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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:49 am to Guido Merkens
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:49 am to Guido Merkens
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Great woman, daddy issues, we were married for 13 years.
Years 1-3 of marriage - we were heavily into each other - lots of reassurance needed for her.
Had kid
Years 4-11 - she was cool but mainly into the kid
Years 11-12 she was into going out w her sister who was single
Year 13 she started wanting to sew her oats and felt she had never been single or gotten enough attention from guys
Good luck
Summary - you can't make chicken salad out of chicken shite.
You will replace her dad as the male role model in her life and she will resent you when things get tough -
Bail out
My main rule for marriage is to do it with someone you want to have kids with and someone without daddy issues
quote:
I was in the same boat as you Rintintin.
Same boat my arse.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:49 am to 50_Tiger
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Thank you Rintintin for not allowing me to be productive today so far and hitting F5 on this thread every second.
This goes for me too, but you just made it worth it as I did not know about the F5 thing. lol I always just clicked refresh
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:49 am to 50_Tiger
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hitting F5 on this thread and seeing yet another fricking mizzoukills post
FIFY
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:50 am to Gris Gris
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So, you timed this for 30 days before the end of the lease? Wow. And, during Christmas time, both of you will be looking for new digs?
It's unfortunate timing, but it's really the only time to do it. Any earlier and we're stuck in a lease for much longer.
Any later and our lease will be renewed for another 12 months.
Trust me, I've thought long and hard about this.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:51 am to 19
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C'mon, baw. You're not even trying...
Do I ever?
Yet my posts and the reactions to my advice singlehandedly extended the life of this thread by at least 150 posts.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:51 am to 13SaintTiger
I Was telling him what his future will look like if he stays with her.
Trust your gut Rintin - it's never wrong.
Trust your gut Rintin - it's never wrong.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:52 am to rintintin
rintin,
I wish you luck! I hope this decision works for both you and this girl.
Very fun thread.
Godspeed
I wish you luck! I hope this decision works for both you and this girl.
Very fun thread.
Godspeed
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:54 am to mizzoukills
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quote:That's enough killz...taking that theory off the deep end now
Perhaps I'm wrong. I hope I am because if I'm right...that's an awful life to live. Seriously.
I hope I'm wrong for rintin's sake.
But, there's more truth in my posts than some of y'all are giving me credit for.
There is some truth into what you discuss, but I wouldn't go as far as you think. It's like every mental/health issue...if you read enough of the symptoms, everyone has it. Ex...probably 99% of people are inaccurately diagnosed with ADD/ADHD. You have to draw the line between actual diagnosis and just being human/living life.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:54 am to rintintin
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Trust me, it's been 4 years of hard work and I'm done
You tried, baw. Let her go have her lil marriage and lil life and lil chirrenz.
You are justified, sanctified, O-Tified.
Now...
Go do what needs to be done. TODAY. keep putting it off and it will be Christmas before you know it...and you'll put it off...then, you get weak and smash it one night...just when you finally get ready to do it, manning up in the bathroom mirror...you look down and see the EPT box in the trash.
Once you start down the Father-side, forever will it dominate your destiny.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:57 am to 19
You better do it quick OP giving her a month or less to find a new place is not a lot of time if she is responsible.
If you want some good advice, jerk off a couple times before you do it. That way you won't have any ounce of sexual need from her. She is going to try and prevent you from doing it and be all over you most likely initially. The last thing you want is to bang her because of your emotions.
If you want some good advice, jerk off a couple times before you do it. That way you won't have any ounce of sexual need from her. She is going to try and prevent you from doing it and be all over you most likely initially. The last thing you want is to bang her because of your emotions.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:58 am to baldona
Great info Baldona!!
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 9:59 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:58 am to 19
If rintin really wants to destroy this wonder girl, he'll buy a wedding ring box (without ring of course), put a breakup note inside, and then give it to her in front of his family on Christmas Eve beside the Christmas tree and warm cozy fire.
That would be an epic way to go out! This wonderful woman deserves everything coming to her.
That would be an epic way to go out! This wonderful woman deserves everything coming to her.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:58 am to 19
If you're not happy you are doing the right thing. I hope the breakup goes smoothly for poth parties.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:59 am to Guido Merkens
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I Was telling him what his future will look like if he stays with her.
He isn't really into her and she's all about him. your ex essentially cheated on you. Nothing about your past and his story is in the same boat
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:59 am to rintintin
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues.
She was abused by her father and has severe insecurity due to it.
It affects our relationship immensely. She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling. I'm the complete opposite.
She's always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly. Just a hamster wheel of the same shite.
It also affects her relationship with others. She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this.
She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends and she can't due to work or whatever else.
I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things.
That's a few. Also financial issues and irresponsibility elsewhere in her life.
And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
What I don't understand is that you've known you needed out for months, yet you waited this long to pull the trigger. Have you been reassuring her during these weekly spells while knowing you wanted out?
I'm not questioning the why you want out, but rather the timing of it and the waiting to do it for so long.
She sounds needy and rather smothering. That's a problem. She probably needs some professional help for those issues, but goodness, waiting to do this is not very nice. You should have done it when you knew it, moved out to a temp place while continuing to pay your portion of the lease until the end.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:00 am to rintintin
Sorry, but it's a shite thing to do before Christmas. If you were going to pull this trigger, you needed to do it a week before Thanksgiving.
Suck it up, put on a happy face, and street her after New Year's.
Suck it up, put on a happy face, and street her after New Year's.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:01 am to 13SaintTiger
Daddy issues are a motherfricker
And a husband replaces a woman's father as her role model / protector so if she has negative feelings toward her dad, they will project onto rintin at some point when times get hard or she can't get her way or hates her Mom Body.
And a husband replaces a woman's father as her role model / protector so if she has negative feelings toward her dad, they will project onto rintin at some point when times get hard or she can't get her way or hates her Mom Body.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:03 am to udtiger
Do it tonight - she has 30 days to find a place.
Y'all can't wait and start a new lease on 1/1.
Y'all can't wait and start a new lease on 1/1.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:03 am to Gris Gris
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I'm not questioning the why you want out, but rather the timing of it and the waiting to do it for so long.
I answered this in a post above. It has to do with our lease.
Yes, I probably should've done it sooner, when I knew I wouldn't marry her, but that time is gone now.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:04 am to rintintin
You should just tell her that you arent going to marry her and that you are miserable when she is around. But dont break up with her. I GUARANTEE she breaks up with you. That will help her get over it. Knowing she did it.
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