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re: Weekend Dating Advice - Primal vs. Transactional Intercourse
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:25 pm to Ted2010
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:25 pm to Ted2010
y'all are shooting the messenger and ignoring the message
"I will never be anywhere or with anyone where I'm not wanted" is a good plan for life
if a sexual partner is not as amped to get naked as you are, for the fun and not the fund, go find one that is
"I will never be anywhere or with anyone where I'm not wanted" is a good plan for life
if a sexual partner is not as amped to get naked as you are, for the fun and not the fund, go find one that is
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Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:26 pm to goldennugget
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Can't get an erection without the attraction centers of the brain being activated.
Do you ever get tired of being wrong?
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:26 pm to goldennugget
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There has to be attraction involved for a man to have sex because he has to get an erection in order to do so. Can't get an erection without the attraction centers of the brain being activated.
How long have you been on this site? There is a whole thread dedicated to boner pills for guys who aren't attracted to their whale wives anymore.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:26 pm to goldennugget
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There has to be attraction involved for a man to have sex because he has to get an erection in order to do so. Can't get an erection without the attraction centers of the brain being activated.
What if he's imagining Charlotte McKinney when he's fricking the wealthy, yet butt-ugly chick?
It could be transactional then.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:30 pm to goldennugget
I agree with you nugget
But you need to stop... I'm enjoying slaying all this poon that would otherwise be spoken for by these bitch boys
Can't give all the secrets away
But you need to stop... I'm enjoying slaying all this poon that would otherwise be spoken for by these bitch boys
Can't give all the secrets away
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:30 pm to Spaulding Smails
In the 69 position my nose will tickle their rear.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:31 pm to SidewalkDawg
The "don't care, had sex" crowd makes me laugh.
So basically you had to be on your best behavior and meet a running list of conditions such as chores, emotional support, time, money, dates, gifts, etc. for the occasional reward of pity starfish sex
Talk about having no dignity. You are better off having no sex at all than burning the candle on both ends and working yourself to death for shitty transactional sex from a woman who is actually repulsed by you
Sexual attraction is one of four quadrants:
Quadrant 1: The woman is sexually attracted to you, and has sex with you
Quadrant 2: The woman is sexually attracted to you, but doesn't have sex with you for various reasons. Women are not complete slaves to their sexual attraction and will withhold it even from men they are attracted to.
Quadrant 3: The woman is not sexually attracted to you, and does not have sex with you because of this
Quadrant 4: The woman is not sexually attracted to you, but musters up a reason to have sex with you anyway because she stands to gain in some form from it
You are better off being in Quadrant #1, #2, or #3 than #4. Obviously #1 is most ideal. #2 is still ideal because she is attracted to you, and will eventually give in to her sexual attraction at some point, it has nothing to do with you but her. #3 is even preferable to #4 because if you are in bucket #3 you can at least work on yourself and improve yourself, and you are not trapped. #4 is bad because men get trapped here. They are trapped in a cycle of over working themselves for shitty transactional sex.
So basically you had to be on your best behavior and meet a running list of conditions such as chores, emotional support, time, money, dates, gifts, etc. for the occasional reward of pity starfish sex
Talk about having no dignity. You are better off having no sex at all than burning the candle on both ends and working yourself to death for shitty transactional sex from a woman who is actually repulsed by you
Sexual attraction is one of four quadrants:
Quadrant 1: The woman is sexually attracted to you, and has sex with you
Quadrant 2: The woman is sexually attracted to you, but doesn't have sex with you for various reasons. Women are not complete slaves to their sexual attraction and will withhold it even from men they are attracted to.
Quadrant 3: The woman is not sexually attracted to you, and does not have sex with you because of this
Quadrant 4: The woman is not sexually attracted to you, but musters up a reason to have sex with you anyway because she stands to gain in some form from it
You are better off being in Quadrant #1, #2, or #3 than #4. Obviously #1 is most ideal. #2 is still ideal because she is attracted to you, and will eventually give in to her sexual attraction at some point, it has nothing to do with you but her. #3 is even preferable to #4 because if you are in bucket #3 you can at least work on yourself and improve yourself, and you are not trapped. #4 is bad because men get trapped here. They are trapped in a cycle of over working themselves for shitty transactional sex.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:31 pm to goldennugget
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goldennugget
Visual reference:
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:32 pm to Captain Lafitte
Legend in his own mind.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:33 pm to cgrand
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y'all are shooting the messenger and ignoring the message
"I will never be anywhere or with anyone where I'm not wanted" is a good plan for life
if a sexual partner is not as amped to get naked as you are, for the fun and not the fund, go find one that is
Glad someone gets it.
The problem with men is that they have no abundance mentality, no options. So the first somewhat attractive woman who shows them reciprocal attention, they try to lock down and she then represents 100% of his supply of pussy. So he does anything he can to maintain access to his only supply. In order to keep 100% of his supply of pussy from walking out the door, he has to give into any demand she has.
Hence why they would rather stick with a woman who is not attracted to him for the rare duty sex every 4-6 weeks than improve himself and find a woman who actually wants him
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:33 pm to goldennugget
Good points bro but 99% of married men are stuck with the later. I have been married for 15 yrs and I am ok with quality over quantity. I refuse to work hard for it so I only make a move when I know it's right for both of us. Having 3 children in the home makes it difficult to have sex very often but we are both ok with that. It isn't the backbone of our relationship.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:33 pm to Ted2010
Yes. 
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:34 pm to goldennugget
yeah but how do I get them to start filling out the satisfaction/complaint cards that I leave on my nightstand?
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:34 pm to goldennugget
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So basically you had to be on your best behavior and meet a running list of conditions such as chores, emotional support, time, money, dates, gifts, etc. for the occasional reward of pity starfish sex
Not at all. I piss her off all week by not doing anything which causes her to drink and when she's sloshed enough to think I'm Brad Pitt I give it to her missionary style because it's the only position that my beer belly won't get too much in the way. Then I roll off her and she makes me a sandwich. Which quadrant do I fit in?
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:36 pm to goldennugget
quote:My morning wood begs to differ.
Can't get an erection without the attraction centers of the brain being activated
This post was edited on 4/9/17 at 12:37 pm
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:37 pm to SidewalkDawg
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Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:37 pm to Captain Lafitte
Somebody skips arm day
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:37 pm to goldennugget
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goldennugget
Honestly lately you have been money on some of your advice, as much as some of the posters don't want to admit.
You may be a little off on this one with the 'men can't have transactional sex' stuff but for the most part the rest is true.
The thing I take away from all this is you try to paint things in absolutes and black and white too often. You also put too much thought into it. It's like you want to put attraction and love into a hard science and women can smell that comes off as awkward and disingenuous.
I hate using this cliche but comes across as a try hard.
It really doesn't take much to meet, date, and have fun with respectable beautiful women. Surely doesn't take studying a subreddit and having bulletpoints to follow.
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:38 pm to goldennugget
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But I'm not working for it and still getting it so who is the fool now eh?
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:46 pm to goldennugget
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goldennugget
You give too much attention to a subject that comes easily and naturally for most of us. I believe that proves you are a total failure with women.
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