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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:17 am to rintintin
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:17 am to rintintin
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It's funny seeing replies like this, which insinuate you have to either deal with being unhappy with a broken relationship, or be gay, miserable, and lonely
I think most who are saying this feel the same why I do, they just didn't have the courage to make a change.
Nahh, the lot of us are emotionally stable(I think), grown men that realize relationships are constant work full of sacrifice and evolving feelings. If a light bulb is out in your house, you don't go buy a new house.
Like I tell my SO, I don't always like you, but I always love you.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:18 am to rintintin
Report back with how it goes.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:18 am to rintintin
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She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal,
This describes the type of girl 95% of the guys here would want to marry.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:18 am to rintintin
quote:Do what makes you happy, bruh. Just make sure you've got some for sure pussy somewhere else
rintintin
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:18 am to rintintin
go to vegas and marry a dancer.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:19 am to Steadyhands
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lol, yep, kind of reveals where everyone is at in this exact same process op is going through. Some in denial, some in regret, and some that have finally found happiness and moved on...etc.
Lol, yeah I think most replies here express the posters feelings about themselves and their own relationships.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:21 am to Steadyhands
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probably a quarter of us on here have already done this, been exactly in that spot, and did the frick up. It is an unfortunate thing that you can't sometimes realize what you had until it's gone.
That thought was what kept me with my now-wife. I had every intention of playing the field when I went to college, but I met her my sophomore year and she was exactly the girl I needed. Yeah, would have felt good for awhile to sow my wild oats or whatever, but I know for a fact I would never have been able to forgive myself if I let her go. Gotta think long term.
And, damn, I actually love (and like) her more now, 9 years after I first met her, than in the beginning.
If you KNOW have a good thing, you don't let it go unless you're a self-saboteur.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:22 am to rintintin
You had to know you were going to get these kinds of responses.
I get it. You can deal with crazy if the benefits outweigh the bad (having lots of sex, security, whatever). When the benefits wane, things become too imbalanced to make it feel worthwhile.
She is going to lose her shite. The best thing you can do is totally cut contact after you do it. Don't try to be friends or offer any kind of assurance like that. It'll only prolong misery on both sides & give her false hope.
I get it. You can deal with crazy if the benefits outweigh the bad (having lots of sex, security, whatever). When the benefits wane, things become too imbalanced to make it feel worthwhile.
She is going to lose her shite. The best thing you can do is totally cut contact after you do it. Don't try to be friends or offer any kind of assurance like that. It'll only prolong misery on both sides & give her false hope.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:22 am to rintintin
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yeah I think most replies here express the posters feelings about themselves and their own relationships.
it would be only fair if she posted here so we can get her side of the story and fairly evaluate from then on.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:22 am to rintintin
Don't do it!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:23 am to sjmabry
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:24 am to ThatMakesSense
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Nahh, the lot of us are emotionally stable(I think), grown men that realize relationships are constant work full of sacrifice and evolving feelings. If a light bulb is out in your house, you don't go buy a new house.
So what in your opinion is reason enough to break off a relationship?
You should just be stuck with someone because you should sacrifice and work through it?
It's not like I'm married, have 3 kids and a house. By that point it's too late IMO.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:24 am to rocket31
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How does being introverted with commitment issues equal bipolar and insecure again?
I literally explained it in detail multiple times in this thread...and he hasn't told me I'm wrong.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:24 am to rintintin
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I think most who are saying this feel the same why I do, they just didn't have the courage to make a change.
That's a BINGO, Mutherfuker!
MJ2 - Mrs. 19 just blew you a kiss.
50- ...there were times when her paycheck would've made for a sunnier day...so, yeah...there were times, I can't lie.
Killz- Take your psychobabble and shove it up your arse. Bipolar. GFY.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:25 am to rintintin
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I think most who are saying this feel the same why I do, they just didn't have the courage to make a change.
Preeeeeeeaaaaach
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:27 am to 19
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That's a BINGO, Mutherfuker!
The proper lingo is, "That's a geaux tigers, Motherfricker!"
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:27 am to mizzoukills
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He's strung her along because he knows she's a gift and he cannot do better but he also knows he will eventually destroy the relationship because he doesn't believe he deserves her. He thinks she can do better and one day she will realize this and leave him.
Bipolar is a terrible world to live in. That's why he's miserable. He's creating what his mind has convinced him will one day happen. He's convinced himself that he'll be happier alone than constantly paranoid in a relationship.
He's trapped in his mind and that must suck.
I'm sorry but this is pretty astute. How did you come up with this analysis? I'm pretty impressed as it sort of relates to a situation I'm going through right now.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:28 am to mizzoukills
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I hope you realize that fricking strangers, while fun at first, will get old fast and you'll sit around longing for the companionship you once had with this girl.
Quality post.
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mizzoukills
what the in the....
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:28 am to LSUBoo
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"That's a geaux tigers, Motherfricker!"
I stand corrected, sir.
But I'm so disgusted with Rantards right now I can't even....
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:28 am to rintintin
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It's funny seeing replies like this, which insinuate you have to either deal with being unhappy with a broken relationship, or be gay, miserable, and lonely
No, he's saying you have to MAKE it what you want. I'm seeing you just aren't a man. Thinking a great sex life just happens is stupid, or a great love.
It ALL takes work and guidance by a man, not a kid. Like being a good professional, you aren't top of your work unless you have busted arse for a # of years, not just because you show up.
All you've been doing is showing up for this relationship. Getting rid of her won't get rid of your problems of not being a man. It will only prolong your problems. Yes, she'll be fine because she is doing things right an expecting the relationship to progress. She sounds legit and will find a MAN soon.
And you'll find a cute girl and spend many nights (maybe after great sex) lying in bed wondering why you threw away a woman who treated you so great.
Hope your decision ends well for both of you. Having sex once a month is more your problem than hers. As they age, they want it more each day.
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