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Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:30 am to Sam Quint
Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:30 am to Sam Quint
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even though I'm not currently going through a divorce, i'm in a messed up marriage that i'm hanging with for my kids. the last month or so has been acutely difficult, even more than usual. i havent been sleeping well, and i'm really stressed out.
Have you tried marriage counseling?
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Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:53 am to TexasTiger08
Been there done that 3 times. All were different. One came out of no where although, she wanted a husband home every night and I was gone 200-250 days a year. When she knew… she wouldn’t take any family possessions my grandmothers were giving her.
2 saw it a mile away. Still sucked but it is what it is.
3 worked my arse off everyday 10-12 hours and the day I come home back to a normal 8 hour day and no weekends…. She blindsided me. It all sucks but you have to believe something out there is better. Do all the things you’ve always wanted to do. Good luck
2 saw it a mile away. Still sucked but it is what it is.
3 worked my arse off everyday 10-12 hours and the day I come home back to a normal 8 hour day and no weekends…. She blindsided me. It all sucks but you have to believe something out there is better. Do all the things you’ve always wanted to do. Good luck
Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:56 am to TexasTiger08
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I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
Good for you baw. frick her and the horse she rode on.
When the going gets tough, the tough get going.
Do you have kids in the equation? Hopefully no.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 9:02 am to TexasTiger08
question is.... when do her pictures get posted? before or after the actual divorce? 
Posted on 7/11/23 at 9:03 am to JimTiger72
Worth a shot before there’s no turning back.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 9:08 am to GeauxtigersMs36
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Been there done that 3 times.
Are you gonna do it again?
Eventually you have to look in the mirror for the problem
Posted on 7/11/23 at 9:13 am to Ancient Astronaut
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Any updates on bombshell?
The coworker the bitch is banging is the crackhead brother who's lost in Nola.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:06 am to LSUballs
It’s bs how the op comes on here for support and then leaves us hanging like this. Wtf
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:11 am to LSUballs
could you imagine a shitty wife throwing her marriage away for a druggie living with his mom 
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:41 am to TexasTiger08
It wasn’t the bad drinking episode that weighed heavy on her, it was probably your depression.
She probably also thought that you thinking a new job would be the silver bullet meant that you didn’t recognize that your depression was a serious problem. That’s probably when she started looking around.
I’d add that your “waiting to see a psychiatrist” is further evidence that you either don’t believe you’re depressed, or you were passive aggressively asking her to make the first move to end it because that’s easier and you get plausible deniability. Mental health takes more proactive introspection than you may be capable of right now, but fear not, you’re young.
She probably also thought that you thinking a new job would be the silver bullet meant that you didn’t recognize that your depression was a serious problem. That’s probably when she started looking around.
I’d add that your “waiting to see a psychiatrist” is further evidence that you either don’t believe you’re depressed, or you were passive aggressively asking her to make the first move to end it because that’s easier and you get plausible deniability. Mental health takes more proactive introspection than you may be capable of right now, but fear not, you’re young.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:03 am to TexasTiger08
All breakups come down to basic incompatibility. It may take some time to discover this through actions and circumstance, but if it isn't meant to be, the rift will happen.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:40 am to JimTiger72
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Have you tried marriage counseling?
More than I care to recall
Posted on 7/11/23 at 12:13 pm to TexasTiger08
You’re either too old to be drinking like that, or too young to be married. Hope you find some help for the problem drinking. A grown woman needs a grown man.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 12:34 pm to TexasTiger08
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Posted on 7/11/23 at 1:08 pm to tigersownall
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On page 21 after everything we know?
Posted on 7/11/23 at 1:09 pm to Tortious
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On page 21 after everything we know?
there are those of us still wondering about the bombshell but OPs lawyer has likely told him to keep whatever it is under wraps
Posted on 7/11/23 at 1:20 pm to Napoleon
You got her daughter?? Doesn’t say much for your ex.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 3:05 pm to jiffyjohnson
Exactly
Posted on 7/11/23 at 3:52 pm to CaptainsWafer
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I’m not saying this guy is an alcoholic, but I’m of the opinion that his ole lady may have been gaslighting him in the sense that his intake or the amount of was the problem, rather than the anxiety of knowing (now proven) that she was running around on him.
ETA Maybe his alcohol wasn’t the actual problem.
Bros, its always the problem.
This exact statement is why alcohol will live in infamy and is the ultimate devil in disguise.
Posted on 7/11/23 at 3:55 pm to Big4SALTbro
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I don’t think he is blameless, he admitted to a drinking problem even missing an event because of it and before that he was depressed. Him not being on his shite gave the window for her to step out. She might have done it anyways, both at fault here though as he could have ran a tighter ship.
OP will have to come to grips with the alcohol. If he gets help this will be brought up and thrown in his face for accountability.
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