least aim your fire at the men who are actually saying those things and also consider not pretending that any nod to human behavior is somehow "woman-hating"? That's trite and shallow. We have human natures. Men and women differ in key ways. I'll never understand why women get irate when these differences, which aren't even value judgements, are discussed.

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It's not anymore "hate" to say women love wealth

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The OT has taught me I’ve clearly been doing things wrong all these years. Fine. I give in. I’ll move wealth up to #1 on my list so I can conform to the standard.

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My job as a man is to give you what you need, telling you NO when it is in our best interest to establish my innate masculine competence and leadership until you begin to crave it. You just know your man has integrity and good judgement and you find that attractive. Your job is to submit in a loving and feminine manner that causes me to become even more attuned to you and aware of your needs. Your submission is a gift that makes you irresistible

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I think we - maybe not you and I, but I know I’ve talked about this on here recently

I think women actually do long for a male counterpart who has the gentle, quiet strength to allow her to be vulnerable and feel safe in the process therein furthering her want and willingness to be feminine and submissive.

Many men miss the mark though in that they have their own role to play to facilitate or perhaps nurture that in a woman.