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I feel you. For two years now I've doubted my love for my wife. I didn't feel a connection anymore. I didn't want to really try and she didn't either. I helped raise her two kids but we lost our one pregnancy. That caused a small issue. It was really covid and the arguments during that really caused a lot of issues. Then her wanting to go full on in on kids activities and not having any time for us. Even though there was another parent who should have been there to help.
It got to be only vacations and the occasional date would be all we had.
We went on 4 trips in a year and everyone we argued.
Then she went on a school trip and I went to Amsterdam. I did Amsterdam stuff and she got close to a band dad.
We spit pretty amicably. With her moving out and not taking anything but furniture and a car I got her daughter.
Since then I've traveled. Met many woman I actually have fun with and have been living my life.

I regret not having kids of my own and regret that I don't have a relationship with my step kids of nearly 10 years. But all in all separation was the best choice. Finally filled the papers. Still not 6 months but I moved our break up date back.
She went right into a full time relationship with a older, fatter, balder guy so I actually feel good about my conquest now. Plus I've lost 50 pounds since being single and tinder, bumble and passport bro-ing is a ton of fun.

Get them both fired

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that the other guy left his family for OP’s soon to be ex-wife

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Congrats on the easiest sex ever

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She had the autonomy to, instead of cheating, address his drinking like an adult. An intervention, going to therapy with him, etc.

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Everyone knows this is not how women operate if they’re truly done (she was looking for her out after the embarrassing wedding incident). She needed another branch to grab onto before letting him go, and she couldn’t lock the coworker down without giving it up.

The truth is TT08, you need to get your arse in the gym and get the frick over this depression. Get your bloodwork checked and see if TRT is right for you. Stop drinking for at least 6 months while you train and get in shape and reassess your situation at that time as to whether you can have a couple on the weekend.

frick golf and frick alcohol. Do things that improve you physically and emotionally—something that will attract another partner

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Would not surprise me if shes banging a guy from work.

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that foreshadowing

Hate it for you man. It sucks and you don’t have any control right now.

Hang in there, this isn’t the end of your life.

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some deep dickin when she gets home later.

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Ah, pulling out the dildo…

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something that will attract another partner

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screw that. If it’s two years or 20 enjoy your time. I agree w the rest but don’t do it to find another gal.

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no kids? sell all your shite and move to Mexico, Colombia or Southeast Asia. get a job teaching English, a place near the beach and bang 10s at will. you won’t even remember her name after a few months

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Solid advice!