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re: True Confessions of a suburban cheating Mom.

Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:00 pm to
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:00 pm to
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Whore! Slut! Oh, fricking please,......grow the frick up.




I always figured these were the guys who would qualify as her husband
Posted by AUin02
Member since Jan 2012
4529 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:05 pm to
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This woman was no whore, slut, etc. It is a woman who's husband dropped the fricking ball. Does she carry some accountability? Sure. But, so does the husband.


Uh, wrong. Husband drops the ball, get a divorce, bang dudes = not a whore.

Husband drops the ball, sleep around, then get a divorce then post to the internet in an attempt to justify her actions? Whore.

Hell her version of the husband sounds like they were both cheating so it was probably a marriage of two whores. But there is nothing immature about calling a spade a spade, the immaturity lies within those who cannot deal with it.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:05 pm to
It does take both sides to work at it. A major mistake I made was thinking I could turn things around on my own after the kids moved out on their own. A major lesson I learned was that no matter how bad you want a relationship to work, if the other party isn't interested, it's simply not going to happen.

We produced two good kids and had some good times, but for all the pain and misery, I frankly wish I had never met the woman. Everything that was wrong with the marriage was my fault. She never would admit to where she might have been just at least a little at fault. Damn, I fricked up.

Not too long ago, she sent a message through the kids about moving back to this state after her current boyfriend dies off. I sent a message back telling her to pick any place she wants (and can afford herself) as long as it wasn't my address.
Posted by LosLobos111
Austere
Member since Feb 2011
45385 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:07 pm to
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Some of the sentiments and comments in here are fricking sad and immature.

This woman was no whore, slut, etc. It is a woman who's husband dropped the fricking ball. Does she carry some accountability? Sure. But, so does the husband.

Work in a marriage takes both sides pulling their heads from their asses and acknowledging their partner.

Whore! Slut! Oh, fricking please,......grow the frick up.



At least the husband didn't write an entire fricking article.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:09 pm to
I'm a man who has recognized how I ignored my wife. She tried for years to reach me, but I was MAN damn it! Hear me roar!

Let me tell ya what, hot shot. I'm on track to be the husband, friend, and father I should and can be. Beating my chest
Ike Tarzan is over now. Time to work for a solid marriage.

Manly men spouting off in here are doomed to failure no matter how highly they regard themselves.

Truth
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:13 pm to
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Hell her version of the husband sounds like they were both cheating so it was probably a marriage of two whores. But there is nothing immature about calling a spade a spade, the immaturity lies within those who cannot deal with it.


Immaturity is failing to recognize the dynamics of the relationships evolution, the psychological pain and struggle, and childishly placing a hurtful label.

Spades are elements of a card game. The heart I refer to is not a game and not a spade.
This post was edited on 8/25/14 at 5:14 pm
Posted by AU86
Member since Aug 2009
26257 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:15 pm to
She is a very selfish person. Sounds to me like she only thinks of herself. Never really matured into an adult. These type women after the children come along are even jealous of the affections paid to the children and not to themselves. She may have been daddy's little princess, spoiled, self-centered and very selfish. Can't stand that she doesn't get all of the attention and everything that she wants. Sadly the world is full of this type today.
This post was edited on 8/25/14 at 5:19 pm
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:15 pm to
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At least the husband didn't write an entire fricking article.


He wouldn't because he's too fricking lazy, doesn't care, and/or is too busy cheating himself. If he had the insight to write such an article, she wouldn't be writing one......
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133376 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:18 pm to
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This woman was no whore, slut, etc. It is a woman who's husband dropped the fricking ball. Does she carry some accountability? Sure. But, so does the husband.


She's the one who cheated though (as far as we know.)
Posted by blue_morrison
Member since Jan 2013
5914 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:19 pm to
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It messes with you when another human takes a shite on you and then laughs about it.


Eh, talk to hospital workers and correctional officers about this
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133376 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:20 pm to
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There are too many out there who are willing to do the friends with benefits thing as they don't want the "ball and chain" thing any more than we men do.


And damn do I love them. They'll put a hurting on you and come back for more.
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:21 pm to
Husband drops the ball, sleep around, then get a divorce then post to the internet in an attempt to justify her actions? Whore.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:26 pm to
Mulat.

Your simpleton thinking is exactly what could undo your marriage ....assuming you are married.

Reducing the dynamics of someone trying to keep a family together where it is doomed is naive and indicative of someone who would never "get it".

Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:29 pm to
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Your simpleton thinking is exactly what could undo your marriage ..


Appreciate your concern as I know you are sincere in your comments.

Very Happily Married here, you and I simply do not agree, I accept people like you are here on the earth, I bump into them all the time, doesn't mean I like or agree with them, but I can be civil, tell me can you
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20430 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:40 pm to
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Immaturity is failing to recognize the dynamics of the relationships evolution, the psychological pain and struggle, and childishly placing a hurtful label.

Spades are elements of a card game. The heart I refer to is not a game and not a spade.


Is the husband responsible for the relationship getting stagnate? Possibly so.

Is the husband responsible for this chick spreading her legs for some other guy? Nope, not one bit.

The cheaters almost always start out with the "oh it was just friendly conversation" or "he/she is just a friend I like to talk to" something like that. They (the cheater) knows good and damn well that they shouldn't be doing WTF they're doing yet, they do it anyway for their own satisfaction.

My ex used to tell the guy she was fricking how "exciting" it was to be sneaking around with him and not getting caught(was in the pile of text messages I read).
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:45 pm to
Mulat, great hear.....seriously.

question: do you and could you act like the husband in the article?....ignore the Seussness of the question....
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:54 pm to
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do you and could you act like the husband in the article?....ignore the Seussness of the question....




I need to go back and read it to answer your question, what I heard and saw in what she wrote was her pleading with her husband, and her genuine sadness about the failure of that relationship. So no, I don't see her as a whore at all, a very lonely person who is clearly depressed; who has made a serious mistake.
This post was edited on 8/25/14 at 6:13 pm
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33245 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:55 pm to
Brass, stagnant you say?

Woman was likely brokenhearted. That right there shows the detached ignorance displayed by most here.....

also, two more things for some others here:
1. She not a fricking housewife!!!!! My wife is a suburban wife who is a career professional. Think gentlemen.
2. She didn't frick the pool boy or the UPS man. She was emotionally supported over an extended period of time while perpetually ignored by an insensitive prick who couldn't even tell her good fricking bye when leaving the house.

Whore I think not.

I also made excuses and dismissed my wife pleading for me to just pay attention. I'm lucky. I caught on before she felt the need to pen an article. I was 98% at fault in our relationship and all the while wondered what her fricking problem was. It was me.

Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 5:59 pm to
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For me and my situation, I truly believe it was inevitable and the only way things could have happened.



What a delusional bitch
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20430 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 6:19 pm to
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CharlesLSU


I'll buy that, but she could have just walked away. Why drag everybody down with her? Being in a shitty relationship or marriage isn't a free pass to go frick around on your spouse, if you're miserable, GTFO.

Her writing this article, as has been pointed out many times, was her just justifying her deeds to herself and trying to justify them to all of us.
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