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re: Tipping Priests for Baptism
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:37 pm to Circle K Beggar
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:37 pm to Circle K Beggar
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Ignoring the many, many good priests out there.


Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:38 pm to Farkwad
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grown men who don’t want sex with adult women
Just admit that you always strike out with women. That's why you're so angry.
This post was edited on 5/20/15 at 8:40 pm
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:39 pm to Circle K Beggar
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better than being you. wanting sex and continuously striking out.
damn you are lame, is that the best you got?

father nelson must have fricked your brown hole so hard that you became delusional and crazy, you dumb dumb!

Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:40 pm to Farkwad
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father nelson must have fricked your brown hole so hard
keep your fantasies out of this
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:41 pm to Circle K Beggar
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keep your fantasies out of this
Oh stop it! Now you are getting all crazzzzzy! I concede! Mercy, mercy!!!



Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:42 pm to Farkwad
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Here come the bead bumpers
I'm agnostic and haven't been to a mass in almost 20 years. Doesn't change the fact that you're coming on so strong that you are either legitimately stupid or jaded by an experience.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:45 pm to junkfunky
I'm all for taking the priest to dinner after the baptism. But, what does a $100 tip do differently than a $100 donation in the Sunday offering plate ?
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:47 pm to junkfunky
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I'm agnostic
sure you are.. Sorry for being so strong
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:48 pm to Buck Dancer
I never considered it a "tip". Its always been an extra donation to the church to show appreciation for services. We did give the priest at our wedding money, but he traveled over an hour to marry us.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:49 pm to Buck Dancer
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I'm all for taking the priest to dinner after the baptism. But, what does a $100 tip do differently than a $100 donation in the Sunday offering plate ?
I think (and hope, honestly) that the tradition started with a gift, like a dinner, and we've just become so lazy that people just decided they'd rather give the priest some money somewhere along the line.
However, the money in the collection plate goes to a lot more than the priest's modest salary. Like I jokingly said in my first post, a gift is the way to go.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:50 pm to Farkwad
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sure you are
k
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Sorry for being so strong
no skin off my back
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:52 pm to KG6
quote:Correct. It's an honorarium to show appreciation to the officiant. Just like at weddings & funerals. It's not that difficult. And it's not in the same category as a tip unless you are a crass non-appreciative oafish type person.
I never considered it a "tip". Its always been an extra donation
This post was edited on 5/20/15 at 8:55 pm
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:53 pm to Bullfrog
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Correct. It's an honorarium to show appreciation to the officiant. Just like at weddings & funerals. It's not the difficult. And it's not in the same category as a tip.
Yep.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 8:55 pm to Bullfrog
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Correct. It's an honorarium to show appreciation to the officiant. Just like at weddings & funerals. It's not thT difficult. And it's not in the same category as a tip unless you are a crass non-appreciative oafish type person.

We gave the justice of the peace $100 for our wedding.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 9:10 pm to Bullfrog
Not really. That money is for the priest. Not the church. My family has given gifts to our priest so he could go enjoy a nice night out. This is in addition to regular tithings.
This post was edited on 5/20/15 at 9:11 pm
Posted on 5/20/15 at 9:14 pm to 3HourTour
When did a baptism become a trip to TGI Fridays?
Posted on 5/20/15 at 9:38 pm to Chicageaux14
I never knew this was a thing.
Posted on 5/20/15 at 9:54 pm to Pettifogger
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Is this just a Catholic thing? Is it different because protestant baptisms are a part of the service?
We had the option to do it during mass or just with family. We chose to do it by ourselves so we could take pictures and because our son was a bit older at 10 months. Good thing too, because he high fived the priest during the blessing.

Posted on 5/21/15 at 12:11 am to Chazzy McRamzee
Priests have a call to serve the congregation. No way do I tip a priest. Sacraments are not for sale. Any priest asking for money should be reported to the local diocese. This is no joke.
If you want to ask a priest or deacon to dinner that is fine. The Catholic Church is rich enough. Baptism is a gift. It is not for sale.
If you want to ask a priest or deacon to dinner that is fine. The Catholic Church is rich enough. Baptism is a gift. It is not for sale.
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